Few months ago,I was so depressed almost everyday. Sometimes I felt like commiting suicide because I was so lonely,broke and feeling mediocre. Oneday, which was on a Sunday. I was so lonely and depressed again,I pray and I said, "oh God help me". I said these words with pains in my heart. God heard me. That day,I met a pastor who is a husband to my friend. He counselled me. Though I didn't tell him every thing. That same day, I heard in my mind that I should go to a particular area to go and look for a friend's mum. On getting to the area. I saw a girl and ask her if she knows this my friend's mum because I didn't know the house. I asked her if she knows mama so so so and so,she replied no. One talk led to another, I gave her my number and I forgot to take hers. When I got home,I realized I didn't take her number. I pray in my heart that if she is the one ,she would called. It was not long when she called. That was how we began. Since that day till now, I don't feel depressed anymore. My financial channels of blessings has increased. She is a big blessing. I don't struggle. She doesn't stress me financially. Though she broke up with her ex the week before we met, she has never given me a reason to doubt her.
From the previous trend: she didn't go back to collect her clothes. Last we she got a new job, brought clothes. We are both getting better.
The question: girls are now flocking around me. I don't want to cheat. I told her everything. But the greenlight from girls to me these days is so surprising. I don't want to cheat. Those girls calls me. She is jealous. I don't want to hurt her. I am a disciplined person and also a Christian. Please no insult. What should I do to avoid cheating

ZIMDRILL:


Ok let me ask were they living together that she had lots of cloths there, thats she really need to collect.

No. She do spend a night there at times

The girl's husband sister has been pressuring her and convincing her to take the guy back, while the brother wants her to date a yahoo rich guy. And this now happening. She is a very good girl. I can belt she loves me so much

[quote author=LadyRosa post=115812134]Is there no dispatch rider in your state to pick her things up? [/quote
No ma. The guy wants her to come and collect it in person

ZIMDRILL:


if i was you i was going to show the girl that i am better man than the ex

1 get replacement sim card

2 buy her new cloths to replacement the one's at the ex's place

3 Test the ex if he is serious about returning the the things (an okada will come and pick up the things) chances that he would be mad are high

I am not too financially bouyant yet to start buying her clothes. She has glo sim card she is using. The MTN her ex is using is still working though not Registered

Mindlog:
Is she living with you?

If she must get her things from her ex, let her go with an older male relative as I believe she has family.

She doesn't live with me. She can't get male relative except her friends which are girls but I don't fancy her girlfriend going with her. What if I allow her go with her girlfriend?

Thanks everyone. She sometimes talk about the guy asking her to come and take her things after making it clear he wants her back severally. She has been telling me she won't go and at the same time telling me about her things that is there. I have made it clear to her that if she goes that will be the end of our relationship. I know she is easily fickle minded. What if she goes,how will I find out? She is someone anyone can easily convince. I am scared she might go someday

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...