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Can someone please translate into English

Amaisiko lo damu eda oro mi lowo oluwa lowa..

Thank you

Maxello.yg- thank you for the good advice!! And I surely will do that! I know that every person is different, and not judge on culture. But I just wanted to get an idea of Nigerians views on women/relationships etc to see if he is different that how people describe Nigerian men. Thank you!

Mynd_44/maxwello.yg - I didn't mean this in any way negative at all. That is just what I have come across on numerous sites that kind of describe Nigerian culture. I am sorry if I offended, that wasn't my intention at all. If you would like to clarify Nigerian culture in regards to interracial marriage I would be very greatful! I can only learn about other cultures from reading about them, and this is what is written about Nigerian culture. Please don't take offense.

Mondi_cheeks- no it is...no it is fake or no it is real? Lol

Yield- thanks for the great advice! I'm not going to meet up with him in December though, but will take my time and will only go to the next step if ready. I told him that he has to come to Canada to meet me first. 1 because I'm a chicken when it comes to traveling overseas, 2 it will show if he really is honest about his feelings, 3 I can't leave my son at home that long unless its serious because he is disabled. And I told him he has to pay for the trip here himself. I think he is talking about marriage so soon because from what I read if you marry a white woman it is a boost to your reputation/pride and he is 32 so apparently from my research by that age a man should be on his way to having a career and a family, so maybe desperation...

Alutacontinua- I have no clue what's with the hidden posts...I don't think I hid them or how to unhide them. Maybe the Admin did that. I am taking it slow and see where it goes. Just the whole 'I love you' so soon is a bit much. Otherwise he's a nice guy and I think he's good looking. Thanks!

Mrs.Chima- well if he was dead then I would not get a reply from him. Which in all honesty I wasn't expecting a reply. And the only Nigerians I know are the doctors that come here to work.

Mr. Cork - hehehehehe you are too funny!!!

Mrs. Chima - I am not rude but polite and reply to every message I get! I do not delete or ignore them no matter if they are a year old or a day old. I just appologized I didn't come across it until now. And wished him a good day.

I need some advice please.
A man from Nigeria messaged me a couple years ago on FB but the message was in my others folder. I messaged him back last week and we have been talking ever since every day. He is seemingly a nice man. So I have been burned before by other guys, who were Canadians. So I dig and do some snooping to see if his story checks out or if he's not truthful. That is how I stumbled here just checking out other peoples experience with Nigerian men. Well now I'm terrified from all the stories lol But I need an honest opinion please. So far I haven't found any holes in his stories or anything like that. I have asked him to send my pics of him right now doing something and he does. Well they aren't pics on FB that I have seen before. He hasn't asked me for money or to send him anything, even though he doesn't have a job. He wants me to visit him in December to see how he celebrates. But even our short time talking he has professed his undying love for me, saying he wants to marry one day. That's a lot quick! I have told him I want to take it slow, questioned him a million times if he just wants status here to get out of Nigeria or money. I even made a comment about just wanting me for money and he seemed to get upset with that comment. I have even added his one sister and talked with her about him and what he is like, and she lives in the UK. I even asked if we got married if he would like to stay there if I got a job and he said yea sure if its what I want, that way I can experience his culture. So my concerns are does he just want status here, money, or the fact I'm white?