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This is the news report of the 2nd edition of the free Medical outreach i organise in my area, Ososami Ibadan southwest local government area of Ibadan, annually as reported on page 16 of the Nigeria Tribune newspaper of Monday 8th January 2016.

It was indeed a success story and I'm glad to have been a convener.

Here's the link: http://www.tribuneonlineng.com/group-organises-free-medical-service-ososami/


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*Sexual Psyche of Unmarried Ladies... A bystander report*

This is certainly not an attempt to give prize to the other side of the divide, but purely an intellectual unprejudiced attempt to look inward into the set of motive behind unmarried ladies sexual adventure. So many people have diverse opinion about the sexual psyche of unmarried ladies. Interestingly, all of them have their various psychological basis because it can be said that Sex is CONDITIONAL. There are psychological variables for unmarried women to have sex. This explains why some women find it easy to have sex with whoever they are dating or anyone else while some others find it hard to give in to sex before marriage or outside it. I have observed and reasoned the following psychological rationalisation for the different sexual characters of unmarried Ladies.

The need for acceptance

The need for provision

The need for fulfilment

The need to satisfy a craving

The need to fulfil a responsibility

The Matyr’s complex

The Lady whose need is to seek acceptance gives in to sex because having sex becomes the currency for her acceptance in d relationship. Hence it reassures her of being best before any other. This bae therefore gives more sex to sustain her place of importance in the man’s heart. However, she stands a risk of feeling guilt once her level of acceptance is threatened. This could lead to having multiple sexual partners in her life time.

The Female who sees sex as her only bargaining power or exchange for her partner to satisfy her material need is the Provision lady. To her, sex as a means to an end. Hence, she is at risk to have multiple sexual partners.

The woman with the need to satisfy a craving will nevertheless have multiple partners. This is because biologically and psychologically she has been compromised. To her Sex is an addiction and a crave that must be satisfied as the need arises. Hence, she goes down with any available sex mate. She doesn’t need money or love however; she might feel guilty after her craving has been met.

The female with a Matyr’s complex may not love or trust her sexual partner. However, she gives into sex because she feels bad about saying no to her guy's request. She then tries to look caring, good, and in the long run gets manipulated by any guy who has observed her well and is ready to latch on to the opportunity her nature provides. This lady also has a risk of having multiple partners and feeling guilt after the sexual act.

The Responsibility driven lady nurtures her relationship as if it were marriage already. Then she’ll have sex like a married woman. This female gains optimum satisfaction as long as the relationship goes fine, therefore sticks with a single partner.

The fulfilment Lady sees having sex as a means of conquering her foes and harnessing her influence base. To her, sex is a means of bridging the status gap between herself and her partner. Sex is her tool of power and it is a game. Hence, she feels no guilt having multiple sexual partners. More often than not, she gets satisfied after the sexual acts.

©Observation by Adelaja M. Olasubomi

#Credit for discussion and compilation: Akinola E. Ifeoluwa

To my reader, Aw well do u agree with this? Feel free to criticize....

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nonjebose:
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bluepanther:
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Saimeritus:
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akolat:
I was @ the Ibadan SW L.G (INEC OFFICE) at past noon. The list pasted for the collection of training allowance contains 864 names in all...my name was erroneously omitted. I eaves dropped on a conversation among some whose names were included,some of which weren't available during the training. Its messy... Corrupt officials

Erroneously? U mean u later saw ur name somewhere or wot? Cos I cudnt find my name too on d list, yet, I was present for d training! Pls reply so dat I can knw wot step to tk next!

I hed INEC IBADAN SW LG has released d list of those that they needed for the election proper today!! Nairalanders, take note!

Pls, any info frm Ibadan SW LG?

Pls, any1 with concrete info abt payment of allowance to APOs trainees in IBADAN SOUTH WEST LG? Pls reply asap!

A friend of mine received sms to come collect his training allowance at Irewole LG in ikire, osun state yestade. He went today and was given #4500 cash! So, d info is true.

Pls guys, has any1 got information abt training date, venue and time in IBADAN SOUTH WEST LG? Pls reply swiftly cos am far frm home

akolat:
You are to report for screening at INEC IB S/WEST OFFICE, OLUYOLE EXT, Ibadan 4rm Monday 26/01/15 by 10 am. Ignore if you have been screened...the message was received minutes ago

I received d msg too! But, have u gone for d screening b4 on fri or sat? If yes, did u submit any document? If yes? Wot document did u submit? Cos, I did d screening on fri and was not asked to submit Admission letter or I'd card as pple av been doing in other LGs, so am abit concerned! Pls reply

Nairalanders, pls has any1 received the invitation SMS from inec in IBADAN SW LG or knws of pple who av? Either as corper, post NYSC or student? Pls I need to knw!

KHAYGOLD:
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Don't u trust your friend? If u can't trust your friend, you can't trust anyone

Hey, don't b too swift to judge like dat!! I only needed to confirm wot was on ground from as much source as I can get! Anyway, I can see ur reply to other pple on d trend so I knw d kinda person u cud be!! Fenks anyway, for d 'wise' comment!

For those dat did their screening at IBADAN SW LG yestade, I submitted my slip there(APO) buh am in jos right now and can't mk d screening! A friend of mine who did d screening there yestade said all was required of them was to just chk there names on d list and go inside to write their names and phone numbers on a form ( WITHOUT SUBMITTING ANY DOCUMENT)!! I want to knw if this is true o!! Pls reply asap!