₦airaland Forum

It's well with soul.

May the soul of the mother continue to rest in perfect peace.

There's one thing you need to understand about ladies / women, no matter their personality types, either nice, cool, temperamental, kind, loving...etc, they all seem to have a trait of manipulation in them, the level of manipulation found in a particular lady / woman will be determined about her personality type, her level of maturity and understanding and how God fearing she is.

That being said, what I'm spotting here is someone trying to test you and also trying a bit of manipulation on you, and from your own side, you need to man up and be more rational, not in an aggressive manner that she will begin to fear you oo, but in a manner that she will understand you are a man of some values who wouldn't give space for a woman's shit in his home, no matter how little the level of manipulation from that woman, that's how a man earns respect.

They usually pin their manipulation on their partner being romantic and caring, don't get it twisted, we ought to be romantic and caring to them, but we must do it with a rational and sane mind, that enables you to balance it.

Any home that the manipulation of the woman in that home dominates the atmosphere, calamity awaits such home in the future, except if along the line, they allow God to come in and the fear of God dominate that home.

I'm romantic to my woman, very romantic that she do go to lengths at times to do some things for me too, but I don't ever allow her manipulation to get to grow, as that will be dangerous for my home, which in turns not only earns me respect from her but also builds her confidents in me......that's when you begin to realize ladies / women know what they are doing and if you loose it to them as a man and things get worse, you are on your own, because they will come back pointing finger at you and might end up being dominated by an alpha male outside, and if God want to catch you, your woman should be weak to an extent.

Just last week, we were talking about her siblings coming around, during the discussion, she made a funny statement that she trust me to give it to them in a way they deserve, should they try nonsense in the house, she said this because she knows I don't tolerate blackmailing and manipulation, and if such arises, I will politely handle it. I know when to be caring, I know when to be romantic, I know when to be loving, to an extent that the woman at the receiving end will loose it totally and helplessly, without any form of blackmailing or manipulation, but I set boundaries while also respecting women, no woman tries rubbish with you when you have that kind of nature.

So it's left to you to man up and handle your home bro, if your story is real.

That's a great move @ Peter Obi.

Keep it up boss, anything that advances Nigeria is welcome.

Quite easy to trace. MILK

Every one of them looking for one way or the other to get involved with Nigeria, which was even Trump's initial intention.

Man ought to have threaded carefully too.
He was kinda arrogant during his reign and still arrogant in the court

Imagine eastern ppl bowing to him and women laying down their clothes for him to walk on, no big deal in all those, but the feelings he demonstrated on those events, indicated he's already seeing himself as their lord also as the next Ojukwu, no govt. would appreciate that, even Sunday Igboho too had to be humbled by the Govt.

Can't also forget an incident where he went to face the soldiers, beating his chest, the soldiers were just looking at him, if they had picked him up right there, nothing would happen.

There's also a place he was telling his followers, saying he would go to Abuja and come back with the head of the president, during Buhari's regime, a whole sitting president, even Tompolo with all his heavy duty guards and munitions won't say that, can't forget that.

Should Buhari be alive and still the president, this would have been a different sentence.

Mr Man Threaded with so much pride and arrogance mhen, it's well.

NOETHNICITY:
They approached me too, but I turned them down without even contemplating.

Give me 100 trillion dollars and I will not submit to soul to the devil

Give more gist bro, who approach you and how?.

What do you do?.

TramaNigeria:
Dad 41
Mom 27

Peaceful folks
May God bless and honour them

The maturity of Dad brought peace. One of the advantages of getting married at a matured age.

Africa our continent.

It's well.

Only weak guys/men, simps, uncultured guys/men, uncivilized guys/men and those not also enlightened will fall for that foolishness.

Congratulations, wishing you all the blessings and goodness of married life.

Good initiative though, if Nigerian mentality, politics and political atmosphere won't mess it up again.

Nice one AKon.

Your wife will sort out herself, Your mother deserves better.

Wishing you long life in sound health and happiness ma.

Congratulations to Dangote group.

Greater heights for you guys .

The Dept. in Dangote that's responsible for logistics and transportation needs thorough restructuring and a very good training for their drivers, immature, impatience and emotional drivers need to get rid of.

Lots and lots of refinement needs to be done there.

Ogaonos:
Dnt be deceived by guys when u use money to approach ladies like entering her dm ND asking for her account. Someone that is a total stranger. No big casting be that. U think u are a high level guy but sadly u are mugu.big maga.such behaviour make ladies entitled Relationship expensive ND hookup lucrative .
Making money and lacking the skills to approach woman na wahala. Some of these big boys patronise hookup alot bcoz when they were broke they didn't build themselves (personal development)

The part I bolded is nothing but the truth though, on point. Lots of low self esteem MFs and SIMPs nowadays.

atiku4President:
Is Dangote now IPOB who sees nothing good about the country?
But that's simple truth. The world has left Ajeokuta and its technology behind. Let's say something new

Exactly my perspective too oo.

The old structure can be overhauled for christ sake and new technology installed, while the name "Ajaokuta Steel Company..." retains.

That's my point, so much immature guys here.

AMINDA:
The above statement is the bane of the average Nigerian. What has God got to do with this? Can you squeeze water out of a rock? Ajaokuta steel has become a cesspit and conduit pipe for corruption. Just as with the refineries, it will be far cheaper to build a new steel plant than to resurrect Ajaokuta steel plant.

You don't need to quote someone else to prove a point, which one is bane of average Nigerian?. What if I'm not speaking from that perspective.
Part of anything can happen is the steel plant being fully transformed, which involves and not limited to overhauling of the old structure, but the sentiment you want to demonstrate won't make you see through that perspective.

You won't see me tagging ppl's comment for bashing here.

If you can't be neutral in your comment, then just keep it to yourself, you don't need to tag to bash.

Complete overhauling of the old equipment and installation of new and modern technologies, backed by accountability and transparency will definitely revive that industry.

But are we accountable enough for now, or do we have a good system of government that can sustain the overhauling of old equipment to new technologies??

Nice Idris Elba, When next your are visiting Lagos, kindly announce, if we can meet up.

Thank You.

Our mentality is our major problem.
It shall be well with us.

It's well with their souls.

Unfortunately, they will still rig themselves in come 2027.

They definitely have other interest in that land, these guys wouldn't just show concerned like that if nothing is at stake.

We know as e dey go nah, those NGO guys working there too know as e dey go.

Keep it up.

Great gestures.

God bless you God bless you and your family.

Alright.

Welcome back Chioma, the Lord is your strength.

You are probably pulling our legs with that question bro.

Looking at your situation, nobody in that situation would see such offer and won't jump in. It's a different things if you currently have a job that pays higher that that, or living comfortably.

But in that situation, a remote job?, no daily tfare and all, you only get to work from home... And you are still asking.

DoctorStanley:
Fato.. sounds familiar.
Is this the same pastor all those women accused of rape?

Yes he's the one and he's back for another negative vibes.

Congratulations to the people of Onitsha.

More blessings to come IJN.

That's Priscila Ojo and her hubby can now fly directly, they will be happy more.

Because they lack the good knowledge about the goodness and blessings in marriage and how to unluck them.