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10 Advantages of learning more Skills Over a University First Class

It’s no longer a gainsaying that learning more skills and engaging in entrepreneur activities nowadays is having a high level of advantage than bagging a university first class, simply because the world is now becoming a place where things are no longer done manually/analog, there is a need for us to know at least 1 or 2 entrepreneurship skills. In fact, learning digital can be of great value nowadays to be able to achieve some things than it’s usually done before. Before people don’t need to know anything on computer to be able to secure a job at any place of your choice but nowadays everything is done virtually on computer and if you don’t have little knowledge of computer you may not be able to secure a job, so why not trying to learn some digital skills?

Your first class can only come in form of a common/regular A4 paper but the skills and the knowledge you have acquired can make you the better version of yourself anywhere you find yourself and in whatever you find yourself doing. Your skills will give you all the creativity ideas you needed to survive, and that can actually bring profit to you even beyond your own expectation if you are good at what you do.

If you don’t learn at least a skill that can serve as a backup/backbone in addition to whatever certificate you have, to be successful for you might be very difficult because we are now in a world where things are changing daily and it’s based on our practical experiences and skills more than the certificate or the first class degree award. Most things nowadays can easily be acquired through skills and learning process than what it was before. We are in a computer age where everything is going from manual/analog to a digital world, a world where everyone will eventually need some digital skills to be able to fit into jobs.

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You can be rejected by a woman who you are neutrally thinking that you are good enough to be accepted by her to start a relationship with you if you don't know the right things to do that can convince her to say: “Yes! You are really good enough for me, now I'm ready to go into a relationship with you.”

Here are the 20 things that can actually make a woman say no! When you want a relationship from her. Read and master them all and kindly share if you agree:

1. She may not like your appearance:

The first thing a woman look out for in a man is his appearance. She just want to see how you look before trying to hear anything from you. You need to know that before a woman can give you the chance to start talking to her or start a relationship with her, she must first like the way you appear. You must look good in a way that will convince her that you can be her right choice or her taste before she can think of giving you any attention or looking into what you have to say or offer her. It’s always good to dress good, wear nice cloth and perfume when you want to approach a woman, just make sure you look good to her taste if you want her to accept you start a relationship with you.

You need to know that your appearance might look like your manner to a woman at times, and of which it’s not always true but just make sure you do what will likely please her for her to be able to accept you.

2. She knows you don’t have something to offer:

Before a woman can desire to have you in her life, she must know you are having some things reasonable to offer in all ways: Financially, mentally, physically, spiritually and lots more. Most times, having something to offer matters a lot to some women who knows what they want is even more than your money because they can work by themselves to make money so they don’t really plan to depend on their men to survive. They may not be interested in men financial or economic offers, all they want majorly is good innovation and ideas. She is willing to love you more when she knows you are having something in your brain to offer her whenever she ask for it. No woman is looking for an empty man, you must have a better idea of what is going on around the world and be able to offer her all that you have gained in life. She needs you to give her all the intellectual support she needed all the times; doing that, she will definitely want you stay in her life forever.

When a woman knows that you can stand in as a mentor, also act as her father, friend, and as someone who put her through some of the things that are very difficult for her to handle, she will want to go for you.

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You can be rejected by a woman who you are neutrally thinking that you are good enough to be accepted by her to start a relationship with you if you don't know the right things to do that can convince her to say: “Yes! You are really good enough for me, now I'm ready to go into a relationship with you.”

Here are the 20 things that can actually make a woman say no! When you want a relationship from her. Read and master them all and kindly share if you agree:

1. She may not like your appearance:

The first thing a woman look out for in a man is his appearance. She just want to see how you look before trying to hear anything from you. You need to know that before a woman can give you the chance to start talking to her or start a relationship with her, she must first like the way you appear. You must look good in a way that will convince her that you can be her right choice or her taste before she can think of giving you any attention or looking into what you have to say or offer her. It’s always good to dress good, wear nice cloth and perfume when you want to approach a woman, just make sure you look good to her taste if you want her to accept you start a relationship with you.

You need to know that your appearance might look like your manner to a woman at times, and of which it’s not always true but just make sure you do what will likely please her for her to be able to accept you.

2. She knows you don’t have something to offer:

Before a woman can desire to have you in her life, she must know you are having some things reasonable to offer in all ways: Financially, mentally, physically, spiritually and lots more. Most times, having something to offer matters a lot to some women who knows what they want is even more than your money because they can work by themselves to make money so they don’t really plan to depend on their men to survive. They may not be interested in men financial or economic offers, all they want majorly is good innovation and ideas. She is willing to love you more when she knows you are having something in your brain to offer her whenever she ask for it. No woman is looking for an empty man, you must have a better idea of what is going on around the world and be able to offer her all that you have gained in life. She needs you to give her all the intellectual support she needed all the times; doing that, she will definitely want you stay in her life forever.

When a woman knows that you can stand in as a mentor, also act as her father, friend, and as someone who put her through some of the things that are very difficult for her to handle, she will want to go for you.

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Insecurity won't just happen in a relationship if there is no cause. It is either you have once caught your partner in the act or you are trying to use your past relationships to judge your present relationship, and lots more.

This article will surely shed light on relationship Insecurity and how to easily tackle it.

How can you solve insecurity problem in your relationship?

Here are some tips to help address insecurity in your relationship:

1. Stop worrying about the future of the relationship: You need to stop overthinking yourself because you always want your relationship work or end in marriage. You need to stop being too desperate about it because you want it work at all costs. Just have it at the back of your mind that it's either the relationship end into marriage or the other way round, you don't have to force it. Invest time and effort into building a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Engage in activities together, create shared goals, and prioritize quality time to strengthen your bond. Instead of having time to think on where the relationship will lead to, work on making every moment of it worth it.

2. Don't dwell on past relationship mistakes: Even if the person have been caught in the act once, he or she should be given the benefit of doubt if genuinely sorry. Don't always dwell on the past mistakes if you know your partner has changed, and If it's your past experiences that is making you doubt your partner, you need to stop thinking your partner will do the same. You might have been into series of bad relationships in the past but don't use that to judge your present relationship, you need to learn to let him do such before you react, conclude or start having insecurity issues.

3.Practice self-compassion: Conclude within yourself that I won't be bothered again before it happens. Always think in two ways: it's either it fails me or it will work for me, I will surely take heart no matter what. Learn to encourage yourself at all times to face it. Work on developing a strong sense of self-worth. Focus on your positive qualities, engage in activities that make you feel good about yourself, and practice self-care.

4. Approach all matters with patience: Be very calm. Don't conclude when you have not seen any evidence, don't assume because you have always been experiencing that in your past relationships, it's your past not him. Don't think he is also cheating on you because of your past, you have to wait until you have seen a prove of it. Minimize assumptions, it will only bring more of insecurities to the relationship.

5. Love yourself more and believe in yourself: Let your love rely on you not him all the times. Conclude that even if this doesn't work I won't die for it, I will always pick up my pieces and start all over again and if my partner is not there for me, I will surely be there for myself. Understand that self love will stop you from being too desperate about the relationship. Love yourself and stop taking everything with all seriousness.

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Amiyah Scott, a transwoman who was born Arthur Scott, has shared some words of wisdom regarding dating.
She tweeted:

Dating became much easier for me when I realized my worth. You gotta love YOU 1st! Yeah being in love is cool, but love is not tolerating disrespect or abuse. If somebody bleeps up, let them go! There’s nothing wrong with starting over or being alone until you are appreciated.

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Currently serving as the Soun Of Ogbomoso is Oba Jimoh Oladunni Oyewumi, Ajagungbade III. The monarch who turned 91 on May 27th, 2017 has spent over 42 years on the throne as the leader of Ogbomoso city in Oyo State, south-western Nigeria.

Ogbomoso is a city founded in the mid 17th century with a 2006 census population of 645,000.

Jimoh was born as a prince but ascended the throne after his father, Oba Bello Afolabi Oyewumi Ajagungbade II on October 24, 1973. His mother was Ayaba Seliat Olatundun Oyewumi.

The Nigerian King did his elementary education at St. Patrick Primary School, Oke Padre, Ibadan from 1932-1938. After that he attended the Ogbomoso People’s Institute (Later changed to Ogbomoso Grammar School).

Jimoh may have been born into a prominent royal family but he was not born with the silver spoon in his mouth.

For lack of financial assistance, he dropped out of school and ventured into business.

First he traveled to Jos in 1944 and started trading textile materials. From his 50 pound savings, Jimoh diverted into another business. In partnership with the United Africa Company of Nigeria (UAC), he bought and sold bicycles.

From a casual window shopping at G.B Ollivant, Oladunni met a Scottish friend Mr Smith who later became his business partner. Mr Smith was an expatriate who was working as the manager for G.B ollivant.

By 1950, Jimoh’s business success was evident. 8 years later, his business expanded into real estates and properties. He set up the famous Terminus Hotel and El-Duniya Hotel in Jos.

He was appointed as a distributor for the French-owned trading firm CFAO in 1954. This position took him on several trips around the world; an opportunity he used to explore and weigh business expansion ideas.

Let’s take a look at some life lessons from the Soun of Ogbomoso:



1. God First

In one of his interviews, Jimoh said he has no regrets whatsoever in the course of his administration as the Soun Of Ogbomoso. He never fails to attribute his leadership and business successes to God.

He considers himself blessed for setting the record of longevity in the leadership of his people.

“At the time I became a king 42 years ago, only aged people were made kings. But the aged people would spend three years or thereabout on the throne and would join their ancestors.”

Jimoh was not the only son but he was the chosen one. An unbelievable 90 out of the 94 decision makers favored his candidacy to be king.

2. Contentment

His majesty says it is always good to be content at every given level of one’s success.

“I do pray to Almighty Allah and I believe in God. I don’t have two fathers. It is only Almighty Allah, who keeps me up till today. I have my regular meals. I am contented. I don’t rush to have the whole world. The contentment is there.”

3. Dedication And Hardwork pays

To be in a leadership position is a tough job especially for genuine leaders.

“It is true that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. It is a delicate position and at the same time, it is a good position if you know how to rule your kingdom and do what you are supposed to do.”

The Soun of Ogbomoso had visions of profound transformations in his kingdom. On his coronation, he took up the electricity challenge and fixed it. He also made sure that the people had their own law courts and police station in order to create a prompt and efficient criminal justice system at the grassroots.

4. Education is a Force of Positive Transformation

Jimoh believed in the power of change. He valued education. From 3 schools in Ogbomoso, the Nigerian king has increased the number to 150 schools.

“One of the things I had in mind for Ogbomoso [was] educational transformation… education was my first priority. I pursued how we would have many primary and secondary schools and the Lord crowned my efforts with success. Now, we have many primary and secondary schools.”

5. Discipline Is Good For Success

In the words of his daughter, Princess Oyefunke Oworu who is a former Commissioner for Trade and Investment in Oyo State, the Soun of Ogbomoso is a “transparent and straightforward person”.

“I will say that he is a disciplinarian. “

“You might feel upset as a child, asking why he had been hard on you, but growing up, we discovered that he meant well for us”.

6. Keep the peace

“If you are occupying a stool as a king and you promote the culture of your subjects, it will not be a delicate position any longer. Then, it will be an enjoyable and peaceful reign for you.”

His daughter testifies that peace of mind is something her father has a lot of. He bears no grudges and “has no crises within him”.

7. Stay Humble

The Soun of Ogbomoso is often characterized as a humble personality regardless of his prominence across the nation. He is known for his saying that “Promotion comes from God.”

8. Government and the People Must Do Their Part

The Soun who is recognized by the government believes that the progress of a nation is not solely dependent on the government.

“I must say that the people in every kingdom must not think government will do everything for them. The people must also play their own part and government will also play its own part.”

While he admonishes the government to be true to their leadership call, he urged the people to assist and support them.

9. Your Gifts Will Make A Way For You

Being an example himself, the Soun of Ogbomoso dropped out of school for circumstances beyond his control. However he did not idle away his time. He explored and developed his business skills.

10. Give As Much As You Were Never Given

The Yoruba king who did not complete his education saw the need to make education available for his people. Likewise he educated all of his children to higher levels.

The Soun of Ogbomoso has a 343 years old tortoise called Alagba in his palace. The tortoise is the oldest living tortoise in the world. Thus has become one of the tourist attractions in Oyo State.

“At the time I became a king 42 years ago, only aged people were made kings. But the aged people would spend three years or thereabout on the throne and would join their ancestors.”

10. Give As Much As You Were Never Given
The Yoruba king who did not complete his education saw the need to make education available for his people. Likewise he educated all of his children to higher levels.

The Soun of Ogbomoso has a 343 years old tortoise called Alagba in his palace. The tortoise is the oldest living tortoise in the world. Thus has become one of the tourist attractions in Oyo State.

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