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Na woman go use her hand take spoil her life

Even if na you will you like who always expose your way of life

ThinkSmarter:
Yes, especially at the initial stage of the marriage when she's still young.
Only upgrade her when she has birthed up to two kids or more, and then be emotionally ready to face whatever that comes.
Cuz, she may change.
She may start disrespecting your authority and she may start diverting resources to her family.
Except, she is an exceptional good wife, which you should be able to know from the few years you have lived together.
Cuz, few good wives still exist regardless of the high number of bad ones.
And while upgrading your wife, make sure the wealth control is 70:30.
Cuz, anything close to 50:50 will make her to see you as her equal or less.
But, if she's exceptional like I pinpointed.
Cuz, some women are human builders and good in managing wealth.
You can fully empower her and maker her the CEO of your family wealth.
Cuz, deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

deep down wise women knows that the family wealth belongs to their kids, so they get careful in its management.

Well said

She maybe looking for husband but that not her real age

Na woman go use her hand finish her pussy by her self

Some woman dont know how to say no
Meanwhile your pussy mile keep increasing

You can see how ladies dress then,

But now unko, dey believe until dey open there body before man will call them

Some even share there nudes online

Orishi rishi

Rip gallant

lagonovo:
@MrPresident1
cc: @Shikena
So you stop fooling yourself by playing the ostrich.

BWALA, WHERE DO YOU LIVE?! – A Scathing Open Letter to a Clueless Adviser Who Thinks ₦60k Is Living Large.

By RRH LANE

Mr. Daniel Bwala, with all due respect (which is currently hovering at exactly ₦0.00), which country are you living in? Because it certainly isn't the Nigeria the rest of us are desperately trying to survive in.

You sat comfortably—likely in an air-conditioned room with stable NEPA (sorry, grumbling generators) and a full fridge—and told Nigerians earning ₦60,000 that they are "better off" than those who "Japa" to the UK. You called care home workers "modern-day slaves."

Mr. Bwala, hypocrisy is not a policy communication strategy, and gaslighting a starving population is not a job description. Let's peel this onion until it burns your eyes, shall we?

1. ₦60,000? That's Not a Salary; That's a Death Sentence

Let's do basic mathematics—the kind they teach in Primary 3.

· A 50kg bag of rice today? ₦80,000 - ₦85,000.
· A litre of petrol? Pushing ₦900 - ₦1,000.
· Transport to work in Lagos for one month? At least ₦40,000 if you're lucky.

Mr. Bwala, if a Nigerian earns ₦60,000, they cannot afford just the bag of rice for the month, let alone transport, rent, school fees, or healthcare. They are not "better off"—they are one sickness away from the village cemetery. You are telling a man with a bleeding ulcer to reject a £2,600 monthly salary in the UK because he'll pay high rent? Meanwhile, in Nigeria, he can't even afford the paracetamol to stop the headache you're giving us with your foolish talk!

2. The Hypocrisy Hall of Fame: You Ran There First!

Here is the part that makes my blood boil: You are a UK resident!

You, Daniel Bwala, have tasted the comfort of the West. You know what it feels like to walk on paved roads without dodging okada riders. You know what it feels like to have 24/7 electricity. You know what it means to send your child to a school where they actually teach without being kidnapped.

And now that you've secured your spot in the cold, you want to turn around and lock the door behind you? You want to tell the young Nigerian doctor, the brilliant engineer, the desperate graduate that they should "stay" and suffer because you say so?

You cannot enjoy the chicken in the UK and tell the man in Nigeria to be happy with the bones. That is not advice; that is wickedness dressed in a suit.

3. "Modern-Day Slavery"? Insult to the Migrant, Insult to History

You had the audacity to call UK care work "modern-day slavery."

Mr. Bwala, do you know what modern-day slavery looks like? It looks like a Nigerian lecturer earning ₦60k after 10 years of service, forced to hawk sachet water after work to feed his kids. It looks like a nurse in a government hospital treating 50 patients with two pairs of gloves because there are no supplies.

Those migrants you mock are heroes. They work 12-hour shifts in care homes, scrub toilets, and carry the elderly—not because they love it, but because they are fighting for their families. They send those "scraps" you mock back home as remittances—over $22 billion annually—keeping the Nigerian economy afloat while your government mismanages oil money. Without them, Nigeria would have collapsed already. Show some respect!

4. The Real Delusion: Your Salary vs. Their Reality

Let's talk about your paycheck, Mr. Special Adviser. How much does the Federal Government pay you? Is it ₦60,000? No! Is it ₦600,000? Probably more!

You live in a bubble of SUVs, security details, and diplomatic passports. You have no idea what it means to wake up at 4 AM to queue for fuel, or to sit in traffic for 4 hours on the Lagos-Ibadan road, or to pay "levies" to touts just to sell pure water.

You lecture us about "family support cushions" while you sit in the Presidential Villa. Do you know that for the average Nigerian, "family support" means 10 unemployed relatives sleeping on your parlor floor, all depending on that ₦60k? That is not a cushion; that is a millstone around the neck!

5. The Challenge: Come and Survive on ₦60k for One Month

Here is my final word to you, Mr. Bwala.

If you truly believe that ₦60,000 is a "superior" life, resign your job immediately. Forfeit your UK visa. Cancel your children's UK schooling. Move to a face-me-I-face-you apartment in Mushin or Ajegunle. Live on exactly ₦60,000 for 30 days—no generator, no driver, no security, no family sending you foreign currency.

Try to feed, transport, and hydrate yourself for just one week.

If you survive, come back and talk. But we both know you wouldn't last 48 hours.

So please, Mr. Bwala, spare us the lectures. Japa is not the disease—it is the symptom of a government that fails to provide light, security, or hope. Until you fix the country, stop mocking the people who are smart enough to run away from the dumpster fire.

You are out of touch. You are out of order. And frankly, you are out of your mind.

#DanielBwala #Japa #JapaIsNotTheDisease #NigeriaEconomy #EndBadGovernance #60kIsPoverty #HypocrisyAtItsPeak #BwalaMustHear #NaijaYouth #BrainDrain #RemittancesKeepUsAlive #TinubuAdviser #GaslightingNigeria #ComeAndSurviveOn60k #OurMothersAreNotSlaves #JapaMovement #NigeriaWeHustle #EarnYourKeep #SpeakTruthToPower #PepperDem

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No knowledge is waste

Before killing him, dey should try get some information about that alihaji. Cos na them dey fund them

When you join the Nigeria army, you living long is 50/50 must expecially when you don't know oga at the top.


Anyway I wish them all the best

Nigerian guyz too are not ready to settle for less. You see woman coming from 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 and also 🌎 around the world to pick our men


So na there make you sit down with your money. You will know better when you ageing

Once you join Cultizm, just know you dont have rest of mind, for the rest of your life

MrSword:
Anything you are seeing in relationship...once you enter marriage...it will be promax.

Those that cheat in relationships...will cheat more in marriage.
Those that beat their partners...will do worst in marriage.

Marriage doesn't change anybody...it only reveal the true color of that person.

You say my mind, just imagine you place your woman on monthly allowance. And yet she still cheat on you. just like i use to say, woman don't know what dey want Dey are very confusing human

How i wish you give am the last 2k to make the money 6500. She for show up on Sunday


So definitely na you Bleep up like that

Take this meat 🍖 you say na bone. Then trow it away, you still say small meat dey there


What you can't eat, pls don't smell it

Where is he writing that once a man start making money, the next thing na woman


Abi you still forget that is not everybody that will have money

TheNonexisting:
Wasting a good talent on petty business when there are many oyibo women on the internet searching for love. Mtchew

Oh really

Lovelink1991:
Until you translate it into English it is meaningless to me and my English parable is still supreme over your decision

Oh ok

Lovelink1991:
PARABLE: If you consider longness of snake you will not see the stick that you will use in killing it. So just overlook and pick one

when Woli Arole say (.o deep )

You should understand.
O ye koyi e

Jump into any river you see, you go from there enter 🇺🇸


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Body count of some young ladies, is older than Nigeria my country and yet still counting.


But older woman dey have respect for there body.

Style plenty just wait make i meet the love of my life too

You better leave your mum out of this and work on your self

Or you forget you can be born from a poor family. But will be too bad for you when you die poor

VeryHungryGoat:
I just receive a break up message this morning, I don’t even know what to do guys.. We were acting sweet yesterday calling ourselves. my life, my love, my everything, my peace. She even promised I’m her only person . Only to receive the shock of my life this morning.. I’m really confused. Is this how girls normally do She is my first love. I love her so much… My heart is currently getting heavy… Could it be prank??

That is the power of what woman can do


Man move on

Family who does not have Jesus as there lord and saviour.


Lol

essentialone:
Why are some ladies naturally Bitter, Angry, Vengeful, Aggressive, & Stubborn?

All of this in one person

This people sha dey spoil our country name more more

Yes
No

Good, no be everybody go dey see my number