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Pastor Funmi Akingbade is a popular sx therapist, she says the average Nigerian man is usually in a rush when it has to do with issues with their women on the bed. In a chat with City People, she says to have a bliss marital life, great sx must be incorporated and made to be fun. Read what she said:



How would you describe the Nigerian man when it comes to sx?
The Nigerian man is always in a rush when it comes to sex. They rush into it and quickly rush out once they “come”. Every driver that wants an accident-free trip must drive safely, know his road signs, have good driving skills and be a good observer. This is also true with sx because marital sx is a journey and not to be done in a rush. Those who want to succeed in marriage give their sx life a lot of attention and sx is what makes it different and wonderful. So, for no reason must a spouse “beg” or “plead” for sx from her partner. Rather, good s*x should be given mutually at all times.

Why then do you think that the Nigerian man rush into and out of sx?
Even though a pe-nis is controlled by the nervous system, it still has a mind of its own. Every woman loves pre-intimacy but the African man has not much time for those sweet touching of a woman’s body or genital before sx, they see it as a waste of time…

If men tend to rush through pre-intimacy, if at all they want to do it, they do it mildly and hurriedly. This is because they are ever ready the moment they have an erection. Delaying inter-course when they have an ere-ction and a willing woman nearby? That sounds idiotic to them because they see it as a waste of their precious time. A true Nigerian woman is not frigid. It is the way and manner a Nigerian man, lets say a black man, gives s*x to her that makes a black woman frigid.

A Nigerian man goes out from his own point of need and not from the woman’s point of need. They rush into the woman’s private part and rush out. They see the woman as an object to release into. They don’t care whether she has an org-asm. All they are after is about themselves. They fail to realize that she has her sxual Lib-ido which should be touched or aroused before dipping their man-hood into her. But we let them know that they should never rush the woman. A man should ask a woman to give him different styles and positions during sx. She should be free to ask for s*x whenever she feels the urge.

Our men should allow the women to have sx the way they enjoy doing it too. It shouldn’t be just the Adam and Eve style where the man commands her to open and raise her legs and all of a sudden he rushes inside immediately. This means she has just been legally rped. Ask a woman what she wants in bed or during s*x, she will tell you she wants to be romanced, touched, kissed, she wants to be friendly. She wants to be bounced with her partner first and this will really make her come easily and sweetly.

She will never be frigid if the man presses the right buttons in her because sx to a woman is emotion and she can trade sx for affections because he wants s*x. The moment she gets affection from her man, she will be able to open up well for her man to come inside her. So a woman you can easily go into her heart is a woman you can easily get into her legs.

Before s*x, a woman will want the man to start with talk even if the talk is not relevant but she just needs your attention. She will want to be touched all over but not immediately at the main point of her body so that it does not appear like you are only interested in getting in-between her legs. Give her the attention, get bonded, get connected first because she wants to feel you.

So sx to a man is a show of love he derives during sx or after the sx while that of a woman is a show of emotion she gets before sx. So if you don’t understand what a woman really needs in s*x, she will tighten her legs and lie down like a log or dead body lying in state because she is not feeling the man emotionally.”

Now You Know (NYK)

These are some amazing pictures of Lagos captured by Photographer, Olusanya Olamide .These are some of his shots from around Lagos city which he titled “Around Lagos”. As you can see he captured some landmark locations in the 4th most populous city in the world. Both the good and the abstract.

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep asking you even when all has been spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex.

12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.

14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.

19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.

21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday

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