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SeeWahala:
This one is just playing bet9ja version 3.1

Connected1:
A Coursemate Friend gave me the number of a certain girl about 3 years ago saying that she needed a friend to talk with, so I started getting along with her based on my easy going personality, so at a point she needed finance and myself not giving money anyhow I gave her my goods to sell and take the profit whilst she bring back my capital, she failed at it and I went to take back my goods, after that I bought goods for her to sell based on a business she said her friend told her about, the business failed and I barely got my capital I gave her.


I was doing the best I can for her but then she brought talks about having feelings for me and how she knows I do too but I kept hiding mine, so I shunned her about it, we quarreled and I deleted her phone number & blocked her everywhere, after a very short while, she began using her friends to call me and beg me, I completely ignored everything because i don't have any feelings for her nor am I even interested in sleeping with her when she offered me sex despite saying she was sacred about all that.

Alas I unblocked her when she lost her mum and she wrote me, I felt I needed to assist in consoling her by unblocking and chatting her up, then I offered some financial help too because both her parents are now gone and I told her not to bother me about dating her and focus on offers she receives which she agreed on, she's 29 and I understand time is telling on her.

Then some months got past and everything was going well, then she came again with the love jargon again and began saying how she prayed on the day I gave her money around when she lost her mum, she said she told God that whichever man she knows that sent her money is the one going to marry her and I was the only one who sent money and a huge one at that bla bla bla, I was infuriated and told her I unblocked her because she lost her mum, she kept explaining and I wasn't having any of it, then she agreed and swore not to disturb me about dating or marrying her I recommended she blocked me so that it will help her to forget about me but she never agreed.

We got talking again and living our lives until this week when she brought up issues about dating and marrying her again, how she saw me in her dreams that I was the one, how 2 other guys were asking her out and she prayed to God to know the right one and i suddenly appeared in her dreams, at this point I think I am sick of it and might go mad anytime soon if I continue like this, the reason I haven't blocked her everywhere this time around is because she gave me a job connect which one of her elder brothers was involved in as an exco member and I paid some money like others did only that it was cheaper so I have been hesitant, since it seems the job is about to taking shape and they may start paying this month or next, around 150k -200k for 2 weeks and I intend using it as a side hustle along side my business and normal job.

Please I need your advice, because whilst I have no intentions to date her or have sex out of pity, I can't just let this job opportunity go like that because I feel she may tell her brother to jeopardise the whole thing for me now if I chase her away angrily.

I will appreciate your inputs, regardless of how I feel about it.

jayce232:
This Trump is something else, from one chaotic fight to another, seems he enjoy picking up fight when there is none. Less than 1 year in office he is already fighting Elon who staked his business & wealth on the line for his reelection. Even the Russia/Ukraine war he promised to end, is still ongoing.

Robnectar:
Alternative moniker dey display warapa

Shellsploit:
71 year old still doing cleaning job in UK
What Nigeria cannot do to its citizens does not exist!

collins0032:
"While Cyril Ramaphosa's shoelace-tying skills are undoubtedly presidential, do you think this momentary act of kindness is enough to tie together the country's bigger problems? Or should we applaud his multitasking abilities?"

IBenardoo:
Gents what happened...... Tell us

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Kobojunkie, hope you read this post.🥱

Freshtruth:
Greed

carl90:
I am not even attracted to big yansh in women .
Best of luck to men who are into big yansh .
They should explore the artificials in those backside the best way they can .

RollinTNDA:
He knack my girl

malaria:
You can still be lonely with someone..
Loneliness and being alone is not the same..it's better I am.lonely alone than lonely with someone

DelilahMakinde:
cc Dominique

Cleanthes:
you are right i will leave her alone but i must make her angry before i leave

Sccarrr:
so no pictures of years back on the internet....u da ft?

Sccarrr:
it's not called postinor 2...post the picture