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RomanceRe: Think Twice Before You Throw A Birthday Party For Your Girlfriend by stonemind(f): 9:24pm On Aug 17, 2020
Hmm
PoliticsRe: Ibrahim Babangida Laughing At Mamman Vatsa's Wedding In The 60s (photo) by stonemind(f): 11:15am On Aug 17, 2020
So what do you now want me to do now?
TV/MoviesRe: I Felt Like There Was Pepper In Your Hand When You Fingered, Erica Tells Kidwaya by stonemind(f): 10:55am On Aug 17, 2020
Chaii lucky girl
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by stonemind(f): 10:54am On Aug 17, 2020
Good morning my loves
TravelRe: My Friends Exploiting Money From Me, Advice Needed by stonemind(f): 6:51pm On Jul 27, 2020
ikoroduarea:
Hi all,

I will really appreciate if moderator can help push this to front page.

Firstly, insults are welcome. I reside in Europe. Two of my friends they are biological brothers, they've been sucking me. I have been sending them money regularly for years, yes years, but I now realised that these people are not ready to work or learn any skill. Even their own biological brother in abroad reported them to me and doesn't take them serious anymore except their mum. Infarct, i used to send money to their mum too. But they just keep asking me for money everytime. Imagine I just sent you money when you said you are sick, two days after you sent me voice record asking me for money to rent a shop. Then the younger one who's chat bellow asking me for 100k for three of them as if I am picking money on the floor here. To some people in Nigeria who always think all nigerians in diaspora think we always think you're begging for money whenever you say hi just to hear from us, it is not the case. How about this too?

I am really tired. My wife who always agree I should help them have started complaining too. These two friends suddenly changed because I used to send them money even before they ask. It's like every week one problem must happen to them that require money. They will just send account number and the deadline time. They keep coming, coming, coming back again after giving. I have paid hundreds of thousands of naira for visa processing for one of them maybe at least they will stop asking me for money and one will be able to help his brother, but the visa was unsuccessful.

Few days ago one of them ask me to give him my sister's number that he just want to greet her since it's been years he saw her last. Behold, the next day my sister called to ask when did I hear from my friend last and did he mention about financial problem to me, I told my sister that he called me two days ago and asked of her number which I gave him. My sister said he requested for money to support his house rent and she sent him some money. I was shocked. Can you imagine guys? My friend. I am not saying it's a crime for him to ask my sister money but why lie to me that you just want to greet her when you asked me for her number? Whereas I just sent him money too not even up to a week.

See another demand again, see my reply, see his reply.

I know one or the two of them will start gossiping me around that I am proud, but they won't tell them about the good I have done for them, I have been doing. They won't. Some friends are not worth it anymore. I am very upset now that it's affecting me mentally and with my wife. Even my children were asking me last night "dad are you alright, you're not happy".

You know what again, one of them sent messages to my wife asking for mobile phone. I saw it but my wife didn't know that I saw it not until I responded to him myself and told my wife to never bother. My wife later sent the phone to him. Since then he's been using that opportunity to demand from her. Though he eventually stopped it but continue asking me only.

I have sent so much money but they just never stop asking. And I am not the time that take pictures and flaunt them on social media. I live my life on low-key.

I need your honest opinion.

Insults are welcome I promise I won't react to any insult.

I wanted to block them on my social media especially on WhatsApp but I had a rethink so they won't feel like I am proud because I am in abroad.

cry
You be mugu
PoliticsRe: Ali Mohammed Magashi Is From Niger Republic & Not Jigawa by stonemind(f): 6:50pm On Jul 27, 2020
Reference:
Yet when Nigerian emigrants to nations abroad achieve great things in politics, goverment, the academia, the military and law enforcement, sports, the arts and entertainment under those alien flags we go haw, haw, haw before settling down in the mud bath of bigotry and ethnic supremacy.

If a Nigerian emigrated to the US in 1972 and is now an ambassador to Nigeria won't we be happily gyrating in the mire...

Nonsenaical reasoning. Sahara has lost its way in the desert on this one. Just give them a can of CoolAid.
As in I no just understand the level of their hypocrisy, I mean a person that has spent over 45 massive years in this country and a naturalised citizen isn't qualified for any government post?
PoliticsRe: Ali Mohammed Magashi Is From Niger Republic & Not Jigawa by stonemind(f): 6:45pm On Jul 27, 2020
DexterousOne:
If he was not officially naturalised before he took the govt post

That's just a travesty
Na una sabi
PoliticsRe: Ali Mohammed Magashi Is From Niger Republic & Not Jigawa by stonemind(f): 6:39pm On Jul 27, 2020
But he's been here for over 45 years, which already qualifies him as citizen, so what are you guys on about?
PhonesRe: My New Techno Camon 15 Showing Earpieces While There Is None by stonemind(f): 10:02am On Jul 25, 2020
odyx:
Hello NL and Engineers

Pls I just bought camon 15, is less than a week but the issue is that is showing earpieces while there is none, is not allowing the phone to ring out or make calls without putting on speaker , not even wireless Bluetooth. I took to carlcare the don't even know what to do after doing factory reset and wiping out my data's without informing me or back up.

Pls I need advice on what to do. Can't the techo company change it for me.

How we solve this.

Is this peculiar with new camon 15?
Coded Xiaomi marketer
TV/MoviesRe: Bbnaija: Meet Mrs Susan Waya, Kiddwaya's Mum (photos) by stonemind(f): 9:19am On Jul 25, 2020
I beg who go win premier league?
BusinessRe: Transcorp Hotels Executive Director Helen Iwuchukwu Resigns Amidst Revenue Drop by stonemind(f): 6:40pm On Jul 24, 2020
Good
PhonesRe: Night Curfew Street Capture With my Infinix Note 7 by stonemind(f): 1:13pm On Jul 22, 2020
Jeffy1206:
who is this one huh undecided
Your godfather
PhonesRe: Night Curfew Street Capture With my Infinix Note 7 by stonemind(f): 9:15am On Jul 22, 2020
Jeffy1206:
you like it?
You can't even answer simple question
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by stonemind(f): 9:32am On Jul 20, 2020
Sorcerer 4/10 this is another 'THE WITCHER' all over again, I'm disappointed in Netflix..
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by stonemind(f): 5:29pm On Jun 07, 2020
Vis a Vis
season 1 9/10. brilliant
season 2 7/10. good
season 3. 5/10. bad
season 4. 5.5/10. bad
TV/MoviesRe: The Best TV Series Right Now.... by stonemind(f): 10:06am On Jun 04, 2020
Joycekkh:
The handmaids tale Money heist The witcher Orange is the new black.
You have a good a taste..
TV/MoviesRe: The Best TV Series Right Now.... by stonemind(f): 10:06am On Jun 04, 2020
Joycekkh:
The handmaids tale Money heist The witcher Orange is the new black.
You have a good a taste..
TV/MoviesRe: Living In Bondage: Breaking Free Reviews And Ratings? by stonemind(f): 10:41am On May 27, 2020
King Of Boyz 6.5/10



Living in Bondage 8/10. the cinematography is just too wow for a nollywood movie
SportsRe: Marca Claims Messi Could Be Facing A Losing Battle Against Ronaldo by stonemind(f): 10:55am On May 26, 2020
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EducationRe: Please Help My English Is Very Bad by stonemind(f): 10:48am On May 26, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Ogun Extends Lockdown Untill May 31 by stonemind(f): 1:27pm On May 23, 2020
Hndrrxxx:
E pain am!!! your papa
Look I pity you.. You think say me n ur lazy father dey same level? I don't blame you at all I only blame ur hoe mother that stole someone's sp*rm and gave birth to a d!ck head you.. Thunder strike you dead...!diot
PoliticsRe: Ogun Extends Lockdown Untill May 31 by stonemind(f): 9:11am On May 23, 2020
Hndrrxxx:
You well sohuh huhwake up 4am for Sarri and na ftc Dy do you guy
Na your papa no well. Wetin concern u with my business?
PoliticsRe: Ogun Extends Lockdown Untill May 31 by stonemind(f): 4:17am On May 23, 2020
God will judge this man






Wait I'm actually 4th to comment Sha. Hehehe
CelebritiesRe: Governor Akeredolu Tells Teni "You Are Doing Well" by stonemind(f): 6:20pm On May 17, 2020
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CultureRe: Yusuf Bayero Is Dead! Emir Of Kano's Uncle Dies by stonemind(f): 6:03pm On May 10, 2020
chaiii sanusi free those people naa
HealthRe: FCT Discharges 7 Coronavirus Patients by stonemind(f): 5:50pm On May 10, 2020
Semperty:
Discharge is happening like quickfire... what should we expect by morning tomorrow huh
800 new cases will be confirmed.. no be naija we dey?
HealthRe: COVID-19: Ekiti Confirms 3 New Cases by stonemind(f): 5:48pm On May 10, 2020
what do you mean?
HealthRe: Kaduna Declares 2 Runaway COVID-19 Patients Wanted by stonemind(f): 5:43pm On May 10, 2020
airminem:
smiley
Smart phones are getting smarter as humans are getting dumber
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PoliticsRe: Governor Wike Constructs Iron To Block Boundary Between Rivers & Abia by stonemind(f): 2:04pm On May 10, 2020
yk2018:
Boundary between Rivers State and Abia State.
Gov.Wike is not joking, Governor Wike constructed iron between the two ends of the road to block vehicles ply the road.
lol this agbero governor own don too much abeg
HealthRe: Kaduna Declares 2 Runaway COVID-19 Patients Wanted by stonemind(f): 2:03pm On May 10, 2020
airminem:
grin
Sowwi
now you said sowwi instead of sorry? hmmm stop flirting with me joo
TravelRe: 160 Nigerians Evacuated From United States Arrive Abuja by stonemind(f): 2:01pm On May 10, 2020
waleadex:
I just hope it's not a case of 'from frypan to fire' for them though...
na bro it's more of a hellfire out there, I'm a living witness.. USA is a warzone
HealthRe: Kaduna Declares 2 Runaway COVID-19 Patients Wanted by stonemind(f): 1:57pm On May 10, 2020
airminem:
lipsrsealed

H for Hausa undecided
this girl pls stop stalking me naaw, I'll report you to my girlfriend now! huh
airminem:
lipsrsealed

H for Hausa undecided
this girl pls stop stalking me naaw, I'll report you to my girlfriend now!

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