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AngryMisogynist:
[b]Hello Romancelanders



I want to share this with you cause I think I have a psychological problem
Okay first of all I'm a graduate of Igbinedion University I graduated with a 2 1 degree in computer science.. I had a girlfriend during my fresher year at school but all of a sudden I started loosing interest in her cause of the way she makes demands from me but I didnt hesitate to lend her money and give her things she needed from me but she stabbed me at my back.. I ended the relationship.. I met another girl at first she was calm and quiet with me but ever since I took her to my house she started making a lot of demands from me when I got fed up I called it quit.. After having so many girlfriends and dumping them I got tired cause I felt that girls only date you for money even though they pretend to not like money at first.. I made up my mind to not keep girlfriends until I am ready for marriage the only benefit of a relationship to me was sex and I just got fed up
So I seeked another alternative whenever the urge comes I patronise runs girls.. Because all those type of girls are straight to the point no long talk.. I still got fed up.. Sex was now boring to me.. Okay I thought of masturbating but after two months I got tired of it.. It made me feel worthless and weak
Now the problem is I have reached the point where my Dick doesn't rise even at the sight of a naked girl.. It has embarrassed me so many times I don't even have feelings for any girl.. No konji.. I always feel depressed .. I have no urge to have sex with a girl and I don't see attractive thing in a girl unless I smoke weed... Arizona skunk or Indica weed to be precise.. If I don't smoke girls will look unattractive to me
Mind you I am not a homosexual
I need your advice cause I don't think I can get married like this[/b]

With time you will be fine just take a break from everything and relax,start enjoying healthy hobbies and hang around sensible friends. There are online therapists you can talk to they can help too. They help for a fee though. You will be fine with time.

Uglymind:
Na wa oo
This is serious
Guy end your life now and hopefully yo ur nextlife will be straight forward
That's my only advice to you

Why are you so mean? This is so uncalled for,someone is saying how depressed he is and you are this heartless. Its not nice.

Ofemmanu1:
You need to update it

Thanks alot,i have done it.

I cannot delete messages from my tecno spark 2 why? Even if i read them and delete them it still shows as if its unread,even after deleting i still see the messages please what is the way forward?

Messyodi:
I sent you a mail

I just replied your email.

starlite894:
Hello,
I need phone friends to chat with. I'm kind of dealing with loneliness. Preferably females, I'm a female.
You can PM me....

I just replied your email.

Messyodi:
Guys please stay off!!!

I just moved to Abuja and i will love to have some sweet ladies like me to gist and hang out with...

Just send me a PM.


***waiting***

Hi...i need female friends too. I am in Abuja.

starlite894:
Hello,
I need phone friends to chat with. I'm kind of dealing with loneliness. Preferably females, I'm a female.
You can PM me....

I am here,i need female friends too.

mapee22:
October 19

Same o

Wow wow wow......
I've seen various dates. I celebrate you all. But i've not seen anyone born on the same date with me..... I believe i'm too special.... Well i can't wait for October 19th. 65% loading....

Wow Wow...finally i have a birthday mate....Thank God o...I rep. October 19th.

lukotony:
people will be refreshing this page today to see who will post "I have received mail".

Yes ooo

My fiancee really needs a job in Abuja,he is very hardworking and passionate about anything he does,he studied Adult Education/ Economics and Statistics (B.sc. Ed.)Thanks so much guys as you help a sister who wants to support her financee.

Respect55:
I'm not a weakling. The follow day at around 2pm,she texted me because I stopped taking her calls after that night. She told me that she is giving me two more hours to accept her back or she would commit suicide because according to her, this world is no more meaningful to her. Den I replied her. I told her that she should go ahead and do whatever she wants to do but should be rest assured that no court of jurisdiction will convict me over her death. Den sense fell on her.

What if someone like her neighbour called you and told you she was dying and you met her almost totally lifeless like life leaving her body? You were the one who rushed her to the hospital and saw the drugs she used to commit suicide when you entered her house too,after she recovers will you take her back?

Respect55:
U can day that again. She is always going through my phone and that night, I decided to go through hers. I felt bad. She was like, 'I can explain', I told her off that there was no need for that. I den ended it by telling her that sin e she denied my existence, she doesn't exist where I am too. I didn't look back. I'm happy I did.

What if she tried to commit suicide and almost succeeded because you left her...infact you saw her at the point of death and rushed her to the hospital,will you take her back for that?

Hi fellow nairalanders.....help a sister help her fiancee,he is a graduate of Economics and Statistics (B.sc Ed.),he needs a teaching job in Abuja. He is really hardworking and very passionate about teaching. Thank you very much my people.

Its supposed to be section A and B....when trying to print out next time wait for it to load completely before printing or downloading on your phone.

HarunaWest:
civil defense, immigration and prisons are on same scale 127k.....stop saying what u dont know

Help me tell him o.

jaychubi:
U think it's civil defense, custom or police or navy or army lol it will be less than dt self

Smh....Let me not waste my time talking too much its obvious you do not know whats up. Fact is you don't know what you are saying, so enjoy your ignorance. Google would have helped you, but you are obviously beyond help.

All Paramilitary are on same salary scale, the only differences are in allowances and their salary structure is even higher than that of civil service. The least paid graduate on level 8, in the paramilitary structure is 127,000 naira, same for police. Army is about 168, 000 naira and Airforce and Navy earn higher.

I have taken time that I really don't have to school you, please stop showing your ignorance. Research and learn.

jaychubi:
How much is d salary of fresh graduate in Nigeria prison service to warrant this mere 60k

Stop saying things you are not sure of, who told you its 60k?? A graduate's position i.e A B.sc holder in Prison Service is ASP II, how can that cadre earn 60k? Na wa.... Nigerians.

Gbogbolet:
And you think that one is now, oga get selected first

Abi o help me tell him o...

deewhy13:
lol... not too fast, what of the 2 top dignitaries signature and dia passports. av u done dat?

That one is not now yet oooo....

Finally done and dusted....I have even printed sef,ready for the next stage,may God help us all reach the next stage here,Amen.

PweetyHitee:
The medical fitness certificate someone helped me with on this platform as General Hospital Elata Ibadan. But theres no Elata in Ibadan

Hmmm imagine? Are you really sure?