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KillahPriest:
You don't need to shout or beg anymore, your wife is quarter gone out of the house already so the best thing is to look out for yourself and the kids. If its possible to get a lesson teacher and house keeper that comes once or twice a week, I believe you should take that option and don't even bother about asking her permission/input. Also take care of yourself by dressing sharp (if you dont) and smelling nice, go out more often even if it's to the gym. If your house is big, take a separate room from hers and don't ever bother her about sèx again. Give her anything she wants financially but allow her fly. You're a guy man so you should know women need rivals once in a while and it's just the sad world we live in. If you cant cheat then, get a bestie or rent a babe but you gan need to unload so how we wan do am now You gats blow outside Anyways, no follow am drag anything again even if she open mouth say she wan go, open door quietly and give her thirty minutes to move her stuff, nobody go tell her say township na mind, na she go find out by herself. Your main issue is that you lack self confidence which is very important when dealing with these our women. See, even if she involves her parents or whoever, you have to calmly tell them that their daughter is useless and you didnt know from day one that she lacked home training as a decent woman but no wahala. My advice is under the assumption that you're doing your full duties financially as a father and husband and if you're not, go wash your head for your papa village

Exactly!
If she’s not ready to change and be committed to the family, take it as a personal challenge, shift you attention to a new purpose, it can be going to the gym, starting a new business or anything that will give you a sense of fulfillment. Enjoy training your children alone, what if you’re a single dad, you would train them. I will advise that divorce is not an option, for the sake of the innocent children that you love. No stress, create your new happiness in a positive way

jazzman7711:
Exactly. It’s emotional immaturity.

I experienced such in my uni days. I almost killed a guy because I felt embarrassed after he won in a fight between us in front of my pals.

I waited for the guy outside the joint with a couple of my Gs and with a broken bottle with the intent to slice him once he came out from the joint.

Luckily someone informed him and he took the back door exit and disappeared.

Yours truly might have spent years in jail for murder had he come out through the front.

At that age you don’t consider things before doing them, especially when driven by emotion, especially pride. If you feel your pride shattered, you can do anything.

Exactly, we all had that young and dumb actions we did. But taking his life was the extreme of pride or probably inferiority complex.

Why would he hang himself during a video
Call with his friends, I guess he was mocked by his friends. He’s still immature, if only he could overcome the tragic moment, he would have laughed over it later in life

God calls everyone but most people rejects and hardened their hearts. If only you are willing to open the door of your heart to him, you will know Him who is the way, the truth and the light.

What do you mean by your lifespan is short?

If the world does not come to an end soon, I could only imagine what Nigeria will turn into in the nearest future, kidnapping will be rampant like yahoo boys everywhere cos I’m very sure the issue we hear online about kidnapping now will be like 1% of the total atrocities going on. It is well. Come home people, the world is rushing to an end. Jesus saves!!!

So sad but what can we do as human? We can only sympathize 🙁.

I’m ashamed of the priest more… God have mercy of our generation, we are on the path of Sodom and Gomorrah

No true peace without Jesus, no matter the number of zeros you have, it’s still nothing without a 1 at the front, Jesus is the 1. Don’t stop going to church because most of the churches are bad, choose a Bible believing church that helps your spiritual life instead. Because there are quark doctors doesn’t mean you wouldn’t go to the hospital when you’re sick. Pleasing people is not commanded, it’s rather right to please God rather than men. God help us all

Rojika:

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See this one using his hand to do himself. For your information, efcc would have seen your WhatsApp number as well. lol. Repent, stop living on someone else downfall and pain. It’s nothing different from money rituals cos you’re spoiling someone’s life to live. God sees all

What a brave driver.

Broken does not have to mean hopeless. You can’t change your past but Jesus can change your past for you and give you a new beginning. When there’s no more place to turn to, don’t be tempted to turn to death, turn to Jesus. He saves. I’m a living testimony

I wonder how they were able to bury someone successful in that open place and they were not caught. The heart of men are deceitfully wicked. So many cases like this would have been done successfully without them being caught. Trust no one, someone reading this might also be a murderer but Jesus saves if you repent while you can

I want to believe this is a skit, content creators go extra mile to make content that will give them high engagement. This must be a paid skit for a content creator

This is so heartbreaking, more heartbreaking if the dead went to meet their creator with their sins following them. No one knows what next hour brings, now Is the acceptable time of salvation. Repent of your sinful life and accept Jesus truly. Eternity is underestimated, many fate has been sealed, escape into life when you can, the world ship is fast sinking.

God says be ye holy as He is holy, no body can be holy as God, the Bible says if you keep all the commandments and you are guilty of one, you’re guilty of all. So no one can be holy to make heaven. That is why you need to take on the righteousness of Jesus Christ by faith, so when God sees you, he won’t be seeing a sinner but a righteous man through Jesus Christ. I pray the Holy Spirit helps us because when I look at our generation, all I see is people perishing because of lack of knowledge. Jesus paid it all

John 16:2; They shall put you out of the synagogues; yea, the time cometh that whosoever killeth you will think that he doeth God service.
May the Lord comfort the affected families and blessed are the souls that died in service

I hope this be of help to you while you patiently wait on God to intervene and make things right in your marriage. I hope this message speaks to all as well. Amen

How to have Peace in Chaos

Peace is the absence of fear. There are two types of peace, peace of the world and peace of God.
We don’t know what tomorrow brings, we hear and see chaos everywhere including in our lives, these bring fear of the known and unknown. People try to escape and to distract their mind from the feeling of fear and create false happiness, they daydream everything like nothing unpleasant is not going to happen at all, some can’t bear it and they commit suicide, some try to escape with pleasure, they get drunk, use drugs, partying, involve in sexual immoralities and many other vices. This is the temporary virtual peace you get from the world, and it’s soon over and you find yourself battling with finding rest and peace for your soul again. That’s why people go back continuously into all these vices until addiction sets in because we all crave for peace. To have peace in this chaotic world, your hope must be placed outside the world

How do you have the true permanent peace?
Firstly, Peace with God : Romans 5:1 ‘Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ’ we must first be justified of all our sins. Being ‘justified’ means Jesus forgives you and erases your past as if you never committed any sin before. 2cor5:17 ‘Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.’ You need to have peace with God first, you need to repent from your sinful life, receive Jesus Christ by faith into your life and be willing to obey His commandments. There’s no other way to have peace with God except through Jesus Christ: John 3:16 ‘For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.’
You have peace with God when you know you have everlasting life after this chaotic life is over. How shall we escape if we neglect so great a salvation
Secondly, peace from God: After you have peace with God, He gives you His peace that is above the chaos of this world. Jesus says in John 14:27 ‘Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.’

Remember Paul and Silas in the Bible, these two were beaten mercilessly in the marketplace, thrown bound into the worst prison without any treatment of their wounds despite the fact that they did no bad thing, out of these chaos, they prayed and sang praises to God because they had peace towards God and peace of God. This is beyond human understanding, it can only be peace of God. We all need Jesus, He is the only source of life because without peace, we are only existing and not living either we are free or bound. Psalm 34:8 ‘O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.’
You can have peace right now, it doesn’t take a whole lot of process or application, it’s a free gift. Get on your knees and pray to your maker to forgive you, He loves you, He will welcome you, justify you and give you his peace. Amen!

Baba wey just come back from vacation no wan rest, pls rest baba

Avoid cultism! Embrace love and peace. Now it’s justice for Justice. May the Lord comfort the family

Money is talking, they even used CapCut app for the video lol. Nigeria is a joke. One man for himself

First, have a DNA test done for your daughters. If the results are positive, you can continue to care for them without needing them to live with you. Take them on outings and invite them over on weekends. If your wife and her family are distancing themselves from you, involve your own family to help resolve the situation amicably. This way, you can provide your daughters with the love they need, which is essential. Many single mothers can negatively influence their children’s perceptions of their ex-partners, which can harm the kids psychologically in the long run. It's important for both of you to agree on co-parenting and for you to consistently show up in their lives, encouraging them to visit you for vacations and similar activities.

And they will be happy that’s he’s a boy at birth…. See the boy and many of you that are useless