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WorldRichest:
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Take your drugs, we Yorubas no send you. Wetin you dey find go Kaduna? Wetin dey pursue you from your state of origin? Why you wan come die over Yoruba matter? Why you leave your state and wan contest for position in Lagos?

This shows that, like most of the lowlifes spreading tribalism, you have never left your region. Asking him what he went to do in Kaduna is crazy, man. People travel for several reasons: work, business, etc.

Secondly, I have gone through your previous posts, and it shows you are a Tinubu supporter just because he is your tribesman; this goes to show you are very unexposed.

The guy is more exposed and enlightened than you; that is why he sees things from a different perspective. This is why the whites he mentioned don't care who comes and becomes a citizen or contests for political office, because they are already a mature and exposed society.

Your Yoruba, Igbo, Edo, or Hausa land can never prosper without the contribution of outsiders.

Hello Fam!

I need some advice from gurus here. The thing is, I have been dating this girl for some time now! Honestly, she loves me, though she tries hard to hide it. I have done my analysis and come to that conclusion.

Even when we had issues and broke up, she still came back and apologized. She also emphasized that she sees a future of us together (married) because at the beginning of the relationship, I told her that I date to marry.

I am in tech! Though I am not rich, I earn a decent amount of money for myself.

But my issues are as follows:

1. I suspect she’s involved in coded runs. I have done my research, and from some stories she tells me, though it's not 100% proof, there is a high possibility that she’s involved in "sugar daddy" relationships. She buys expensive phones, clothes, etc., and she doesn’t ask me for a dime. At the beginning of the relationship, she used to ask me for money, but after we broke up and she came back, she stopped. There was a time I even saw her Snapchat story in a hotel room. I confronted her, but she turned it into a fight until the matter died down.

2. She doesn’t listen! In fact, she warns me not to tell her what to do or not to do. If I insist, it turns into a full-blown argument. In fact, if not because I put her in her place, this girl wanted to dominate me and turn me into a "mumu" (fool) who does anything she wants.

3. She refuses to have sex with me. She always tells me she is a virgin, and no matter how hard I try, she will never admit that she has had sex before. Though she doesn’t ask me for money or even bother if I don’t call her for days, all she wants is for us to chat briefly in a day, and that’s it. But she wants me to be loyal.

4. She gets angry when I mention anything that isn’t positive regarding marriage. For example, there was a time I said I would marry four wives. She started giving me the silent treatment for days. Another time, when I said I’d have to complete my MSc before marriage, she got angry.

Please, experts! Can you help me analyze this situation and explain the way forward? A friend says she sees a bright future in me and wants to keep me as her backup husband when she starts reaching her "diminishing age." Because, going by the calculations, we are both young, in our early twenties.

Skepticus

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