Hello, I'm new here. I actually joined to ask for you guys help. I was in a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend and we splitted recently. We've been fighting for it for a while and I tried fighting more. It showed that I cared more in the relationship. She went to Nigeria for break from school (we both school abroad) and then started talking to her secondary school senior every night on the phone. Ignored my calls. I acted like it was cool. After a week I couldn't take it anymore so we fought over it. We settled tried to work things out then she said she wanted a breakup bc I'm making new female friends here and she couldn't trust me anymore. We've broken up for about 3 weeks now. Here lies the problem. I was heartbroken for about 3 days but after then I've been doing well, seeing other girls. I've had a perfect week straight with single ladies in my bed twice since the breakup but all of a sudden today I started feeling heartbroken. I miss her and I know she doesn't respect me anymore. I still love her. Is it possible to rekindle the love? Ps I'm going to Nigeria in less than a month. I plan on visiting her to see if we can talk things out. I wish we can get back together bc of how I feel and I also wish I can get over this heartbreak again bc I know she doesn't deserve me. She has a real bad attitude. I managed it for 3 years. I do love her. If you believe I shouldn't get back with her. Tell me how to kill the love. Bc the love I have for her is really strong.