Travel › Re: United States To Cut Number Of African Embassies Processing Visa Applications by Smartguyboy(m): 9:16pm On Jun 02 |
Emeskhalifa: Kuku tell us you don't want Africans in your country anymore. If Americans have a way, even the Black Americans in their country, dem for don pursue dem comot but that's not possible just like it is not possible for Nigerians to pursue Fulanis out of Nigeria despite knowing that they were immigrants initially. That what they are doing . They are not hiding it anymore |
Autos › Need A Car by Smartguyboy(op): 3:06am On Jun 01 |
With 7-8M what kind of car can I get . I don’t mind naija used but don’t mention Camry or Corolla 2011 below. |
Business › Re: TEMU Fined $232 Million For Breaching EU Rules On Sale Of Illegal Products by Smartguyboy(m): 9:48pm On May 30 |
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Family › Re: At What Age Should a man Find His Feet In Life? by Smartguyboy(m): 7:45am On May 30*. Modified: 8:02am On May 30 |
When can you feed yourself comfortably and still have extra to feed others. |
Car Talk › Re: Please Your Advice On This Car by Smartguyboy(m): 9:36pm On May 29 |
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Family › Re: I Want To Return Her Bride Price. by Smartguyboy(m): 1:38am On May 29 |
Privateworld: I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.
I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa . Have you done all the necessary test you need to do ? |
Celebrities › Re: 2027: Nollywood Actor Emeka Ike Eyes House Of Reps Seat by Smartguyboy(m): 10:48pm On May 28 |
FSBoperator: It's still ibo people that like dragging Abuja with the indigenes. Even Wike too abi? |
Romance › Re: Guys Between A 45 Year Old Virgin And 25 Year Old None V by Smartguyboy(m): 11:38pm On May 27 |
Virgin doesn’t guarantee a good wife . |
Foreign Affairs › Re: We Will Bomb Oman If They Don't Behave - Trump Threatens Oman (Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 11:09pm On May 27 |
[quote author=WriterNig post=139538224] threatening people up and down.
They are just looking for where to hide face.
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Celebrities › Re: VeryDarkMan Will Face The Law For Posting Tinubu’s Fake Audio – Bayo Onanuga by Smartguyboy(m): 4:42pm On May 27 |
Bendeco02: Am not Tinubu's fan but VDM deserve to be taught a lesson.
If that kind guy becomes president, he will be worse than tinubu. Is it worsen that GEJ RIP coffin ⚰️? |
Business › Re: Fuel Prices May Ease As Global Crude Drops On US–Iran Diplomatic Progress by Smartguyboy(m): 4:39pm On May 27 |
Arrowhead71: What are you saying again.... Evil ....I guess from your iran regime arming militias within a sovereign state.... If not for identity Security...I angrily send you pictures of my passport and visas to many countries since 1998 If you have been traveling since 1998 you should know better the world terrorist country in the world. They even have to sacrifices they own people just to start a war. Ask yourself why did the Jews didn’t go to work on 9/11
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Business › Re: Fuel Prices May Ease As Global Crude Drops On US–Iran Diplomatic Progress by Smartguyboy(m): 2:13pm On May 27 |
Arrowhead71: War.... America and Israel respond to Iran regime invitation to war..... When Iran always shouting deaths to America and Israel.....that's invitation to a fight Just yesterday....Ayatollah disable son said....deaths to America is now a pamernet iran regime policy......funny And Iran realized she is no match....used the strait to her advantage.....but backfired on the whole world No need to argue with you . Just know this no matter how hard you support evil they will never give you visa . They are inviting “ WHITE” South Africans to come over to USA to stay . |
Politics › Re: 30,000 Fulani Militants Fuelling Nigeria’s Insecurity – US Report by Smartguyboy(m): 2:10pm On May 27 |
When we said it that the meeting will make things worse they called me names . Now how far ?
USA will only use fools and dump them ask the Kurdish people how far .
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Business › Re: Fuel Prices May Ease As Global Crude Drops On US–Iran Diplomatic Progress by Smartguyboy(m): 9:12am On May 27 |
Arrowhead71: It is Iran that blocked other countries ships from passing America in turn blocked iran ports from operating ....and America went further to escort other countries ships through the strait So its Iran that is mad and now there is higher madness to checkmate it What happens before Iran blocked the place ? |
Business › Re: Top 10 Nigerian Banks’ Assets Hit ₦202 Trillion As Access, UBA, Zenith Dominate by Smartguyboy(m): 5:36am On May 27 |
Robbing the citizens broad daylight, you will send small money and they will send you 3-4 different sms for one transaction just to change you . |
Business › Re: Fuel Prices May Ease As Global Crude Drops On US–Iran Diplomatic Progress by Smartguyboy(m): 5:31am On May 27 |
Emu4life: Nawa o! So Iran has a way of inflicting pain on the whole World
This War is unnecessary, abeg. Nothing has been achieved. They goal was achieved Just like Iraq war the difference are Iraq falls while Iran is still standing and making demands unlike Iraq who don’t have control of they nation and resources anymore.
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Business › Re: Fuel Prices May Ease As Global Crude Drops On US–Iran Diplomatic Progress by Smartguyboy(m): 5:29am On May 27 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Women Do Women Do This. by Smartguyboy(m): 2:45am On May 27 |
When a lady don’t find you interesting or like you that how they reply .
Stop wasting your time |
Food › Re: How Much Shege Does Semo Show You? by Smartguyboy(m): 3:29pm On May 26 |
Probz: And it can show even some of the otherwise-best cooks shege, time after time. If it’s not lumpy, it’s watery, and-so-on. Where do you fit on that spectrum, or is your semo. smooth and flawless every time? [b]When I was serving in Lagos, my Place of Primary Assignment (PPA) provided accommodation for us, so we usually cooked our own meals. Most of my colleagues loved eating semo and would prepare it regularly. Seeing how much they enjoyed it, I decided one day that I should give it a try myself. I went to the market and bought about 1kg of semo I can’t remember the exact quantity, but it was enough. After successfully cooking my soup, I felt confident and moved on to preparing the semo. That was where the trouble started! I had no idea it would be so stressful. Between stirring continuously, trying to avoid lumps, and getting the consistency right, I was already exhausted before it was even ready. By the time I finally finished making it, all the stress had completely killed my appetite. Instead of enjoying the meal I had worked so hard to prepare, I ended up giving the semo to one of my colleagues who actually liked it. I happily returned to my trusted garri, which I know how to prepare and enjoy without any drama. Since that experience in 2020, I haven’t attempted to make semo again. As far as I’m concerned, that experiment was enough for a lifetime! That said, I don’t mind eating semo occasionally as long as someone else is the one doing all the hard work of preparing it. 😄[/b] |
Romance › Re: Men Now Doing Hookup Too? Man Caught Negotiating Price For A One Night Stand by Smartguyboy(m): 1:10am On May 26 |
muyico: Pure skits Not real Ladies can't pay for sex! Visit codedruns you will see them many , even women f**king them with toys they tie in they waist . |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry Her? by Smartguyboy(m): 3:29am On May 25 |
Sweetsoul2235: Can you marry a girl that has engaged in some sexual activities with her cousin? Activities like kissing, fingering, sucking of breast but no penetration.. according to her friend who told me, she said my girlfriend whom I want to marry was 25 and her cousin was 17 and they were sleeping together in one room when it happened. Is it advisable to marry such girl? Who told you |
Sports › Re: Who Wins The Nigerian Premier Football League This Season by Smartguyboy(m): 5:12pm On May 24 |
Enugu Rangers will win today . |
Family › Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Smartguyboy(m): 11:58pm On May 23 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Hundreds Of Fearful Africans Bused To Safe Location In Durban (Emotional Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 9:35pm On May 23 |
RandDigital: They took them to a safe location Not enough They should their citizens from harassing other African citizens. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hundreds Of Fearful Africans Bused To Safe Location In Durban (Emotional Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 10:52am On May 23 |
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Romance › Re: “He Started Making Moves At Me.” – Lady Recounts Awkward Moment With Male Friend by Smartguyboy(m): 11:04pm On May 22 |
Hold story We have seen this story before here This one is just making the video |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Businessman Sold Everything And Left The Country (Before & After) by Smartguyboy(m): 3:10pm On May 22 |
justwise: He just took a shower and changed clothes, nothing much changed Even with AI still look the same . |
Romance › Re: I’m 31, she is 27. Visited 3 times with heavy pre-intimacy but no sex yet. by Smartguyboy(m): 12:32am On May 22 |
heartbraker: Good day house,
I want to drop a situation here and get some objective feedback from guys who understand the dating terrain down here.
I’m a 31-year-old guy, and I’ve been seeing a 27-year-old lady I met through a mutual friend. She has visited my apartment three times now, and the vibe when we are together is completely solid. There is clear physical attraction, extreme comfort, and high intimacy (cuddling, intense kissing, heavy pre-intimacy/touching, etc.).
However, things haven't progressed to actual sex yet. On my end, I don't believe in forcing issues, pressuring a woman, or making a guest feel uncomfortable in my space. But frankly, I don't feel convenient hosting her a fourth time just to do the same routine without making full contact. I want to ensure I'm not entering the "nice guy" box or getting friend-zoned while acting all sweet and hospitable.
She breaks communication silences to reach out and doesn't ask me for financial maintenance, so she seems genuine, but the sexual progression is just stalling.
I want to ask the elders and experienced guys on the forum:
At her age (27) and mine (31), with the green lights for pre-intimacy 100% active over three visits, what is usually responsible for this final delay?
How do you handle the final progression naturally on the next visit without looking desperate, forcing it, or letting yourself get locked into the nice guy box?
How do you differentiate a woman who just prefers a slow, respectful pace from one who lacks full sexual interest?
I want to look at this with a brutal real-world lens so I know whether to hold the line with warmth or just calmly pivot my focus elsewhere.
Let me know your thoughts, house. Have you guys discussed about sex before and is she enjoy sex and how she want it ? Answer me and I will tell you want to do . |
Crime › Re: Police Officer, Newton Isokpehi, Threatens To Shoot Anyone Recording Him On Duty by Smartguyboy(m): 4:35pm On May 21 |
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Politics › Re: Fubara Withdraws From APC Governorship Primary by Smartguyboy(m): 12:55am On May 21 |
What a shame A seating governor is as useless as nobody . |
Career › Re: Is Remote Job Hunting Becoming Too Exhausting? by Smartguyboy(m): 7:33pm On May 20*. Modified: 11:30pm On May 20 |
Oluwadare316: Really What advice can u give a graduate that wants to learn data analytics in 2026. No harm in trying It didn’t work for mr A doesn’t mean it won’t work for mr B. That my guy his sister have a remote job back then that pays $7 per hour . |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 2025: Arsenal Are Premier League Champions by Smartguyboy(m): 12:42am On May 20 |
deanoffaculty: Which one be cheating again na? All these Chelsea and Man U fans don come again.
Join us in the celebration.... don't start spreading EBOLAtic comments in this thread. All follow Any way na way Congratulations 🎊🎉🍾🎈 Una don try sha
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