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SarutobiEky:
You're laughing abi. Be like you dey whyne us here to see our reactions.

Nah I'm not! But I can't cry na

SarutobiEky:
Aunty, someone already offered to father the child....

ntipro:
Don't abort that child. That is all I can tell you

I don't want to honestly!

Favfables1:
Emma2Seconds....
Even if you were harsh with your words, you deserve a bottle a chilled beer ....

OP...
I'm gonna be very real with you here...
You met a guy in the capacity of a wh.o.r.e and you expect him to take you serious? LMAO ...

What planet do you live in!!! ...

Sweetheart....
You're nothing but a fu.ckbud.dy to that guy...
You're just a wh.o.re turned FWB ...
And even if you didn't get pregnant, just know that NOTHING like marriage will result from your "relationship" with him, no matter how long you stayed with him ...

I'm not saying this to rub it in....
But just know that NO MAN I know, will marry a girl who is a wh.o.re, NEVER! Unless he didn't know about it before hand or maybe there's lots of benefits in it for him ...

As regards whether or not you should keep the pregnancy, well that's your business ...

But if you do decide to keep the baby....
Know that very few men will marry a single mother and just Incase you don't wanna get married, Sha know that statistics has shown that single mothers literally ruin their children's life....

But if you do decide to terminate...
Know that you've become a murder and even if there are no complications in the course of the abortion, youve got to take this secret to your grave, cause lots of men out there will not want to be with an "abortionist" ...

mtchewwwwwwwww! And u just made sense

aktolly54:
be patient with him and take things slow. How you meet him don't matter because 70% of guy always have intention of hit and go but when we see some other interesting things in girl, we decided to stay.

Keep calm please

Thank you! I don't wanna give him issues, I just want him to be reasonable enough and do the right thing. I'm not forcing him to marry me or something. Just support, at least knowing fully well someone is there for you, supporting you all the way.

aktolly54:
do girl normally pray for their boyfriend when things get serious? Like minimum of one hour of prayer in the mid night not 5min or 2min prayer oooo. It's not that God don't listen to 2min prayer but there are level of seriousness you need to display in prayer by praying for long time while your mind is focus

Or girls just stay with guy and enjoy every moment with them.

My dear I do honestly! I know the importance of prayers, so l do.

Emma2Seconds:
Which ppl dey do hook up work for your village Abii u don't say hook up na ashawo business and your here claiming right. Sex for payment is prostitution take it or leave it . Na professional ashawo u be ok . Get Sense for once ok enjoy your pregnancy in peace and
leave that innocent guy alone

Ignored

Emma2Seconds:
U have gotten what you want . He payed for ur hook up service and your here talking rubbish. So stop disturbing us here. Nah Claver ashawo
u be . If Ur tired of runs work u go look for husband ok

Get lost agbaya lol

Jmichael1:
honestly dear i understand ur pain..

i don't knw if i might be right or wrong,i tink u shud visit him one more time to knw his stand on dis..but...don't pick up a fight or quarel with him..

That's what I wanna do by next weekend. I just want to hear from him face to face. No quarrels!

Jmichael1:
same taught going thru my mind here...

I only explained the surface of what I and this guy have been through. The reason for this sudden decision is what I don't know and many of them here are bashing me cos I said I took money on our first night of meeting... I can take care of myself, infact my family too can. I'm not a kid but the thought of him not supporting me is what is killing me but no issues I leave it to God.

Emma2Seconds:
U don't have any thing doing ok � na olosho u be ok . Go and read your write up very well . You're asking a guy weather to come over after passing one night for the first time and ur here claiming your not runs girl!!! Pls leave that guy alone ok you have gotten what you want.

Oga rest abi are u guilty of what I wrote Get a lady pregnant and won't take responsibility?? Abeg get out

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

Na wah

ajailer:
You enjoyed the first night and called him if you should come back again and he said yes…..

Can’t you see that you have been the one leading him on all the time and now that belle don enter and some financial challenges, d guy eye don open n he no wan do again. Better think on what to do with the belle fast fast o cos the guy is not likely to change his mind o.

You get mind sha, from hook up to marriage and you think say na only you get sense abi?
Instead make u Dey thank you stars say dis Dey happen early when belle never go far and make you learn your lessons u say u wan follow d guy drag am.

Get a legit hustle doing before you say u wan Dey fall in love and stop Olosho, ritualists no dey fear una?

Shut up ur mouth! Did I tell I don't have something doing?

LUAN:
can I father the child,,?

Thank you

rickpat:
keep the baby if you're financially capable....or you don't want to keep the baby ...well you know what to do..as for the father,he doesn't want it...so let him be..don't waste your time fighting him...he has mind up his mind....be more careful next time... DON'T ASSUME YOU'RE DATING SOMEONE WHO IS NOT DATING YOU OR EVEN IN LOVE WITH YOU....good luck

Thank you! I'll just go with my mind. I'll keep the child

PerfectStranger:
sharrrap!
Dude was doing well but the moment you came into his life,he started having badluck and financial crises.
I blame him for treating a farm tool like a wife. If only he moved on after the first hookup session.

Pele oh

Kriss216:
But, you didn't inform us when you guys were lashing and kpeshing..why disturbing us now? Don't you have respect for us? Are we your mate?

A part of me really wants this child but the thought the father doesn't want to have anything to do with it is killing me

Medianna:
He has already told you his mind na
So now what I don't understand is this:
Is it that you're not financially stable enough or you can't make any decision on your own?

I am capable of taking care of myself but knowing fully he doesn't want to have anything to do with the pregnancy I'll terminate it but we'll have to go together.

Kestolove:
ashawo won form right...

if u don't have any meaningful contribution u can ignore please