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IGBOSON1: ^^^ I heard that story as well! After overruling those that should know better (for primordial, vindictive and xenophobic reasons), they now gave Onitsha MTI (metallurgical training institute) as compensation!

the funny part of it is that the russian engineers warned shagari that "no onitsha no functioning steel complex for nigeria" but shagari the fulani cattle rearer refused to listen to them,today nigeria has spent billions on that same project but no good result due to nigeria's wickedness for the igbo man,things has not been going well for the false country. One thing I believe is,this same people who hinder our progress will someday beg us for help and plead for forgiveness.

ketoprofen: I pray that Osita is sharp like Stella, seriously.
Stella used limited time to achieve a lot, international status and operations, and then defined international terminal . No dulling.
This is the only chance SE has to secure everything about aviation!
There is an Igbo minister and a president that has been the least anti SE as far as aviation is concerned.
I hope he doesn't go there and become one Zik or Ironsi like that.
Y am saying this is that constitutionally, criticisms from non Igbo politicians will come but if he were fast, he will achieve much before they pull him down.
Stella's case is an eg.

zik and ironsi are goats sorry to say,then stella is one messiah to us but they conspired to take are away,now osita got to open his eyes and do the needful in this Igbo fan president regime,the only president that wiped away our tears since the genocide,I just can't wait to see osita making moves about the international flights to enugu. do you know onitsha was the chosen place for the siting of ajaokuta steel complex but shagari refused and forced the russian engineers to build the steel complex at ajaokuta. So osita and GEJ gats tighten their sit bets before we lose this opportunity cuz this people we claim one country with are ready to turn us all slaves due to their inexplicable hatred for us.

With the heavy development going on in enugu and the cry of the indian government for a direct flight to nigeria,I think osita should convince the indians to fly direct to enugu since igbos travel to india more than any other people,most drugs we use are from india and the major importers are onitsha and orlu people who reside in the east,by osita archiving this more foreign investment will come into enugu and the entire igboland. Osita should also work on the enugu direct flight to china so our business men can travel from all asian countries they operate direct to igboland through Enugu cuz the igboman has businesses in almost all asian countries. God will see us through this economic strangling nigeria is doing to us(amen)

Hello umunnem I greet you all and really appreciate your contributions so far on the development of our state. What I have to say to okorocha is to expand owerri metropolis and also the infrastructure there is not enough for the populace e.g the face lift of irete and other nearby communities to be part of the city,Owerri Capital Development Area(OCDA) mapped out 100kmsquare of land for the development of a capital city but 60% of the area is bushy with no development plan,places like nekede and ihiagwa is part of the OCDA but people build houses in this areas any how and the Imo state government doesn't map out street plan for them,all they do is collect money and leave the area with no good road network that can easily join the said communities with owerri town. Pls anybody who value imo state and igboland should quickly advice okorocha about this street planning in the highlighted areas in order to avoid destruction of houses later in the future and also the entire owerri has a very poor road network the government should do something about it other than flood everywhere with roundabouts so annoying.

iconize: I don't believe this crap!

Most Nigerians regard all Northerners as Hausas.

Someone list the states where Hausas are majority.

the hausa majority states are only the NW and some of the NE states so with my survey so far in nigeria,hausa and fulani put together is not up to 1/2 of the igbo and ibibio population,cuz the igbo tribe makes up almost 30 percent population in all states you find progress in nigeria,the only thing the igbo lack is land but as for populace they have always been the largest ethnic group in this british merger scam of a country called nigeria realistically,mind you northerners kicked against the counting of nigerians by ethnicity meaning they know their populace is a falsified one,I bet you aside igbos and other southern people in niger state the indegenous people are not up to 2million people but what do we have in the census figure?

nannyo: Seconded. Be diplomatic.

aiit thanks baibe.

nannyo: guy am a babe

o baibe thank you very much,but sis en I won't tell her to leave but I will just sit and watch her make decisions herself while I struggle my way to success,so if she continues with the man I will end the relationship but if she keeps are promise as she proposed earlier then I will continue with her,God can surprisingly wipe away all troubles and sorrows,what do you think my dear?

aflyingbird: i read your epistle.

her family did influence her into going out with the other man, but at the end of the day she's an adult and made her own choice herself. no one forced her. don't blame urself cuz u don't hv money. it's not ur duty to provide for her. u wud've given her money if u had, but u didn't. she chose to go with another man, not ur fault. but whateva, blame urself all u want, dat's ur problem.

thank you very much I appreciate your concern.

junell: I would have helped you with an advice but ur lack of punctuation mark and single paragraph didn't let me.

I typed with my phone,I am not that bad in writing though.

aflyingbird: op, move on. there're plenty of women out there. why waste time on someone who is chasing after another man?

my present situation and her family made her chase after another man.

GANDALF1: Been in his shoes before.

but brother how do I face her crying,calling me a weak man cuz that's what she does whenever I ask her to move on with the man.

nannyo: I insist u Let her go cos both of wIll b frustrated in d long run. Forcus on maKin cash for now. If u guys are meant tO b, things will arange itself. Trust me

thank you brother,I really appreciate your concern.

GANDALF1: Ok OP. I am done reading.

My Advice: Face your book, graduate with a good grade, hustle for and get a good job, make money and be good. In 5years, you will thank me.

For the lady, she should concentrate on the guy, get married, get educated, and learn to love him. Ladies are like flowers. Dont let her waste her bloom over you because she would have withered by the time you are ready.
And... you will not want her then.

My 2cents

hmmm breaths out in temporary relief,but do you know you just hit the nail on the head?

AdeniyiA: childish lust tinz that reality nd maturity will snatch from them , if u know wat am talking

that's what we are checking too cuz she has often complained the man aint loyal,well that's not my business,my business is her well fare with him for now as she said.

djeezy: whew! Thanks bro for the summary. @op, this is a competition you cant win for now. I advice you let go and focus on your education. Whats the assurance that as soon as you graduate you will get a job and get married to her. It is obvious that the blessing of her parents lies with the 34 years old dude. There are far better things ahead than we leave behind.

thank u very much djeezy but what if the man ends up playing her? I really care about this girl even if she is not mine anymore for now,I strongly believe I will make cash,I have a business I run while in sch but having ish with it now which caused me not to be able to cater for her basic needs presently. All the same she now appears as a drawback and the same time a challenge to my manliness,whenever I tell her to go and marry the potbellied man she screams in tears that I am a weak man,my brother en,I am utterly confused and indecisive as we speak.

OohMpa: [color=#808000]This kind tori dey always end where the guy dey wipe hin eyes with tissue....

Do you, the girl and the 34 yr old potbellied guy (Yes, he is ) a favour by ending it now with the little pieces of heart left[/color]

what if the potbellied man ends up deceiving her and doesn't marry her? As for the worst I am slowly preparing myself for the worst if it eventually happens,my boss shared this similar story to me which happened to him and his wife. So let's just not conclude.

GANDALF1: I have been asking myself why the grammarians went ahead, despite all odds, to invent the punctuation marks and paragraph.

Now I know what challenged them.

calm down brother I typed with a phone not knowing the paragraphs I created while typing weren't real. Mind u I am facing my greatest frustration now since I was born,wanted to pass full details of the story not to show my writing skills,I am not a writer just wanted advice from u and others.

StPete: Welcome to the world of realities OP

I was exactly in ur shoes a few years ago. As hard as u can try, there's little u can do for now. Your best bet is to make good grades (at least 2.1) and get a good job. Forget dat girl cos she's already GONE. She belongs to d man now. She will come back to u in a few yrs time but it'll be late then.

Now I don't run after girls...

thank you brother really appreciate your comment,already preparing my heart for the worst and the same time doing my best to make cash aside dependence on school certificate,I run a biz but its not presently yielding cash at all for now,I know she is gradually going till she will be fully gone,I have big dreams to chase.

nannyo: That's d problem wit most poor pple, a girl is managing u, yet u are tough. Abeg free her since u can't meet up in any way. Her parents are also poor. Abi u no get conscience? [sub][/sub][b][/b][b][/b]she is the only woman I have seen that can handle me because I am a very tough man,the only woman that stayed long with me as long as 2 years which others would want to but can't achieve it due to my toughness aside cash tins,she is not demanding,she always believe she will someday make her own money someday,Pls I need serious and mature advices here before I go mad,I am 23 years old while my GF is 18 and her rich suitor is 34. Thank you for reading while I wait for your comment.
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calm down brother,being tough was never my fault or should I blame God for creating me this way,this young girl could stay with me because she found the man of her dream in me despite no cash for now,the tough aspect of it is I hardly get pleased by women so I have not seen any of my taste till I met her,and she was able to be with me all true my financial woes,get my point I am not a destitute but I can't presently meet up are basic needs,as for she managing me is totally wrong of u.

iwakolewa: How old are you? How old is she? You can't even type properly, no paragraphs or spacing.....

my advise, leave that girl that is yet to write jamb alone,let her face her studies.

And you.... just build yourself up first before chasing girls.

typed with my phone,my system was down,thank you up there.

My girl friend and I have been dating for the past 2 years and we love each other very much that neither of us is replaceable,I am in my 6months IT now,will be graduating 2015 while she will be writing jamb 2015 too. Trouble started when are mum and elder sisters said I am a failure,that life with me will be hell of a life that she should shatter whatever thing she has to do with me cuz some made men are already coming to her for marriage but she doesn't want to marry till she earn her first degree and she doesn't love those people,that she can't do without me and if she doesn't end up her life with me then she will possibly not find a man to replace me in her heart,me in the other way too just can't give up despite all my close friends and loved ones telling me to quit the relationship that I have many responsibilities to take care of before putting a woman on my head,also her mum and elder sisters has already declared me a failure that what else do I want from her family before I know its a no go area. So after much pressure from her family we noticed we couldn't leave Each other,the more her mum pressure her the more she falls more in love with me,now I am an undergraduate with nothing doing for now and my parents are not rich to take full care of me and my siblings,we are all struggling to survive. My girl friends family are not rich too only one of her elder sis is married to rich man,so the elder sis is the bread winner of their family. Now my Girl friend told me one of her suitors is really disturbing her and she has finally agreed to be dating him in other to please her mum but begged me to endure that its for the main time,now looking at the present way things are for me I can't afford most of her basic needs and she presently needs cash for some vital things and exam registrations etc but I can't afford them,she then decided to go out with the very rich suitor for a while to get help from him within that period to solve her financial problems then break up with him to respect our relationship,now she is gradually getting angry at the actions of the rich dude meaning she is now have feelings for him,she promised she will never allow the man have sex with her,so sometimes if I call when she is with the man she won't pick up,I feel very bad about it but still hold my anger and endure the torture of being broke But she will still always tell me its for the main time that everything will be ok soon,that she is very optimistic about us and strongly believe we can make it against all odds. now brothers and sisters here in this forum jealousy and self hate for being broke is eating me up,I am still scared the rich dude doesn't end up taking her away then my heart will be broken and dreams for her shattered,pls what do I do about this unbelieveable night mare happening to me? should I end the relationship or should I keep enduring the torture for the main time as she said before things goes back to normal,remember I love her very much and wouldn't mind spending the rest of my life with her when I make money,she has contributed a lot to my life financially,morally,intellectually etc,she is the only woman I have seen that can handle me because I am a very tough man,the only woman that stayed long with me as long as 2 years which others would want to but can't achieve it due to my toughness aside cash tins,she is not demanding,she always believe she will someday make her own money someday,Pls I need serious and mature advices here before I go mad,I am 23 years old while my GF is 18 and her rich suitor is 34. Thank you for reading while I wait for your comment.