₦airaland Forum

Seefinish:
Tinubu is doing well in the area of security. The bandits you hear about in Niger State are IPOB and they are sponsored by "Hoebi"

Factcheck0001:
Y carry drugs in another man's land?..


Can't they do legit business, if u play dirty games u will win dirty prices.

These is the same thing people like him are going everywhere to make travelling difficult for others, I don't pity them.

And if u want to talk about politicians that they are d ones giving d country a bad name, let me make it clear that many people outside Nigeria don't even know tinubu or any politician but they know of d African prince, they know about hushpuppy, they know about invictus obi.


Imagine u introduce yourself as a Nigerian outside n the person ask u if u can tell them about the African prince

Imagine if the ask u how hard drugs looks like cos they know that's what we do

Imagine when they ask u questions like, how do Nigerians feel scamming people?

I remember I once introduce myself as a Nigerian in Abu Dhabi n the lady shouted awusubilahi, na later I know say awusubilahi na God rebuke d devil

Amalekki:
Investigations concluded already?

allthingsgood:
Go and read your bible properly before u misquote what u dont know

Factcheck0001:
Y carry drugs in another man's land?..


Can't they do legit business, if u play dirty games u will win dirty prices.

These is the same thing people like him are going everywhere to make travelling difficult for others, I don't pity them.

And if u want to talk about politicians that they are d ones giving d country a bad name, let me make it clear that many people outside Nigeria don't even know tinubu or any politician but they know of d African prince, they know about hushpuppy, they know about invictus obi.


Imagine u introduce yourself as a Nigerian outside n the person ask u if u can tell them about the African prince

Imagine if the ask u how hard drugs looks like cos they know that's what we do

Imagine when they ask u questions like, how do Nigerians feel scamming people?

I remember I once introduce myself as a Nigerian in Abu Dhabi n the lady shouted awusubilahi, na later I know say awusubilahi na God rebuke d devil

allthingsgood:
When it comes to Marriage, it’s common for men (and pretty much everyone) to mess up at some point. Whether it’s a lack of communication or a lapse in judgment, navigating a relationship requires a certain level of self-awareness. Here are some prevalent mistakes men make in marriage:

1. It is a woman's duty to love, it is a man's duty to provide
A man who continuously shows affection, without anything concrete is just sitting on time bomb and wasting his time. If she is not already cheating, she will eventually leave u in frustration. Women are complex, they are to be chased before marriage. After marriage, allow her to do the chasing. Focus on providing and protecting, that is your job as a man.

2. Letting your appearance suffer
When you first started dating her, you were probably extremely aware of how you looked, smelled, and presented yourself. But now? You walk around donning your dirty boxers upandan. Okay na, she will soon get tired and leave. A woman needs to see her husband as her god. So dont get too comfortable, or she will disconnect from you.

3. Take charge
You are the lord. Allow your wife to have her say, but you must have your way. She will secretly love you even more. No woman likes an indecisive man. Be a problem solver, not weak slub.

4. Expecting your partner to be a mind-reader
Bros, women arent prophets or psychics. Sometimes even if she has an idea what you mean, she just needs to hear the words. Dont just send money to your wife without giving specific instructions/information. You will have done nothing! Tell her exactly what you mean and what you want.

5. Avoiding conflict like the plague
We get it, no one likes fighting. It’s stressful and just all around not a good time. But conflict is pretty much a given in any relationship, besides it’s how you handle it that matters. So if you find yourself leaving whenever an argument starts to brew or just nodding to appease your partner, you’re being avoidant. Your partner wants to know how you feel and you should want to know how they feel, too! Also sometimes, women like conflict for no apparent reason, they can be that ridiculous. But its there way of seeking attention.

6. Prepare for the rainy day
Dont count on your wife to rescue you when things go bad, especially financially. You may be lucky that she does, but dont count on it. The only person who will probably accept you no matter what is your mother, so treat her well. You wife will begin to show signs when things get tough, and may eventually dump you. The biggest disaster is allow a woman become your breadwinner. My brother you are done for!

7. Your wife is not your best friend
Bro get it together. She is your wife and partner, not your best friend. Forget mumu woke generation


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yemmit90:
We are so selfish and ignorant in this part of the world. What is so bad in staying with someone aged parents that laboured endlessly to raise us? So, he can move to them when he was struggling but not when he is financially stable? That is the extent of our shallow thinking, and you keep wondering if it worth it to suffer to raise children these days.

An average European, Chinese or American live with their parents but here in Africa, we detest and don't have empathy toward one another. Why would anyone leave his aged parents when he/she is in position to stay with them. Loneliness at old age is out of this world, and it is a great privilege to have one of your children family around.

That is why every man should try to make money. The rich take up another wife that will give them young children who will keep the house running at old age.

pansophist:
Your parents should adopt kids, thats the natural cure to this dilemma.

Children needs guidance, provisions and protection, and your parents needs their presence, and to see life through the eyes of children once again.

Also, the power dynamic between you and your parents have changed, unlike when you were a child. Right now, your parents have authority over you but without responsibilities, which is unfair to you.

For example, if they want to bath with hot water, prefer their eba extra soft, and maybe you have to clean their apartment, these are responsibilities on you, but you cant tell them what to do, or even scold them. You have no authority.

With children, your parents will have authorities and responsibilities, which is a balance. E.g, they kids do domestic work, and your parents wont feel lonely. But the trade off is that your parents have responsibilities towards the children.

I see that you have a good family that is united, and you care for your parents, this is very good, but consider what I said. Its an old practice that is solved by adopting kids, or men going into polygamy to birth more children.

damosade:
Get them a nanny and go find your life. Time is running.

SultanOfPuna:
I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023
Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them

Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid.
I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life.


My parents are really old
My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents.
I'm the only one closer to them

I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order.
But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family.

If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age.
Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them.

What should i do?

Themanleshey:
I see you being sold in exchange for clock 🕰️

Morbeta11:
https://www.earth.com/news/geologist-who-accidentally-discovered-humans-have-an-internal-clock-by-spending-63-days-underground/

saphiere:
Even seun is a victim of his antibot ban.

saphiere:
Cause I want to change



Seun tame your antibiotics that is banning me every now and then.

Fetula4u:
iLegendd

Can you do me airtime or data 08161 37 9972 MTN

I'll really appreciate if you can help me,God bless you boss

AfonjaPriest:
So because I don't want to die for Nigeria, I should go and die for a racist country.
Dey play.
I am not interested.

Great100000:
Source: https://thenationonlineng.net/nigerias-celebrities-who-have-joined-us-military/

apprentist:
Hello Guys, let me first of all say the cliché "It is well".

Now let we start.
I met my wife years back just before the COVID-19 year during which we dated for almost a year and then eventually got married just when the lock down was reducing. I started this story this way because I wanted to emphasis that during that period, we had so much time to bond and she was mostly available to me as she only worked on shifts 2 to 3 days per week.
We could sit and talk for long, go out at late nights and have great s*x as frequently as we needed.

This I think gave me a mirage of an anticipated marriage life so I didn't hesitate to take it a step further ones the lockdown was relaxed.
I also made it clear to her that her job would have to give way when their kids start coming as I had plans to assist her further her edu and also put up a biz for her.

Speed up to after COVID-19, she resumed work which till this day demands 5 days a week and 2 to 3 Saturdays per month all from 7:45am till 5pm. Often times she'd return home tired and would manage to make dinner and off to bed till the next day circle continues.
It became worse when we started having children. I drive them to school as early as 7:40am before dropping her off at her job. And then I'll pick them up by 5:30pm or 6pm when she's done with her job for the day (let me mention that this extends to public holidays and school holidays or breaks).

I got tired and in December 2025 I told her she has to quit the job. My plan was to enroll her back into a private school after my kids are Upto 4 years as one of them still depends on breast milk. I also gave her the option of starting a business which I understand is a dynamic move and might not be successful, but at this stage of my life it's something I could afford to risk and so I didn't mind.

I must also mention that out of a 100% sex, 50% is not mutual as I could sense she isn't interested and 40% is a denial as she would rather deny me of s*x with the excuse that she is tired.

Simply put, I'm tired.
I'm a Christian and divorce isn't an option. Also I can't cheat, but I am starved of s*x and my kids are not given the attention they deserve.
Pls advice me

Ogarexmas:
When is the best time to sell ?

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mecuries:
She couldn't shave her private area herself?... or do you have an ancient technique/sorcery on how to shave that area?

Dandsome:
Just tell me the exact question you have and I'll answer you

DadojoReloaded:
Bike or keke business is good. I'm personally invested in such business. I have almost 10 bikes under my management and they all remit money on a daily basis.
I've been on it for close to 7 months now with less than 2 days of default.

I don't deal with the bike riders myself, instead I employed a manager who is very strict with them.

Any day you default, the bike will be taken from you. In a nutshell, I have my strategy and it's been working for about 7 months now.

Dandsome:
It depends on your arrangement.

There's a company that runs a transport business where they give you car to do whatever transport business you want.

I know of suv for now.

They fuel it, do any maintenance on the vehicle, do all papers for the vehicle. The driver's own is to drive and remit about 50k daily.

Sunday is work free day (meaning the driver can work with the car and keep all the money for the day)

Some guys have been using it to do Uber work.

But the issue is that you can't fail to pay daily