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Homguy:
very likely its another mans child, a month into the relationship? She probably agreed to date you just to find someone to pin that pregnancy on.

Please post the date you first had sex with her, and approx, date she told you she was pregnant and date of Her last period if possible. Lemme calculate, Hoes ain't loyal.

I met her a month ago. Had sex with her a week later. She said is two weeks old which I think she is right if actually that's what the test says.
I have asked her to bring the test to me, she came to my house without it..
Bottom line is she has agreed to terminate it. I don't want to be harsh on her so as not to blow things out of proportion.

lilspiceyy:
I still think aborting the baby isn't the best option. Dis is lesson bro. I knw u had sex with without protection because u trust she doesn't have STD. But, u shldnt try dat anymore no matter how intense the urge to have sex is and there is no protection at that moment cos with dis u are protecting yourself, her, preventing unwanted pregnancy and killing of the innocent (baby).

Thank.
I asked her if she was free she said yes. It was after I have done it that she said she didn't understand what I was saying.
Gosh, felt like strangling her.
Okay I told her to take something and she said she will that I shouldn't worry. Just surprise she didn't take anything that day.

lilspiceyy:
I still think aborting the baby isn't the best option. Dis is lesson bro. I knw u had sex with without protection because u trust she doesn't have STD. But, u shldnt try dat anymore no matter how intense the urge to have sex is and there is no protection at that moment cos with dis u are protecting yourself, her, preventing unwanted pregnancy and killing of the innocent (baby).

Thank.
I asked her if she was free she said yes. It was after I have done it that she said she didn't understand what I was saying.
Gosh, feel like strangling her

lilspiceyy:
Having sex without protection is really risky. Have u checked yurself for STD first? One month is too short for her to get pregnant although, it isn't impossible but u have to be responsible for yur actions. Pls don't advice her to go for an abortion cos you will be puting her life at risk and u never can tell what will happen when she does the procedure. Wait till the baby is born and go for a paternity test but, let her know your intentions. Gd luck

One month is too short?.
Well, my mind tells me babe is thinking of selling the child.
Well, she just agreed to abort it. Is just 2wks old. Sure, there won't be any complication at this stage

Naija, n'a wah for some people ohh. No joy at all. Naija philosophy. Anyone who made a mistake should be killed

MARQUIZ:
Pregnance is a Blessing.
But, sometimes when some Blessings comes earlier than they shd... It come alongside with shame.
You gat to decide yourself... This is future!! PlanIt and work toward it.

Never read this.
Thanks. I must persuade her to take it away. Shey nah woman She be, I will talk her into it

MARQUIZ:
Pregnance is a Blessing.
But, sometimes when some Blessings comes earlier than they shd... It come alongside with shame.
You gat to decide yourself... This is future!! PlanIt and work toward it.

Never read this.
Thanks. I must persuade her to take it away. Shey nah woman She be, I will talk her into it

[quote author=Cutehector post=39229414]as in eh, people just keep makin same mistakes everyday.. They will not just learn... The phrase "use a condom" is being echoed loud in d streets and in television, but some people will not just hear... I like people who are responsible for thr actions, If a guy gets a girl pregnant then he should own up to it.

He ddint even seek advice befor the tin was sweeting him, nw its wen d tin is chokin him he hav d effontery to come in here and say "I am still in school and I dnt hav a job yet" e jus be like say make I slap d hell out of am.. [/quote

Bros easy nah. You taking this stuff personal. Nah your type dey fall for this kind stuff.
Well, I have a job. I can take care of her and the baby. But, am not ready for it.
1. It will affect my job
2. My school
3. Parents
4.

Well, I have asked her to bring the test result to me to confirm how old the pregnancy is. She came home yesterday without it.
I spoke with her on phone just now, and she has promised to drained it.
She said is 2 weeks old.

Decker:
Quick question, how serious are both of you in this relationship? Do you see yourselves getting married or have you decided to get married?

I am asking because it seems the girl wants to use the child as an insurance in case you decide not to marry her in the near future or as a means to persuade you to marry her faster.

Well since she wants to keep the child, there isn't much you can do about it. I don't mean to sound rude but you brought this upon yourself and you have to bear the full consequence.

Since you objected to her keeping the child and she went against your objection, she shouldn't force all the burden of providing for the child's upkeep on you.

Marriage is not my option now. I still have lots of things to do.
I wouldnt want to have a baby that will come and suffer. A baby that I won't be there for.
Moreover, my parents won't like it. Having that child will affect my job and school.
I have never thought of marrying her. Just surprise ñd whats making her to keep that baby.
Best if my knowledge, she us not skillful, she is in her final year.
Babe just want to unsettled me

Cutehector:
So u ddnt knw dat u need to finish ur studies and get a job first before skin diving into ur babe abi? And u come here to seek advice...

As if you have never skinned dived your bae before?

Am not new here, I created this separate account for the purpose of this.
Met my babe last month. A final year student in on of the uni in phc.
Well, we had sex and now she said she is pregnant.
Am working and also in school.
Am not ready to keep a baby now. I need to finish up my studies and get a better work. I won't want to have a kid that will end up with either my or her parents. I have let her know all these.
Surprisingly, babe said she is going to keep the pregnancy. She said she don't mind going to a neighbouring country to have the baby..
Am confused. What could be her motivation to have a baby at 25 and in her final year. Don't know what to do. Your advise pls