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James4bright:
Because after we men are done doing all these, we gain what exactly? Pussy??

Go to bed woman, no man owes you shit.

And you think it's easy? Wars has been waged, kinddoms has been lost and won, fortunes has been made just because of women.

Ask Abacha

helinues:
If that's the case good for you... But get to know you are not the only one doing that.....

We should give to all men and women, guys and girls as much as we can, if it's convenient for us to do so.

For some people, that's the only way they derive their own joy in life. By watching others enjoy what they can give out of what God gave them.

ChizzyBuna:
One thing I noticed about life is that
Some Mugu's are destined to learn the hard way.
The say experience is the best teacher
Op is destined to be a MAGA

Even Jesus Christ can't save Op from being a fool. Some are destined to learn the hard way. That's why I don't interfere

I grab my popcorn and watch you destroy your life with bad decisions. U will learn from experience.

And some are also born to be selfish.

Some might have everything in this life and still refuse to help people because of reasons best known to them.

Many others are wired to expect the best from everyone while giving NOTHING back. I don't want to believe you belong to the second group.

helinues:
How many of your family members, friends you don send gifts to?

All.

And God has been blessing me daily because of this. I am still sending and plan to do more good to more men and woman. Why are we here if not to spread the goodness of God?.

helinues:
Apako is waiting for guys wey no wan hear words...

Nobody is saying one shouldn't shower gifts for his partner but too much of things dey purge.

I have so many friends that rushed into the marriage because they had few extra change back then... The girls were available for hottest Bobo in town, you know now..

Less than 2 years in marriage after money don kupe, the husband prepared for church and asked the wife if she's is not going, she said she will join him later.

Before the husband could return from church, the wife don pack everything Waka...

Psychologically now, our guy no dey alright....

So because of a very few extreme examples, we will genaralize and stop giving gifts?

.

Unu afugokwanu ife?

dogmax:
The problem of you people of Biafra is that you hate research but you depend on MNK propagandas. You are the greatest joker of our time if you still believe in IPOB

God bless our beautiful new country
God bless Nnamdi Kanu

When you were boasting to your girlfriend that you have 100k in access bank and sending her screen shots of your bank balance, how won't she pass same to fraudsters?

Inside this life

CAPSLOCKED:
ADIEU.

Not a case of adieu, argue this with me.

I love Wike's political sagacity

Keep your friends close, and keep your detractors closer.

helinues:
I am not castigating anyone.. Only expressing my expectations from a relationship.

One man's food is another man's poison..

I agree with you.

CAPSLOCKED:
I THINK A MAN IS LOOSING IF HIS AIM OF ACQUIRING FORTUNE IS TO IMPRESS AND COMPETE FOR WOMEN.

Haba!

All the beautiful and tallest buildings you see , all the modern and expensive cars you see on the roads, all the latest gadgets and expensive trips you see on social media were all acquired to impress girls and women from your past, present and future!

Controversial as it might sound, can you argue this?

helinues:
Bro, I help guys like me without having any expectations not to talk of ladies...

I don't go into a relationship out of pity... One of the vital criteria in my love map

It's obviously working for you that way and I am happy for you. But let's not castigate those who derives their joy by taking pity on others. They can decide to take pity on a random beautiful girl and favour her with gifts, education, jobs, connections and marriage.

If it makes them happy to take pity on people, who are we to look down on them?

Virtual VP

Really?

CAPSLOCKED:
A HIGHER BIDDER WILL ALWAYS COME AROUND, FOLKS, YOUR STRESS ISN'T WORTH ANYTHING.

Who is afraid of a higher bidder?

I am more afraid of my own inability to bid higher. If she goes I can always bid higher on a more beautiful girl as long as bi have my bidding power (money).

That is why I must remain relevant in making wealth so I can maintain my relationships the way I think best, and give to humanity so I can smile when they are happy.

lefulefu:
one oga created a thread yesterday blasting a girl he funded with loan money he collected from the bank.he was refering to the girl as ungreatful and all .as if it was the girl that told the bank to freeze his account due to his inability to pay back the loan .

Blame the man for being financially reckless. It's not the girl's fault as the girl didn't hold him to gun point to collect his money.

He simply paid for wetin dey hungry am

lefulefu:
very soon now u will go and collect loan from bank and be using the loan to fund her and when bank freeze ur account cos of inablity to pay back u will now create one long epistle thread blasting the girl and how she is so ungreatful to u upon wat u did for her like the oga of yesterday

Please remember that people (men, women and children ) can all be ungrateful. Let's not demonize women just because they can disappoint men. Men also disappoint women after same girl has used all her parents and her own resources to send the man to school and even funded their trips abroad.

It cuts both ways.

helinues:
Bro when going into a relationship, one needs to consider the partner background.

Sorry, I can't date liability

While I understand your point of view, we must understand that there are people in this world who must live their lives to please others. Pleasing others is the only way they catch their fun. They are usually rich and confident of making more money and as such are not afraid of taking on liabilities. Taking care of only one girl/woman can't make one poor, we should help people, whether they are girls or guys.

On the extreme level, I heard of a very rich man who went and married a cripple, when asked, he said that it's only someone like him that can help her with all she will need to live her life to the full, he is the person that can keep her moving with a driver and cars, wheelchairs and special features in her room to make living and movement easy. He said if he allows her to marry a poor person, she will suffer till old age and he can't bear the taught of that. The lady has borne 4 healthy kids and still living with him.

People are just different.

helinues:
I can't even date a girl that can't take care of herself... How?

We roll with the real slay queens

I can roll with a less privileged girl and help her ministry to get to the top. She Is Human And We Should See It As humanitarian deeds.

Too much love of money.

kelechi50:
Thanks for your analysis and constructive criticism, I also admire the governor on the development of the state, but he needs to do more by looking into rural development and rural eletrifiction. A case study is the road that leads to Inyimagu, Ume, Izo and Ogagbo Igbudu in Ikwo local government of the state. Has no road, no rural eletrifiction, not to talk of any government establishment. Those communities are they not part of the state.

If only 4 town are neglected in the whole state, that's a score of 99% coverage in a state of about 200 towns or more. Umahi is a hero.

kingGerman1:
They sha like playing with our brain
they are all thieves

Are you saying Akeredolu is a thief?

I don't know why this country is as scattered as it is.

Why should his security be stripped in the first place if not for official recklessness? I don't know when that country will be totally healed from post military rule traumatic disorder.

tunjilana:
And she leaves you if and when you fall on hard times...Or when a bigger spender shows up

Then u come to social media and start talking about how she and her greedy daddy gave her to a man that just returned from Malaysia after all u have spent

Secure your woman's heart with intangible things too not just material things

I won't concentrate my energy on the possibility of her leaving me, I will concentrate my efforts on remaining emotionally and financially relevant in her life to the extent that she will be in fear of losing me. I will treat her so well that she will never think of ever leaving me because it might be difficult for anyone to treat her better.

That is what I will spend my time doing.

helinues:
And when you don't have money again to shower her all those expensive gifts, no be for her to go look for another maga....

Girls will leave if they want to leave, irrespective of how rich or poor you are or how good or bad you treat them.

So concentrate on treating her good and leave the rest for posterity.

Prinnce1:
I guess you know that you gonna maintain this lifestyle with her till death do you guys apart. You can't be feeding a dog with a bone always and wake-up one morning and start giving the dog rice or beans

Is there anything wrong in giving your dog fat bones forever?

Sammy07:
You quote me in the first place using biafra.

You jumped into the thread talking about your nemesis, Igbos. Who were not even mentioned in the topic.

Then I redirected you to what we actually want since you want to import us into the topic, also import our desired new country.

Rawhumper:
Wow am dumbfounded but d truth is with d way our ibo leaders Are going,dont u think that biafara will be worse? Or when we have biafara Wil these useless politicians pay dearly?


Thanks and sleep well

Think more about your own backward region instead.