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For your sake i signed up in this forum. My advice is flowing from the first response you got underneath your post--which urged you to discontinue with the relationship.

Your post about the girl you want to marry is very striking, it's a perfect description of my wife of 9 years, whose 'i don't care attitude' has caused me my worth as a man; up until today I've not stopped thinking of divorce and how to go about raising my kids single-handedly.
Take my advice, leave her as fast as you can, and build a relationship with a woman who would welcome your chastisements with gladness. The easiest way to kill a man is to strip him off control and authority! If that happens to you, you might not survive the complications that would follow such as stress and high blood pressure.

What you are seeing now is just a tip of the ice berg. By the time you marry her, and she bear a child, you would be surprised at what she would become; she doesn't love you, your money is providing the comfort she needs. Remember, she might not cheat on you but she would make sure you are reduced to nothingness.

I am a daredevil person, i take a lot of risks, otherwise I would not have married my partner. Today, I've lost self-worth, happiness and drive; which are the essentials that keeps a man going; that is why i said I've not stopped thinking of a divorce...