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salsera:
IF this is true. There is nothing virtuous about it.

1. He dated you in secondary school at 14years at his own age of 25years!!!
2. What do you mean you had sex at 18years? Or you think because he didn't penetrate with his p#nis means it was not sex. Cos if nothing sexual happened in those 4years then why do you still call it a relationship.
3. Why do you feel you feel you have disappointed your parents. If the relationship was legit for 6years would they not expect marriage.
4. Your baby daddy is 31years so what did he expect would happen. Was he looking towards you clocking 15years dating before belle go enter.

I seriously suspect your relationship
Cos if I heard a 26year old started to date a 14year old then he started as a paedophile. .

Quite Honestly, none of this sounds new. I'm shocked that you are shocked about this in a very perverse 21st century!
1. I was 12 yeas when I started having advances from my Uncle's twenty-something year old friends. I had a very big stature and what's usually on the mind of most boys is sex and/or romance that they are unprepared for.
2. I don't believe there must be sex to qualify as a relationship.
3. It happens, it is possible they were sneaking around as no parent in Nigeria ever expects their 14year old to be in a relationship.
4...
Finally, I don't know of any laws against pedophiles here in Nigeria. A senator married a 13year old for crying out loud. I have seen a 16year old and 21 year old be in a relationship. It is wrong but it happens. My point is the girl know her wrong, she Is seeking help. And all I see is a further highlight of what she already knows.

salsera:
IF this is true. There is nothing virtuous about it.

1. He dated you in secondary school at 14years at his own age of 25years!!!
2. What do you mean you had sex at 18years? Or you think because he didn't penetrate with his p#nis means it was not sex. Cos if nothing sexual happened in those 4years then why do you still call it a relationship.
3. Why do you feel you feel you have disappointed your parents. If the relationship was legit for 6years would they not expect marriage.
4. Your baby daddy is 31years so what did he expect would happen. Was he looking towards you clocking 15years dating before belle go enter.

I seriously suspect your relationship
Cos if I heard a 26year old started to date a 14year old then he started as a paedophile. .

Quite Honestly, none of this sounds new. I'm shocked that you are shocked about this in a very perverse 21st century!
1. I was 12 yeas when I started having advances from my Uncle's twenty-something year old friends. I had a very big stature and what's usually on the mind of most boys is sex and/or romance that they are unprepared for.
2. I don't believe there must be sex to qualify as a relationship.

I can't advice you because I am unworthy to. I can't possibly judge you, you already acknowledge your fault, ask God for forgiveness and believe that u have been forgiven.
I can, however, tell u of a fine thing I saw when I was working as a volunteer in an orphanage.

A young girl, can't be more than 18, started working at the orphanage so that her baby can in turn use up their resources. She would not abort and she wouldn't abandon her child. Today, her baby is grown - abt a year plus. I stopped working there but the last time I saw her She was looking very healthy. She still works at d orphanage but goes home at night and resumes he next day to see her baby (as opposed to living there when the baby was just some days old).
She could even improve herself and get an education if she wanted to.

God bless u

LadyFiona:
Keep the baby and get a job.

Your Mom and sister including the " guy " missed another vital option --- marriage.

At 20 and 31 years, both of you should get married and slug it out together.




You started frolicking at 14 years, you're one baddass ooooooo.

You must've missed the part where she said the guy is broke and can't even afford to take care of himself.. let alone two mouths. How are they suppose to finance the marriage rites or get an apartment? Let alone build a life together??

^^^ Idara is not an Efik name. It's AkwaIbom. So, what you may have to offer is an ibibio list.
As for the poster, I realize this is an old post, I do hope your bro is happily married now. The list actually must be given by the family, so it is necessary for one to go back to one's roots when it comes to traditional matters such as this. The whole extended family is usually involved and not just the girl's nuclear family.

Please, I'd like to know the coss for the heat press machine. Thanks. Stello.boffiong@gmail.com

yemi2plus2: Big fat lie. Nothing like that on his twitter or facebook page

even if it were.... its not past him to make such meaningless comment if asked

femi4: 1406138088811485

thanks a lot sir, it worked!

Good day. Please, can i get the MEP code for a blackberry 9360, IMEI : 353612053883067, PRD -30137 - 028. thanks in anticipation..?

Helo. Im nu here. Im batch c, 2012 n i was posted to imo state. Anyone...?