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Hello nairalands am new here so I decided to seek advice from this forum.

It all started in 2013 when I got married and was living in Edo state with my husband, we were married for one year and that one year was filled with pain and he was maltreating me and also abused me twice. The both families asked us to come home for settlement but my ex refused to show up so my family returned his dowry to his family, we are both from kogi state.

I relocated to lagos to start a new life and forget the past and after like a year I met another guy and he is so nice and caring though he is based in ogun state, so we started a relationship and after like 6 months he proposed marriage to me and I accepted. Main while I told him about my past marriage and in this one year 6 months I didn't hear from my ex.

My new husband and I don't live together because of my job here in lagos so I visit him every weekend. For the past 9 months we have been married I don't have this inner peace of mind because I always feel I offended God and that what am doing with my second husband is a sin before God.

My ex has been disturbing me for the past 4 months that he wants us to come back together as one because he has realised that he can't be happy without me and I have even informed him I am now married to another man yet he still wants us back. He says we can still work things out because he can't marry someone else.
I have informed my new husband about my ex coming back and he is said I should tell him everything which I have done.

I am so confused here and don't even no what to do. Should I stick to my new husband and live without been at peace with God or go back to my ex and forgive him then settle with God? Pls help me