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Lmao @ dudu, I'm good, It is what it is, and it's OVER, so thanks anyway.

Sisi,

Thanks for your input. I'm going to let it go, and leave it in the past.

Stephen,

Thanks. You're probably right about chain emails. Life goes on.

Benez6,

Please take your negativity to the nearest exit. Thx.

H2

It bothers me because he practically begged for my friendship, but now he can't even say goodbye? I don't want to bombard him. I'm in the process of moving on, but I keep wondering why he wouldn't respond. I have no intentions of contacting him, but I just wanted some male perspective on my pondering.

I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email?

My ex and I were together for 1year. He didn't treat me right in the beginning, but after I called him out on it he began to make amends. Nevertheless, the damage was done and I resented him for his prior mistreatment towards me. In time he started to fall for me, but I couldn't get over his earlier treatment, so I began treating him badly as well. Eventually, he got tired of me not prioritizing him and he left. I was heartbroken, and went through the usual 'don't realize what you have until it's gone' phase. So I tried to win him back, but to no avail. He wanted to be friends, so I agreed. The friendship wasn't working, because you can't just switch from a relationship to a friendship immediately. Anyway, the breakup slowly started to take a toll on me, I couldn't eat, sleep, or function effectively. I realized that the only way I could get over him is if we went our separate ways. So I sent him a goodbye email. It was very sweet, wishing him luck in life and all the good things I'll miss about him, but he did not respond. Fellaz, I need you on this, why would you not respond to a goodbye email? Why not even acknowledge the fact that you received it, and respond with a farewell as well? Please inform. Thanks.