₦airaland Forum

Why should I even attend the Wedding?

I fit attend and no spend 1 naira their, but my outfit and escorts with vehicles go speak the volume but not by throwing money at her

AllenSpencer:
Don’t let anybody lie you!

If you have saving and assets, sell it off and leave the country. Nigeria is heading nowhere.

I have a friend who sold all he has in Nigeria, and moved to the UK. He is currently changing diapers for adults and doing fine. Another one resigned from a bank in Nigeria and used all his assets and savings to Japa to US, hommie is currently lifting boxes at Amazon during the day and doing uber at night, and he is doing fine. You need to see their pictures on Facebook to confirm the big life they can afford.


You just need to be determined, in a space of 6 months , you should be able to recover all you sold in Nigeria.

You have said it all

Na today

In all countries worldwide, the products are to be written in the language that the citizens understand

I'm surprised to hear that Banga wey you cook spoil...from the point you off fire to when you on the fire no 10hrs,for it to cool properly go take approximately 2hrs because na oil,so you no really talk wetin do the soup. .... next time you see foam inside your stew or soup,before you warm,make sure you remove the whole foam better still, clear the surface and put 2pcs or 3pcs of charcoal in it then warm

Naijafever1:
I was in Kogi, you needed to see how this man was welcomed by his people, tells you there's something around the whole efcc thing.

In Nigerian politics, its the more you see the less you know

Oga

No matter what, a crook is a crook and the citizens are not ready to be emancipated or redeemed..

Did you hear that his children's school returned billions to the government because he paid all fees upfront

My brother, we are far from getting the country working... he steals billions and share 5k upandan and you call that good man

The issue be say


WHAT'S THE RED BIRO BOTH ARE TALKING ABOUT?

BECAUSE TO YOU ORDINARY PEOPLE, IT MAY SEEM LIKE THE NORMAL ONE BUT TO THEM IT'S A CODE

bixton:
This particular issue is only common to FCT.

Now, it's important to get C-of- O because it is a proper and better legal document to use in case of collateral or some other thing in the court. Though we know not many persons are interested in getting it for reasons best known to them and I also think given our nature as a people.
Also I can't exactly say that the C-of-O is expected to last for 100 years before the government will claim the land because not all lands are government owned as in not all people take possession of government acquired lands.

I can't be certain but I do know that this 100 years stuff is only limited to those lands or properties acquired by government that they sold to private individuals and it also applies to government built houses/estates built under the low cost housing schemes and other schemes. This is what is applicable in other States but I think the government don't enforce it because it would become serious issues for most retirees.

Alright boss

Thanks for this info

bixton:
Yes, that is it with the FCT.

Thank you boss

I've always wondered how come because of c or o wey takes 99yrs to expire, even if it expires, government can't seize your properties you bought,if it's so,then one shouldn't get c of o

Thanks for this,I appreciate

In igboland

We call the supposed dowry ( iduna or send off gifts and it's given to the bride, it can be anything)

Bride price

Many confuse this to the long list given by the wife's family or kinsmen

There are stages in marriage, some 3,some 4

And mind you, the most important in that list is the requirement for the ummunna and ndi Ada

This makes it possible for the bride's parents to partake in receiving their own shares whenever someone's daughter is wedding in the kindred, and it's not a must to fulfill all that requirements, you fit dey do am small small

Bride price na that token eg, e fit be 10 naira or 20naira
Note... E NO DEY THE LIST,IN MY OWN VILLAGE O
You first knock, na normal introduction wey no cost,schnapps and co.. then when you get the list, you can state the ones you can do at that particular time, but the most important thing be the BRIDE PRICE, which her father and one elder in the family will go inside the house with you to discuss, and e no cost, you give them the money and they will say words like... WE ARE NOT SELLING OUR DAUGHTER TO YOU, TAKE THIS MONEY BACK AND USE IT TO LOOK AFTER OUR DAUGHTER WELL ETC... and you get your money back, you can call it DOWRY

The list is not compulsory or IMMEDIATE it can be done gradually, the most important is to give the elders and the umuada theirs to make it possible for your parents to also partake in the sharing of anything that has to do with others daughter's marriage in the kindred

bixton:
From the information I can perceive since this demolition stuff arise, I think Abuja land law and revenue generation is different.
Though it's only applicable to certain high brow areas or should I say there are places in the FCT that such applies to and not necessarily the entire Abuja.
It's a must that land owners have a C-of- O and they are also made which is compulsory to pay ground rents which is to be paid every 5 years or thereabout. This ground rents collected is part of the IGR for FCT. Non payment of these ground rents means that the Minister can revoke your C-of-O.

Thanks boss

And when the c of o is revoked, so the land automatically becomes the government's own and they can give it to the next person?

From your explanations, I think the lands belong to the government, you only acquire it based on the c of o you are willing to abide by the rule or law that comes with it.... so if you fail to live up to it, you risk losing it and any structure on the said land too

confusedlady:
If he is a Muslim, his religion allows it. Not that I am in support of it. I just wanted to point it out to you that Islam does not oppose a husband beating his wife. Although the type of cane to be used to administer the punishment is clearly specified.

I support wife beating





In the room


Anytime she offends you, keep am for mind,when you enter room, comot your road,thrust so hard. And be like a horse,rough handle her

Make she feel pains in her p....after that tell her it's the punishment for her crime

My question on this c of o

Is it the land given to individuals by the government that he's talking about

Or any land in Abuja?

2... I thought once you get your c of o, no payment again till after 99yrs,then you renew

Someone with these knowledge should help me

Sapasenator:
Calm down, I think I can still get her to come to her senses. We loved each other once.

Reason I don't advise people in love

See who carry complain come dey say he wan make her come to her senses

I'll never continue to be in a marriage or relationship with a woman who has cheated

It's obviously she cheated reason for the secret meeting and bet you, na that one you know o

And can you buy yuan in any nigerian bank?

I will not believe what this poster posted

I've not heard of such outrageous tax for low income earners

Almost 100% for tax

Abeg tell me something else

Mindlog:
That 3 plaintain sef cost, I got 9 of it at Peckham for £3.

See enjoyment

Here ,1 plantain is 10yuan

Same stampede in okija

Obnoxious2001:
Who go come give her the companionship,love and support .

Mind you children is not the bone of contention here.

I may be termed a simp.or whatever

But one thing or characteristics I look out for in a woman is the fact that she dreams big I mean dreams that is realistic, and she's got respect and acknowledge me as the crown on her head

I will be willing to go every hook and crooner for her,I mean support her,love her and see her living her dreams,for the children, if we can't get a better nanny, we can put the kids in a good school with my nieces and nephews,with a car provided, so that my siblings wives or sisters or cousins can bring all back to her house,lesson teachers will come there to teach them etc, every evening if I close early,I go there to carry my kids and go home to bathe them, and feed them, I did it for my uncle's children, I cooked for the whole family while the wife was lazying about as a full time housewife, how much for my own household....

If my wife gets home before me,she'd go bring the kids,more of communication....

Though I'm yet to see a wife who has the ops mindset...


For your info... some men do these in china,most women in china loves the work while some of the men help them take care of chores

Even our African brothers do the cooking and cleaning in the home because most chinese women find it difficult to clean and cook African dishes too.. my guy wey dey marry Madagascar woman na him dey cook and clean him house...

Peace

Kingju:
Animegirl

It's dicey, you can achieve both actually but it depends on your partner, you have to be with someone who understands that you want to pursue a career too. The thing is most ladies tend to throw away their feminine nature when they're pursuing their career but, if you can keep that intact and understand the position of your husband as the head in the union and never dispute that position with him, then I think you'll be able to achieve both, it won't be an easy road but perseverance would yield the results you need

You're definitely right

Both partners needs to come to term, and she needs to understand her role and acknowledge the fact that her husband is the head and I bet you, the man will be willing to support her but when the money and fame starts coming in and you pass your husband financially and otherwise, still give him the respect as to when you started

Sometimes money will bring out the true nature of people and bet you,na you go dey irritated with him and ask for divorce

Some people don't know how to manage fame and money

Animegirl:
I have a burning passion to become a wealthy and successful woman, but I'm worried that getting married and having children might force me to put my dreams on hold. I'm concerned that I won't be able to balance family life with my personal ambitions. Furthermore, the societal pressures in Nigeria, combined with the constraints of time and age, are making me feel like I'm already at a disadvantage. My desire for success is strong, but I'm fearful that having a family might mean sacrificing my dreams.

I'm really scared.

I've got a solid advice for ya

Pursue your career

When you get some certain amount of success, go for sperm donor, carry pregnancy and deliver as much as you want and continue your life

If you are unable to carry pregnancy, or pregnancies, pay for surrogacy, have your eggs taken and fertilized in another's and you pay them

So it won't disturb your career

rummmy:
Stories .
Lagos I know

Them go just snap pictures of buildings instead of the environment

And you can never ever do this to a Chinese in china

Instead na you dem go beat

And na police not soldiers,you can't see soldier on the street

A nice gesture

It's tradition to give your kids gifts as send off,igbo do it

No matter how small or big

But I hope this kind of gift doesn't bring hatred or unhappy home,reason being, the bride can be funny to say give me back my father's car and we know how women can be dramatic... God bless your union

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Anny69:
Who said I'm married? 🤣🤣Egbami. Ha, men are so emotional o.

Good o
😆

Anny69:
Correction: Men do not deserve submission.

Then why marry if you can't do that?

If he doesn't love you, why marry him

I don't want to hear genocide