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Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:26pm On Jun 21, 2020
UniversalDove:
don't spend what you can't afford to lose on a woman most especially if she's not spending on you too
Cannot afford to lose. Good one.

Not don't spend a dime on your woman.

These are two different things.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:25pm On Jun 21, 2020
ImaIma1:
I am not good at answering hypothetical questions. But I know that one of the things I cannot condone is cheating. My husband cheating would be disrespectful to me and detrimental to my health and life.
It was supposed to be a yes or no answer.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:24pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
so cos i said i will never spend on a slayqueen i have now automatically become a leech cheesy.from where i come from men take care of their families..they dont splash money around on side chicks cos they they want to proof to the sidechicks that they have money. when u spend without thinking u become broke in the long run cheesy.learn from mike tyson.all those slay queens that mike tyson wasted his money on during his better days how many of them are on his side now cheesy
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:21pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
so cos i said i will never spend on a slayqueen i have now automatically become a leech cheesy.from where i come from men take care of their families..they dont splash money around on side chicks cos they they want to proof to the sidechicks that they have money. [b] when u spend without thinking u become broke in the long run [b/] cheesy.learn from mike tyson.all those slay queens that mike tyson wasted his money on during his better days how many of them are on his side now cheesy
I have also seen those who never spent a dime on a woman remaining poor forever.

How do you explain that? grin
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:19pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
it has nothing to do with poverty cheesy.i have seen some poverty stricken men who foolishly take care of side chicks while neglecting their wives and children.Its just foolishness cheesy.that u are rich doesnt mean u should be splashing ur money around like a slowpoke cheesy.render help to ppl that it would make a big impact in their life...not splashing money on some over painted slayqueen cos she is giving different posing styles on instagram.Men who spend without thinking they refer to such men as money miss road grin
In the end, the money miss roads gets more love. They even snatch your girlfriend and wives while you are their acting stingy. Money always wins in the end. Try to be generous to those you love to avoid hitting the front page to lament that one money miss road has snatched your loved one.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:16pm On Jun 21, 2020
ImaIma1:
More love might not solve it. You have to choose your battles wisely before you will be fighting a lost cause.

A cheat might be a cheat no matter what. Except cheating is something you can condone and live with, it is best not to start what you can't finish.
Will you leave you home as a married woman if you found out that your man cheated?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:15pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
we never had such a mumu custom in our side cheesy.men only go on hunting expedition for the family not for one random girl cheesy
I can now understand you properly. You come from a culture where men leech on women and force their selves on them. If you have come from a culture where men compete to marry the most beautiful women in town, you will not argue with me. grin
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:13pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
even the little u have wont be good enough.If the girl is with u cos of the money u giving her then if she sees another guy who has more than u she will dump u sharp sharp.It never goes well wen a man uses money to keep a woman cheesy.
Maybe you are coming from a background of poverty. Girls see those that can give them large gifts as more capable. They can base their choice of husbands on just a small thing as who gives her more. It will mean that the person can give here and her children more.

Have you ever heard of the term "Omata boys " ?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:09pm On Jun 21, 2020
lefulefu:
they were taking care of their wife and children.not splashing money around like mumu cheesy.imagine a man will train a girl from secondary school to the university cos the girl promised him marriage while neglecting himself educationally in the process and the girl finally dumps him.Thats foolishness not caring cheesy.
Check history, young men went on hunting or fishing expeditions just to trap large animals they can give as gifts to beautiful girls they want to marry. It doesn't always have to be their wives. They took care of their girlfriends too.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:05pm On Jun 21, 2020
obataokenwa:
your parents will not be proud of you as a son. Any girl that cheats on u while u date her, will never stop if you marry her. You don't know what's love
I think your problem is age. You will understand as you grow.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 4:01pm On Jun 21, 2020
Is this a case of poverty?

What could be the reason for our men becoming irresponsible to the extent of denying their age old responsibility of taking care of the women they sleep with?

Our ancestors were proud people, they even fought wars to defend their space and protect their territory and maintain their harem.

Our fathers worked their socks off feeding and protecting their women who in turn carried back goodies from the farms and the market while our daddies enjoyed their looks after buying them clothes and large chunks of meat.

Our own generation has become irresponsible, and even trying to push their responsibility to the women folk. I saw one Nigeria guy who was living with a Jamaican babe here, feeding and knacking freely for months before he got his feet on the ground.

What happened to our pride, why have we become this shameless as to expect to shy away from our responsibility to the women we love.

Again, is this a case of poverty?
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Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 9:07pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
ok lemme guess cheesy
mushin or na osun state?
Hahahahah grin very wrong. I left Nigeria a long time ago but visits more often now . Must marry a girl from Nigeria.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 9:04pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u go throway ur idelogy wants u step out of the country cheesy cheesy cheesy
Wait, where do you think I live? grin grin grin
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 9:03pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:
It be like your new girl dey shack you like palm wine... cheesy cheesy

Anyways, only boys still make ladies matter a priority
If she makes me more productive by supporting me and making sure I am happy, she deserves all the things I surprise her with, don't you think so?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 9:00pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u give money to a girl here she will feel offended and ask u weda u think she"s a prostitute cheesy.any girl u see taking money from a guy here is a hooker.thats how we know dem here cheesy.
Different strokes for different folks. We are talking Nigeria girls here.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:59pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
ok oo but dont come and be writing all the things u spent on her on paper and bugging her to repay u after one malaysian big boy comes to collect her grin grin
Lol at Malaysian big boy grin

That's why I also have to work hard and be a bigger boy than the malaysian one. grin
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:55pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:
When there are so many projects to execute,so na ladies go now be priority?

Enjoying my session ...

Pay as you go and have your peace. grin
Remember, there are also guys we don try small, maybe has a lot of business and completed so many life achievements, how else can they keep themselves happy if not to make others happy too, both male and female.

Seeing that smile on someone's face because of your expensive surprise gift is priceless, and seeing it on the face of a woman you love is a memory to remember forever.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:51pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
look guy all the money u dey spend on the girl she will use it in buying an expensive birthday gift for the guy she really fancies grin grin grin
Is that a reason why I will not take care of her?

What percentage of girls cheat as compared to guys? You will be surprised that men do worse than that.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:45pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:
You are talking as if you are a love addict that can't do without relationship.

Should one do because of love and be going through emotional torture most times?

There are still good ladies out there no doubt but if one is yet to meet those that fits into one Love's map, it's advisable to be double single.

Male friends are no longer loyal not to talk of bit.ch
Guy, it's a necessary evil which you cannot run away from. Just keep looking and praying. The good ones are more than the bad, depending on what one is looking for. Because some will be looking for only pretty ones, others will be looking for only working class.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:42pm On Jun 20, 2020
ImaIma1:
Forget it! Even the ones that go around calling people "simps" and forming voltron, spend on their women.

Don't let them deceive you.
It happened in my presence, a good friend of mine was claiming hard man and that he doesn't spend on women. The day they had trouble and the girl called me to her place to come separate the matter with my friend, I went there and met them both, as we were talking, the girl told me that "although he rented this apartment for me and furnished it last year, I caught him with another babe"

I turned and looked at my guy like "See your life" grin
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:36pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:
See no be about stingy matter... How much is massage session that person go dey waste money on GF wey fit dey sleep around for free self

Mtceeeew. I keep my money, you keep yours or I give you part of my money while you will also give me yours when in need .
Bros we know that massage is massage, being with your woman has its own different feel, the laughs, the Jokes, the late night talks and the companionship has its own quality.

If the GF dey sleep around, you can change her lifestyle with more love. Some men feel that it makes them less of a man to allow a woman they love to be spending on them.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:29pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
feel bad ke shocked..it gets me amused when i see a guy spending all his money on a girl to get her attention.it is the same guy who would come to social media crying that girls are evil and dat dat was how he trained one girl from secondary school to university and she dumped him for one malaysian big boy grin grin grin.when i hear such stories i tend to laugh real hard grin grin grin grin.
No no no, you are deviating from the topic. The issue of a girl leaving you is equaled by the issue of you also dropping the girl after a few bangs, happens all the time.

We are talking here of whether to take care of your woman financially or not. That is the topic.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:26pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
sometime ago i got some message on facebook chat box from some random babe who has been chatting with me telling me that they stole her iphone.na so d girl dey disturb weda i go fit send money to her to buy new iphone.person wey say dem steal her iphone everyday she go dey upload pixs for facebook.it got to a point the disturbance was so much from her that i told her to go meet one of her sugar daddies and tell him to get her a new iphone.she say she no get sugar daddy and she no dey do such stuff na im i tell dat if she wants a man to be sending her money like mumu then she should hook up with one of these old men and make dem her sugar daddies.na so her mates dey do so she should do what her mates are doing cheesy.dat was the last day she sent me messages cheesy cheesy.
You were so rude to her without having any proof that she has a sugar daddy. You should have declined and ignored her instead of bruising her ego. Learn how to treat a girl with respect.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:23pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
then let the sugar daddy take care of her.the mumu sugar daddy will be using money meant for the school fees of its kids and the upkeep of the family for the maintanance of his sugar girl or girls.let am spend d money cheesy
Supposing the sugar daddy can afford to spoil her silly and still have plenty to spare?

It's his money, his time, his girl, wetin concern you?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:20pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
there are men who spend a lot to make girls look good while they hardly spend money on themselves.a guy will be using nokia 3310 while two of his girlfriends will be using iphone,a guy will be using old clothes and torn jeans with worn out shoes but he will be buying clothes everyday for his girlfriend or girlfriends.a guy will be living in a face -u-i-face-me one room while he will buy a plot of land for a girlfriend and lay down foundation for her cheesy.dont know weda its juju or whatnot but if u doing all this for a girl cos of sex then u be mumu man cheesy.
They are doing what makes them happy!

Whatever motivates one is what he will love to do. Stop feeling bad when men spend their money to make others happy. Make the world a better place. If the woman you spent money for is Okonjo iweala tomorrow won't you be happy?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:17pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:
Just because you wan mumu for girls no mean say others go do the same...

Is relationship now a job offer?

I rather we both keep our money to ourselves.. Who even get time for hungry girls self undecided
Bros, na so you stingy? A whole you?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:16pm On Jun 20, 2020
paulolee:
lolz...jus do wat wud mk u happy...me i do spend on bea if seeing her happy would make me happy....dnt follow wat u see online bcoz even dt reno fit get lyk 10 side chicks wey him de alert weekly...las las nobody holy pass o
Good man.

Surprising Your Woman with ezpensive gifts is as old as time.

Our ancestors went on hunting expeditions just to kill animals and take to the women they love.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:12pm On Jun 20, 2020
BigJoe19:
Thread for simps and sluts to talk nonsense as usual.
Are you one of those who don't spend a dime on their women ?
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:10pm On Jun 20, 2020
Paulynez:
Check well baba... Most of those girls have the attention of their sugar daddies just at the snap of their fingers
Yes, if you fail to take care of your babe, a sugar daddy will help you do that. That's why it's good to take care of her.
Romance › Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44(op): 8:08pm On Jun 20, 2020
Mrlucky81:
Those who allowed themselves to be fooled
I hope you are taking good care of your loved one?

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