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UniversalDove:Cannot afford to lose. Good one. Not don't spend a dime on your woman. These are two different things. |
ImaIma1:It was supposed to be a yes or no answer. |
lefulefu: |
lefulefu:I have also seen those who never spent a dime on a woman remaining poor forever. How do you explain that? ![]() |
lefulefu:In the end, the money miss roads gets more love. They even snatch your girlfriend and wives while you are their acting stingy. Money always wins in the end. Try to be generous to those you love to avoid hitting the front page to lament that one money miss road has snatched your loved one. |
ImaIma1:Will you leave you home as a married woman if you found out that your man cheated? |
lefulefu:I can now understand you properly. You come from a culture where men leech on women and force their selves on them. If you have come from a culture where men compete to marry the most beautiful women in town, you will not argue with me. ![]() |
lefulefu:Maybe you are coming from a background of poverty. Girls see those that can give them large gifts as more capable. They can base their choice of husbands on just a small thing as who gives her more. It will mean that the person can give here and her children more. Have you ever heard of the term "Omata boys " ? |
lefulefu:Check history, young men went on hunting or fishing expeditions just to trap large animals they can give as gifts to beautiful girls they want to marry. It doesn't always have to be their wives. They took care of their girlfriends too. |
obataokenwa:I think your problem is age. You will understand as you grow. |
Is this a case of poverty? What could be the reason for our men becoming irresponsible to the extent of denying their age old responsibility of taking care of the women they sleep with? Our ancestors were proud people, they even fought wars to defend their space and protect their territory and maintain their harem. Our fathers worked their socks off feeding and protecting their women who in turn carried back goodies from the farms and the market while our daddies enjoyed their looks after buying them clothes and large chunks of meat. Our own generation has become irresponsible, and even trying to push their responsibility to the women folk. I saw one Nigeria guy who was living with a Jamaican babe here, feeding and knacking freely for months before he got his feet on the ground. What happened to our pride, why have we become this shameless as to expect to shy away from our responsibility to the women we love. Again, is this a case of poverty? |
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lefulefu:Hahahahah very wrong. I left Nigeria a long time ago but visits more often now . Must marry a girl from Nigeria. |
helinues:If she makes me more productive by supporting me and making sure I am happy, she deserves all the things I surprise her with, don't you think so? |
lefulefu:Different strokes for different folks. We are talking Nigeria girls here. |
lefulefu:Lol at Malaysian big boy ![]() That's why I also have to work hard and be a bigger boy than the malaysian one. ![]() |
helinues:Remember, there are also guys we don try small, maybe has a lot of business and completed so many life achievements, how else can they keep themselves happy if not to make others happy too, both male and female. Seeing that smile on someone's face because of your expensive surprise gift is priceless, and seeing it on the face of a woman you love is a memory to remember forever. |
lefulefu:Is that a reason why I will not take care of her? What percentage of girls cheat as compared to guys? You will be surprised that men do worse than that. |
helinues:Guy, it's a necessary evil which you cannot run away from. Just keep looking and praying. The good ones are more than the bad, depending on what one is looking for. Because some will be looking for only pretty ones, others will be looking for only working class. |
ImaIma1:It happened in my presence, a good friend of mine was claiming hard man and that he doesn't spend on women. The day they had trouble and the girl called me to her place to come separate the matter with my friend, I went there and met them both, as we were talking, the girl told me that "although he rented this apartment for me and furnished it last year, I caught him with another babe" I turned and looked at my guy like "See your life" ![]() |
helinues:Bros we know that massage is massage, being with your woman has its own different feel, the laughs, the Jokes, the late night talks and the companionship has its own quality. If the GF dey sleep around, you can change her lifestyle with more love. Some men feel that it makes them less of a man to allow a woman they love to be spending on them. |
lefulefu:No no no, you are deviating from the topic. The issue of a girl leaving you is equaled by the issue of you also dropping the girl after a few bangs, happens all the time. We are talking here of whether to take care of your woman financially or not. That is the topic. |
lefulefu:You were so rude to her without having any proof that she has a sugar daddy. You should have declined and ignored her instead of bruising her ego. Learn how to treat a girl with respect. |
lefulefu:Supposing the sugar daddy can afford to spoil her silly and still have plenty to spare? It's his money, his time, his girl, wetin concern you? |
lefulefu:They are doing what makes them happy! Whatever motivates one is what he will love to do. Stop feeling bad when men spend their money to make others happy. Make the world a better place. If the woman you spent money for is Okonjo iweala tomorrow won't you be happy? |
helinues:Bros, na so you stingy? A whole you? |
paulolee:Good man. Surprising Your Woman with ezpensive gifts is as old as time. Our ancestors went on hunting expeditions just to kill animals and take to the women they love. |
BigJoe19:Are you one of those who don't spend a dime on their women ? |
Paulynez:Yes, if you fail to take care of your babe, a sugar daddy will help you do that. That's why it's good to take care of her. |
Mrlucky81:I hope you are taking good care of your loved one? |
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.from where i come from men take care of their families..they dont splash money around on side chicks cos they they want to proof to the sidechicks that they have money. when u spend without thinking u become broke in the long run 
