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dalongjnr:
No! Unless you want abortion, that's, if indeed she's pregnant. Go do pregnancy test,because all is speculation.
NB; IN NIGERIA, ABORTION IS ILLEGAL UNLESS FOR THERAPEUTIC REASONS. THANKS.

Fash20:
very sweet script...

you think say we be mumu for here abi

SweetCunt97:
So you think women are ready to marry a man with no self control ready to sleep with them on the first date or within one week? That man will b a womanizer. Who needs such misfortune

dalongjnr:
Too late bro, its to be taken from 0-72 hours after unprotected sex but most effective within first 24hrs.

25tolife:
Something tells me the girl wants to stylishly extort money from you. just saying!!

davealvaro:
that's not enough reason to trust her to d fullest, some girls are more dan this but their hoe phase is something else..I'm 90per sure u are nt responsible for d preg. dont b cool on her as if u are afraid to talk to her..

Darkzayn:
What are you people even saying who gets pregnant in one week? like are u guy this dumb or what? How do you met someone on Monday sex on Thursday then on Saturday she is pregnant op are you stupid or foolish?

Holycity:
bro, that girl is not pregnant, you can see sign of pregnancy in less than a week, and beside you withdrew...
she dey use your brain because she knows you like am, and she wan use that take the collect you money,
if she is actually pregnant I can tell you for sure, it's not your baby, take it or leave it...

remember the innocent looking sale girl a Nairalander posted, maybe she is just like that who knows

dalongjnr:
That's how you guys can easily infect yourselves with STIs including HIV,Hepatitis etc just for less than 2_minutes enjoyment. Those are early signs of HIV/AIDS not only early cyesis(pregnancy).
Next time, test before sex.
Did she even know her menstural cycle? If yes, postinor 2 could have saved you guys from all these stress.

Merciful77:
Not up to a week you said? Get postinor 2 from the pharmacy low price though. The next day after taking the above get a gin small money with alabukun, before taking food in the money she shud take that after which take a enough food she will be alright. Am not a bad girl ooo cause some of you will want to rain insult.

Premiumwriter:
the thing weak me o.


Either she's not pregnant or she got pregnant already, doesn't know the right guy and want to pin the responsibility on the op.

Op you're being naive and a simp. Forget connection, this love may just be happening in your head.

That girl might not feel a thing. No de take women at face value o.

david16:
Baba you dey alright. You just spoke my mind. I don't even need to say anything anymore.

@OP. This is what you need to know o. Also, ill advise you to do a proper pregnancy test. The test kit is 100naira, walk into any pharmacy, ask for PT. Buy it and give it to her to do a proper test.

Good luck !

davidadenrele:
uote author=skymight post=90391766]Help me. My gf is pregnant. I promise to make the story fast and short. I met this fine and beautiful girls just a week ago and we feel so contacted very quickly so the point that I ask her out that particular day and she accepted to date me. I love her a lot and she love me too. Telling the truth if I am financial stable right now I would have marry her. I intend to marry her when the time is ready. We are both in out early twenties. Fast forward, On Monday her aunt went to hospital to see a neighbor who is sick and her baby sister is sleeping so we decided to see each other since from her house to mine is just 1 minutes walk. We live very closely here in GRA. So we had a quick sex in my room( because we no do know when we are going to see each other unless talking on phone, she hardly comes out of the house) and I did not use condom coz I see her as my real girl friend and future wife. (Nah here devil enter) So when I am about to cum I pull out and release on my bed. Seriously we did not even last one minutes coz she is in a hurry to go home so as her baby sister will not wake up and start crying. She enjoy it lol but I did not coz that is just first round but I am OK because she is my girl friend. Wow thanks bro. She told me that her own recycle is usually every 28 days meaning sometimes she sees her period on 13 or late 17 days of every month. and I had sex with her 1st of this month. Is there any possible of her having pregnant. She is been here since feb lol and ever since she is here bro she hardly comes out of the house because according to her she is afraid of corona virus. I met her the day her mom visited her in the aunt's house so as she was accompanying her mom I saw her and waited so as she was coming back that is how I collect number ooo so I don't think she has any other guy at the moment. I am afraid that is why I quickly comes on her to ask for help. She has refuse to pick my calls.

So when we finish I told her to use the bath room and wash up before rushing home which she did. We keep on talking on phone as usual. So on Thursday and Friday she complained of weakness and serious tiredness join with running stomach which I advised her to put salt inside water and drink to stop the running stomach. (that is what I use to do whenever I have a running stomach I learn that from my late grand mom). So yesterday being Saturday I notice her attitude change due to how she responses to me. (I notice the attitude issue first on Friday night but she apologize saying her body is reacting to something she can not explain but the Saturday morning was worst). Since that morning till night she refuse to pick my calls or reply back my messages. Finally she pick up around 9pm after I keep begging her to pick my calls at least to know the problem with her. She picked and her voice was low and she was crying too that the running stomach pain is too much and that she is seeing an early period (I think she mean blood) instead of 13 or 17 that she usually see her period. She was still crying telling me that she has notice all the signs of being pregnant accept vomiting. (She google the signs) She told me told me she feels vomiting ooo but it is not coming out.

(Now the news that puts me in a thinking mood) she told me that she feels and think she is pregnant. Right now I am confused and she don't know what to do either. I told her to do a manual pregnant test to know if she is truly pregnant she said she don't know how to do that. (me I don't know too just hear they do it at home) She has refused to pick my calls again. Before she hang the call she told me that she don't want to have a baby now either do I. (Her aunt is a retired director on revenue board so if she finds out her trust on her will be gone and she will not train her in school anymore) We do not plan for any of this to happen and this is even our first sex (She is not a virgin ooo either do I) Please help me we can not afford to have a baby now. Just both of us that know about this. Please what should we do now. Is there any drugs that she can take to flush everything out since it is not up to a week.

You are free to insult me and I accept all the blame but please help advise me with the drugs to buy for her. This is the first time I am experiencing this. I don't want my family to find out because if they do I am dead. I beg everyone to help me with a drug to buy for her. I have seen people get helped here. Please doctors in the house help me.

Calm down young man, you don't have to start panicking the first to do now is to ask her gently when was the last time she had period, menstrual period are usually in 28 days or 25, 26 days calendar clocks periods, for example if she tells you she sees her period on the 25th of May expect her to see her next period on the same 25th or latest by 26th of June. Did you get that now?? Now you met her in a week had sex within the same week it's not possible she's pregnant except you are guys have been having sex before the said time you claimed or she's not telling you the truth, she probably has other guys smashing her and she's looking for who to hang the pregnancy on.
Lastly you can go the pharmacy and get a pregnancy kit test it does cost much at all follow the kits instruction tell her to come over to your crib house and both of you will check it together to acertained if truly she's pregnant or not.

If she's not sure even after the kits test, take her to a doctor don't be afraid tell the doctor the truth they will check her and tell you what's the outcome of the test is as it's she's not telling you that truth she probably had other guys she had sex with prior to the time she met you and now she is looking for a scape goat be wise be strategic and be tatical girls this days, and age are way much smarter than even than most sharp guys.

All the best.

thariodamaniac:
I dont think she is pregnant just she is scared probably her first unprotected sex....
Do a test like you have been told and avoid drugs first... But if its true and you are the father... Then you decide to abort the child...
May ur village elders abort ur destiny...
You should not start what you cant finish....

DominusPrime:
You need help for two things.
First that brain that told you you can marry a girl who is in her early 20s needs to be reset. Even you are the same age. So you think st this age you already know what you want in a woman or you think at this age she already things she has seen husband? Broke boy like you who is yet to find his feet? You don't know that once that girl has some freedom she will outgrow you? You are not even her first dick. Maybe not 2nd too and you feel you've seen wife...to me this is even the greater of the 2 problems than the pregnancy.

2nd as for the pregnancy the others here will advice you

eazzzy1:
Your girlfriend is paranoid.The first symptom of pregnancy is not seeing her period, other symptoms would happen between 6-8 weeks.

Go to chemist, buy pregnancy test kit, let her read and follow the instructions. Usually she pee on it, after a couple of minutes if it shows 1 line she’s not pregnant, if it shows 2 she is pregnant.

Before you buy abortion pills, make sure she carries out the test. 1 week is too early to know.

ValCon888:
She's shy, but you asked her out in one week and fúcked her without protection?
It's alright.

ValCon888:
If she can fúck you so quickly, she can fúck another guy just as quick. Ensure you're the actual owner of the pregnancy and accept your responsibility.

StubbornGENIUS:
Oga since the sex happened recently, I suggest you find a way to cofirm her status first before risking her life with abortion pills.

StubbornGENIUS:
Nairand mods at it again.Just look at what I read on this beautiful sunday.I advise you to go for a pregnancy test ASAP before making any stupid decision that might destroy your lives. SAY NO TO UNPROTECTED SEX!

DaddyRochie1642:
In Brazil We Call People Like You MUGUdinho Dos Santos


To Slap You Just dey Hungry me

pyyxxaro:
And you still de call her girlfriend



Better bomb de ur head

Amotolongbo:
Some people just think they can come here and just drop anything for us to hop at.

Can someone just explain the sensibility of the bolded part?

Kemchriss:
Good day my great people of nairaland,am deeply sorry to bother you all with my issue, I need your financial assistance anything will do pls,I will work with a private school and I have been managing myself with the little I have on me since the beginning. Of the lockdown till now but things have taken another dimension since last week since I don't have anything on me and I lived with my grandma and to eat has become a great problem for us,I have to bury my pride to write this since I don't have any other option.please anything will do pls just to get some food stuff at home pls. 0229226872,Wema bank.Thank you all and God bless and enrich your pocket.

NB please I have been coming here since 2015 but only as a guest. It is this situation that made me register this afternoon please ,am not lying and you can call me to confirm my story please

Danelo:
Old school