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I do not want to be a daddy yet

kzubyar:
congratulations you will be come a daddy sooo

Initially she instead I use a condom ooooo nah me say no I want raw. It all my fault just need a way forward now

Farki:
My guy you are being taken for a ride, nothing she said is a consistent with being pregnant because it takes at least 2 weeks for after her first missed period to show signs.

How can you tell me that after 5 day she's pregnant with no tests to confirm?

Even the circumstances leading up to this make no sense, how will a girl open legs for you after few days of meeting, not use use BC or protection and you won't be a little bit suspicious?

Maybe she was pregnant before and wants to use you as a mugu.

Don't be a mugu, get proper sex education.

Bomb dey ur head too thanks

Openbusiness:
His head is empty, nothing inside again. The bomb don bomb him head finish

Ok

SmellingAnus:
Take my word.... She is not pregnant... But please next time use a condom if you know you cannot stand the heat...

I say she is shy cox she cover her face when I am bleeping her. She has bleep someone else before which is her first boyfriend then I am the second one. she did left the house after begging her. All the blame is on me I accepted all I need now is a way to get out as soon as I find out if truly she is pregnant or not then I will break up immediately cox I do not want complication on my life.

daben1:
she's shy, you doubt if she has fuccked someone else, she never leaves the house but she's not shy to fucck you, she left the house to come and Bleep you... At early 20 you suppose Don get sense na, what happened to your sense at early 20?

As for bf I think and assumes I am the only one around. she came this my location feb and ever since then she hardly come out. I will get the test strip once pharmacy opens.

panmunium:
Just go to any pharmacy and asknof pregnancy test strip, tell them to teach you how to used it or read the manual. Use her early morning urine sample for the test before you know the next step. Also find out if you're the only boyfriend around

Peace too bro thanks for coming through I appreciate man. I am happy I am getting a nice response from persons like you.

tegaofficial10:
Firstly there's no telling if she's pregnant or not, I suggest you carry out a pregnancy test to confirm your suspicion, 1 week is too early to see symptoms, and NO a missed period is not always a sign of pregnancy, buy a pregnancy test strip it's a #100 for one, tell her to follow the instructions. Quite certain she's not pregnant just hormonal imbalances, but if she is then MAMA dey try pin pesin pikin 4 ur head. Alternatively if she can leave the house go to the hospital for a proper test, how old the pregnancy is (if she's truly pregnant) will save or sink you.

Peace brother

Thanks mike I appreciate you coming through with that. I just believe that she is not pregnant

PattyMike:
It's too early for her to be pregnant. Like person talk, it is either she don give u another person belle. Or she is scared, believe in your pull out game bro, as long as u didn't cum inside, how cum. I have been using the pullout technique for the past 5-6 years and it has never failed, yes I have a spotless clean sheet.
It takes at least 2 to 3 weeks to know if she's pregnant. First sign would be her missing her period, don't give any girl any drugs o. It's been over 48 abi 72 hours so postinor can't work again. If u give d gal nonsense and she get ill from it, then u are in very big soup. By the way shy gals are the most promiscuous girls I have ever seen.

Thanks Shalom I noted your comment too as very useful and helpful too I appreciate

Norphiee:
With what you wrote, I don't think she is pregnant, but to my own understanding sex do change menstrual cycle and maybe she is having menstrual pain

Because have never heard a pregnant woman seeing her period

*If she is actually pregnant, she won't see her period*

Shalom

OK thanks a lot for your advice. I intend to get her a pregnancy test kit as many has advised me here and again someone just advise me of sugar test which I have told her to do tomorrow morning through text. I love her lol but right now if she is pregnant we can not afford to keep the child because we are not capable. first of all if my family know they will disown me then on her own case they might not accept her either then how do you want us to start life. All my dreams of becoming something useful will be gone. I am against abortion all my life but they say when you are not in a problem you will blame those who have done it before. Imagine something I am against is what I am supporting now. Life is really complicated as they say. Right now maybe I should accept my fate but I need to make sure she is truly pregnant.

UndauntedYOCA:
You call this short? Lol.
Well, if you aren't ready to be a father then I'd suggest you keep your dick where it belongs because when you have sex with a female, anything can happen, there are some pregnancies that are super stubborn and no matter how much you try to abort, they won't get aborted.
To your problem, the first thing you should ascertain is if truly she is pregnant, buy her pregnancy test strip, maybe two, she can use them to know if she is pregnant or not, mind you, sometimes one might be pregnant but the PT strip will show negative. Do not just give her just any drugs ooooo, make she no go die.
I've never been pregnant so I wouldn't know how quickly the symptoms surface.
Furthermore, I do not support abortion because complications often arise and some may lead to death. Also, I have an aunt who got pregnant when she was young, the guy told her to abort the pregnancy, he denied being responsible and never took responsibility for the child, guess what, my aunt found someone who accepted her with the child, got married and now have other kids but the guy who impregnated her when she was young is also married without any child save from my cousin. My dad also asked my mum to get rid of me when she was pregnant with me, thank goodness she didn't because my dad is now late but left behind my bro and I and he adored me till his demise even though he didn't come see me till after I had been named.
Lastly, do not mind anyone saying she sleeps around because while that may be true, what if she doesn't? Don't let other people's trust issues get in the way of your happiness. If you trust her enough then let it be that way till you have a convincing evidence that she's promiscuous, most of the people here on NL are sadists who have trust issues and always the negativity in everything, they have nothing good to say and believe everyone is bad, don't let that be you.
All the best in whatever you decide to do.

Thanks a lot man I didn't actually believe I will get all this wonderful response from good person like you. I appreciate

schumastic:
She is not pregnant, and if she is I can assure you that the pregnancy is not yours. So just play along with her.

Tell her to do a strip test. She can read the manual to know how to go about it. It’s self explanatory.

Ok my man

dairykidd:
For ur own good follow what ValCon888 said. She definitely not as innocent as u have been made to believe... Open ur eyes and sense too

MrChriz:
so u want us to help u kill a baby?
When u dey Bleep u call us...?

It has not foam any baby yet

Macqueeny:
Mr Man u guys didn't confirm anything and u r concluding didn't u say u didn't cum inside her, tell her to get pregnancy test kit it just 50# or let her get sugar and put in her early morning urine in it, if it foams she is pregnant if it doesn't she isn't.. and please don't think abt abortion u might endanger her life and it not right

Wow thanks so much for this info. I have sent her a text to do the sugar test hope she can do it now or wait till tomorrow morning?

OK thanks bro

Damilosky9:
Oga OP u don break ur promise, the story too long abeg. Nevertheless, you should confirm her status on the pregnancy before thinking of what to do to it? If she can't visit the hospital for proper test, she can still do it at home using pregnancy test strips which they said it's about 98% accurate...these can be obtained over the counter from drug stores... read about it's usage procedure on google or follow labellings on it...urine na the specimen. If truly she dey pregnant and showing symptoms of it within such a short period of time...hmm...some people don address that, read their comments. #Dey Play safe #

Ok let me believe with fear

SmartHanif:
She's not pregnant, so be rest assured!

What do you suggest I do right now?

devilmaycry:
Neither* do i ...keep that in mind

What I need is advise dear and not to buy materials

BilltheDON:
Check my signature

Haha I am confused right now. I do not know what to believe.

Oloun:
you pulled out and she became pregnant within four days? If only pregnancy happens like that it would have been better. Nature is wonderful, that means you are type of that teenager that ejaculated in a swimming pool and got twenty something girls or so pregnant

Ok thanks

Warlord2012:
Be ready to be a father shikina.

I still wonder why on earth broke guys enter into a relationship...see his stupid comment "that if he has money he don't mind getting married to her", can you imagine...

You don't have money but you are having an unprotected sex, what do you ever expect to happen

You just got the result of your carelessness....my advice for you is that you should just get ready to become a father.

OK so what are your advise now. Bro I am not ready to be a father yet

Kylekent59:
Before she came to your house, I believe your penis must have been nodding up and down which as a result would allow small quantity of semens to ejaculate out. Now she comes, sex starts, that small quantity gets in and caught as a result of ovulation period.


Oga, we even have three days pregnancy. Every female has different body reactions.

Preshieben:
tell her to go for a test
Don't panic
Pregnancy don't happen so fast.

Ok thank you

Preshieben:
Has she gone for test?

No sis

hefeeluv:
you savin a generation thunder fire who insult you

Nobody is insulting her. I only ask if the postinor 2 will still work again since it nearly a week we had sex?

Kylekent59:
Stop adding fire to the OP's problem. Don't distract him from taking responsibility. He owns that child, stop making him believe the girl sleeps around just because it took OP a week to get her.

So do you believe someone can be pregnant within a week? If she is pregnant I won't denied it but I am just not ready in every aspect of life. I have people looking up to me.

Luizkid:
Both of you early twenties? I think nairaland should start having threads based on age groups. It's obvious too many kids are taking over fp with useless topics.

Your law says 18 years old is a youth so are you saying I am not of age to be here. well I am 24 since you intend to know my age. Offer sincere advice and leave age because it is just a number bro

Thanks bro for coming through. I appreciate a lot. I have been telling her to calm down but she is not listening currently I can not get to her cox she has refuse to pick my calls

ferdvict2:
She has malaria and typhoid.
Her body is reacting because it's long she engaged on sex.
Also, her mind has been disturbed since after the sex.
Tell her to calm her Nerves down.
She is not Pregnant.

Thanks again bro I appreciate you coming through.

Premiumwriter:
Bros na she carry belle. No be you carry am.


Leave the calls. When she's seriously she'll call you.

Don't accept responsibility when you're not sure. Question her well well. Personally, I feel 95% sure that you are not the owner of the pregnancy if she's truly pregnant.

Pregnancy symptoms start manifesting most times around a week or two not 2 days.

Forget those she's shy talk. Lots of girls are undercover hoes. All the need is someone with good privacy for them to unleash their true nature.

slimanyd:
Nah malaria dey do am

Abi well she suppose to see her period every 13 or 17 of every month I think I have to wait and see how things work out before taken action but first I have to get her do a pregnant test as advised already here.

SweetCunt97:
Why are u not ready?

Because I am not financial stable right now

Eastson:
If life was sensible, the world would be very organsied and peaceful.

Life is chaotic and wholly troublesome. Full of mistakes too

The life is not balance I know but we do make mistake in one way or the other. I did mine so I believe I will get over it. I have not be able to sleep ever since yesterday. How can I sleep when my gf says I pregnant her putting me in a thinking mood.

slimanyd:
she's not pregnant bro.

Let me assumes and believe bro coz if she is meh I am dead