You guys who have sex in places with poor privacy... osuba re re o

Everything & Anything done EXTREMELY will result in unexpected consequences.

Masturbation in and of itself is not bad or detrimental.

Moderation is key.

WatchYourSix:


Brace yourself, they are coming for you...

I'm not a redpiller bro. I believe 100% in CHIVALRY.

I simply forgot to add that is message goes for both men and women.

I may answer the first few questions, so ask away...

You need to take note of the progress or retrogress of things and situations in your life when you become sexually involved with a lady. If you don’t, whether as a result of her action or inaction, whether knowingly or unknowingly, she will drag you to be bottom of the ocean and drown you there.

Kiss greatness bye!


And finally…


5. The Sieve – I have reserved this one for last because it is to me, the most dangerous of ladies to get sexually entangled with.

I am not even going to spend much time here.

I have spent the most part of my life in the midst of Wealth and I can AUTHORITATIVELY tell you this – “THERE ARE TWO FRAMES OF MIND IN THIS WORLD. THE GATHER MENTALITY AND THE SCATTER MENTALITY. EVERY DAMM WEALTHY PERSON YOU HAVE EVER SEEN IN YOUR LIFE OPERATES UNDER THE FORMER. EVERY POOR PERSON YOU HAVE EVER ENCOUNTERED OPERATES UNDER THE LATTER”.

Wealthy people hustle 98% of their waking hours. Every other thing falls in the 2%. They want to gather and amass as much wealth as they possibly can and cannot. You would be shocked by their work ethic when you come into their circle and you know what’s most important?

They know and internalize this fact that the average poor Joe on the street does not know – KEEPING money is HARDER than MAKING it.

If you did not know this, KNOW IT ONE Great Man!

It is harder to keep N1million than to make it and I myself are testament to this FACT of LIFE!

The money you make does not make you wealthy. It is the money you KEEP so if you are sexually entangled with a girl whose dream is to BUY, BUY, BUY, SEND, SEND, SEND, TRANSFER, TRANSFER, TRANSFER, GO OUT, GO OUT, GO OUT, my brother, carry your great future and sell!

You will NEVER get there!

Now, you may love this girl so much that you are currently thinking, I will make more… let me burst your bubble… SHE WILL SPEND MORE!!!

You can never satisfy a SPENDER because there are always better and newer things to spend on!

Your girlfriend continues to inundate you with request for new hair, new phone, new watch, new bag, but she has never once sent you even a LINK to a money making opportunity, Great Man, you are dating a SIEVE and you will never be great!

She will sieve you money, your time and finally your destiny. Just like the pump station manager at the beginning of this story, she will lead you into a path riddled with lack, shame and death.

Wake up Great Man! Until you get to the point where the shenanigans of another person cannot affect the legacy you have built, KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN for all the signs.

May the force be with you!

First off, she started acting strangely, murmuring to herself and pulling the sheets of the bed. Cab was on his way so I started to dress up and call another girl, giving her directions to my hotel. I guess this was the final straw. Babe got up, pulled her bra and panties and was now naked. Next she went to the TV and pulled it off the wall. With super human strength, this girl raised the TV, almost 10ft in the air and smashed it on the ground!

WTF?!

Next she went to the bathroom, used her hand to smash the luxury stainless tap from its hook. Water started flooding the bathroom then entered the room. I quickly opened the door and called the attendants. Great Man, it took 4 orderlies to hold this girl down!

When they asked her why she did everything she did, she said I did not pay her. When I showed them the alert, she said her money is 100k. I showed them our WhatsApp chat indicating where we agreed 20k for just Friday. She replied that her money is 100k! “How ma?” No answer! Okay let’s go down to settle this… no! Wear your clothes… never! The hotel eventually got the police to remove her, but guess who paid the damage?

Irony is, earlier when the going was good, she made a call and from what I could deduce, she was in a serious relationship with whoever was on the other side. Although I never saw a ring, I think they were engaged.

Many girls walking the street have deeply rooted psychological issues stemming from a plethora of life experiences. If you’re blindsided by sex and miss the opportunity to ascertain the mental health of your girl, you may be in for a lot of trouble down the line.


3. The Vixen – this one is one of the worst kind of people to fall for. To me, Vixen is the direct opposite of HOMEMAKER. Many girls today grew up without adequate maternal care. For reasons too many to mention, a lot of girls, especially these days cannot MAKE A HOME. Trust me Great Man, when you’re out in the battlefield of life, fighting for your destiny and greatness, you need someone at home, holding down the fort.

Do you know why a lot of rich kids grow up as narcissists? The answer is simple – Parental Upbringing. Many women do not know how to raise children. They either give little to no love, reminiscent of their own loveless upbringing or give too much love, over compensating still for their loveless upbringing.

A Vixen will not cook for you. She will have you hire chefs and maids who will not only cook for you but also charge your house and raise your kids. Great Man, don’t marry a vixen so that maids will not raise your children.

I was at a PEP’s (Politically Exposed Person) house late last year. I followed my Boss to get a brief from the PEP. We were kept in the waiting room for what could easily be the entire day. From that room, we heard the entire imbroglio unfolding in this notable man’s house. One of the drivers, a pretty young guy had impregnated his last born. She was 16. Turns out, the stay at home Mum, did everything but raise her kids. Actually she seldom saw them on any given day. Maids did the cooking, Drivers did the picking, lesson teachers did the teaching…. It goes on and on like that.

Many people in the Lagos political circle know this story and the person, but for my own safety, I would give no further details.

Great Man, this man married the vixen when he had won the war for his destiny. If you don’t even know when and where your own fight will begin, but you allow a Vixen trap you with sex, kiss greatness good bye!


4. The Nymph – no great man! Not a nymphomaniac. I mean an actual nymph – the female divinity in Greek mythology who dragged pirates and sea farers to the bottom of the ocean and killed them there. Baron Rothschild once said – “Never have anything to do with an unlucky man or place”.

I don’t care what your beliefs are, but I believe strongly in the existence of an unseen world. Whether it operates the way the Bible and other pieces of literature have dictated is up for debate, but I know that in this world, there exists more than meets the eye.

Great Man, there are certain ladies you come in contact with that can undo ten years of hard work. Perhaps by no doing of theirs, but sheer happenstance, everything they touch turns to ash. A friend of mine operated a blooming real estate practice in Abuja until early 2018. Before that fateful year, he sold and bought property for almost every big wig in Abuja. We served together in the North and he chose to stay back afterwards. It was from here his real estate practice started.

Penultimate 2017, he met a girl at Jabi area of town. He proposed a relationship and she agreed. The day she agreed, he took her out on a date to ‘cement their new relationship status’. That same day, he was involved in a ghastly accident that wrote-off his car. Next day, the two workers he had at his practice stopped work. When he called, the one who picked sighted the most stupid excuse ever. Following week, he lost his biggest client and by lost, I mean, the client who had sent him $1.6m to get a house at Gwarimpa suddenly requested her money back. He pleaded and even offered to forego his commission. The woman out rightly refused.

While narrating this incidence, he told us that the first time he had sex with the girl, “something enter me” (sic).

He lost everything he built in Abuja and came back to Lagos. His Dad took him to a spiritualist who told him the girl he was dating put a blanket over him. Till today, neither we nor he understand what that meant, but he has been struggling to rebuild himself since that time.

If you get sexually entangled with a Nymph, you may be unable to tell when the losses begin, especially if they are marginally small losses with inconsequential value, but be rest assured you can never attain greatness with an unlucky woman riding your cock.

I indulge you not to judge me from my first Nairaland post. It does not in any way portray the totality of what my life is. To give you a snippet, if I decide today to pay my girlfriend a million naira monthly, it will take her 1.6 years to spend what is currently in my card account. Go figure!

Now that’s out of the way, Great Man, I want to give you the top five reasons you must not engage in pre-marital sex until you find THE ONE.

A few FACTS –

1. The person you CHOOSE to marry will determine your final destination in life. I don’t give two bleeps if you believe this or not. I have seen the both ends of the spectrum play out in the lives of those around me – my housemate in school got married to a former President’s niece. They both stay in Ikoyi, all the way from Iyana-Ipaja where we grew up.

A childhood friend recently shot himself in the US of A. Why? He got divorced and court gave his wife two of their three buildings. He was to pay child support till their baby is 18 and continue to pay mortgage on the two houses. Why did she divorce him? Her mother’s prophet saw a vision that he killed her. Next day, they had a domestic row and she called the cops. He was given a restraining order from his kids and his heart could not take all the trouble. He used a Glock.

2. Sex is Opiate…. i.e. it is able to dull your sense of reasoning and logic. This is because, when you cum, the lateral orbitofrontal cortex of your brain shuts down temporally. This is the part of the brain responsible for decision making as well as reasoning. Over years of evolution, women have gotten used to this fact and this is why they request favours while they’re twirling their tongue around your shaft. You cannot say no… actually… you don’t have the sense at that time to say no.

3. Great Man, I am sure by now, you are fully aware that you can actually get ADDICTED to sex. The reason is simple, (when you orgasm, which apparently is not a problem for men), you release a certain hormone called dopamine. You know that feeling you get at the top of your head when you draw a blunt for the first time? That is dopamine. You know the high you get when you’re about to nut in her Eden? That is dopamine. Scientists used to call it a pleasure hormone, but they’re now realizing that dopamine as matter of fact is a LEARNING hormone. It has helped man over the centuries to identify were stimulating rewards such as food and sex are located and how to get them.


In summary Great Man, pre-marital sex will mitigate your ability to discern if a woman is right for your FUTURE or not. Because of its opiate nature, you will not deduce quickly and clearly whether she possesses the physical, spiritual and mental acuity to partner with you in building the future of your dreams.
Instead of rightly discerning where she fits in the annals of your life story, you will be inundated with thoughts of her warm, juicy pussy riding your hard cock and because it is addictive, you will never stop wanting more until one day you wake up and discover the person you married has contributed NOTHING to your life, ten years down the line.

I have highlighted five types of women who without cause or force will truncate your drive and terminate your journey to greatness. These five types of women are everywhere and if you lack the cognitive acumen to quickly dissociate yourself from her endearing grasp, kiss greatness bye!

Without further ado, here are the five types of women who truncate destiny. They are also the five reasons you should abstain from pre-marital sex –

1. Sapphira’s Daughter (the liar) – this type of girl will distort the truth every second, every day, twice on Monday. Very simple questions elicit a barrage of lies that you sometimes begin to doubt your own sanity. From my personal experience, girls who lie so blatantly and so rampantly have a past that is so wild, that can initiate a heart attack in a full blown adult man.

Some girls have had a very turbulent past, especially sexually. Some got exposed to the game before their teens so overtime, they have weaponized lies to cover their sordid past. Usually, the lies spill into other aspects of her life and soon she cannot tell you where she is when you ask.

Remember Sapphira in the Bible? The woman who lied about her family’s wealth even when it was uncalled for? This girl in question is her direct descendant. She will lie about anything, everything and everyone. That guy you saw in her room is her coursemate. She can’t come see you this evening because she’s at church.

Great Man, if you get entangled with a daughter of Sapphira, especially through sex, kiss greatness bye!


2. The Psycho – Great Man, due to societal indoctrination, many of you and your cohorts do not see girls as people. You see them as objects for companionship and sexual gratification, but I hate to break this to you – girls are people and just like every other person (man) out there, they also have their individual challenges.

I once got this lovely bird. She was a junior colleague at my former place of work, but I never made any move on her till I resigned. She was a very humble, respectful, diligent girl and these qualities endeared me and every penis person in the office to her. One time I invited her to chill with me at the weekend at a hotel in Agungi. She came on Friday, we bleeped, ate and drank to our fill. The agreement was for her to chill with me just that Friday but when I tasted her juices, I wanted her for the weekend. I told her the new arrangement and she requested for more than quadruple of our initially agreed fee e.g. we agreed 20k for Friday. When I told her to chill with me till Sunday, she charged me 100k!

Shouldn’t it be 20k x 3days? 60k? No! She wanted an extra 40k. Well I didn’t want to oblige this as I saw it as some kind of extortion so I ordered a ride to take her back home and paid only that day.

Great Man, the unfolding drama that ensued stupefied everyone who witnessed it beyond belief. That day, I understood why the English say a knot is loosened in a person’s head when they act a certain way.

First of all, introduction…

I am SugarPapi and everything I’ll be sharing with you today stems from my personal experience and experiences of those in my circle. I am spiritual with slightly agnostic inclinations (this is important. You will find out why soon).

I detest organized religion, especially those practiced and promoted within the African context. This hatred stems not from any external sentimental motivations, but from the effect organized religion had on my life before I came to the light.

Religion in Africa is repressive as it is delusive. You have ‘men of God’ who interpret doctrine in opportunistic and egotistic mannerisms that prospers them and impoverishes the masses. No to segue into another topic, I want you to ask yourself this question – “WHO WOULD I BE WITHOUT MY RELIGIOUS BELIEFS?”

If you answer honestly, you may shock yourself… That is story for another day but for now, back to topic –

I was inspired to pen this piece based off of a recent experience a friend had. A mentee of his was arrested for diverting company funds kept with him over the weekend. It was a cash only business and when they closed that Friday, he took home the funds as he had always done… for SEVEN GOOD YEARS! This weekend however, he blew the entire money and performed a David Copperfield on Monday.

He was nowhere to be found. His guarantor (my friend) was traced and almost arrested. ALMOST. He made some calls and the perp was found. They brought him in cuffs from Ijebu-Ode and questioning begun. To cut a long story short, this dude, a station manager, hijacked over seven hundred thousand of his employer’s money.

Okay bro… where’s the dough?

I mean you took the money on Friday? Today is Monday… there should still be some left right?

Nope!

He had blown the entire sum, clean through. My ears fell down when I heard this. My friend said he could not believe the amount the employer was stating until the man brought the report from their pumps.

Bro where is over seven hundred thousand?!

DEATHLY SILENCE.

You will be imprisoned, jailed, incarcerated, put behind bars… all those words were thrown at what looked like a brick wall. This guy did not bulge until my friend called Ijebu command to bring the guy’s parents to Lagos.

That’s when the bomb dropped –

Lover boy had used the entire sum to get his girlfriend… you guessed it… an iPhone!!!

According to my friend, when the boy confessed, the Police station went silent as a grave… LOL! I wish I was there!

The part that caught my attention was when my friend said the owner of the pump station almost burst into tears. Not because of the stolen money but because this guy in question had been with him for very long and was his most trusted staff. The disappointment cut deep.

When they went to pick his girlfriend up… her main guy assaulted a member of the Police team! honestly, not even Hollywood can come up with a story as distinctive as this.

The store where they bought the phone refused to collect it as brand new. After much begging, they deducted almost 40% from the retail price and refunded the rest to the owner. Phone collected, they all headed back to the station and my friend had to balance the rest.

When he drove his mentee home, he asked him the reason for the sudden stupidity.

The guy replied that she had been pressuring him. She always saw the thousands of naira he came home with and finally manipulated him into destroying a seven-year legacy.

This is why I am writing this today.


Caveat

This piece is NOT for everyone. If you have vision of a prosperous, powerful, wealthy, influential and impactful future… and you are still reading, this piece is for you. If you ever want to build your life and desire to reach the upper echelons of existentialism, this piece is for you. The rest have either already quit reading, or are waiting for to summarize

Dear reader, if you have an innate desire… an inner voice always telling you ‘there is more out there’ and ‘you are made for greatness’, this piece is for you.

Never doubt that voice!

Going forward, I will henceforth address you as – ‘Great Man’ on the strength of my own personal conviction that you will achieve greatness. This is not a prophecy, it is a statement of truth.

If you know where I came from, you will believe this truth. I had exemplary guidance on my way up and although I am yet to achieve the fullness of my purpose, I can confidently tell you, I am on the way there… due to excellent counsel. Counsel I will now relate to you, Great man.

Halopy:
You are just one of those kids who gets completely offended over someone else's post here on Nairaland, you people just take things completely out of context, Excessively public scolding someone you don't know and shaming him over his decision to live separately from his family. Wetin concern you? Is it your money?

Lol... can't blame him bro. People are going through a lot right now. Those with low EQs take out their frustration out on any and everyone around.

I'll write something to them when I've got time.

Blissbath:
Tell her that you are married

She knows

ajailer:


The jazz works in a very simple way, once you sleep with them with the waist bead on them, u will just forget ur family and your whole life will now start revolving around here. Meanwhile, your name would have been invoked on the bead. You go drop your last raba to please her and woe betides you that day she decides she has milked you enough and wants to leave you and d jazz never clear for your eyes, you go turn baby for her just to get her attention, in fact the man’s life will never be the same again until he goes for deliverance. Now everyone has hit their own spirit and our spirits strong pass themselves depending on how strong you are spiritually.

So like I said said earlier, there is a 80% chance that the bead is not an ordinary one. The times we are in now are seriously dangerous times bro. If I tell you the kind waka woman don take me waka, ppl here won’t believe my story but am talking from experience. For the bf you said whose video she showed you, I want to believe the guy is not in her past. Take it from me. The guy na her fall back plan when she don hammer from you.

These girls are dangerous, they will NEVER come clean to you no matter how much you love them.

Bro, just look for a way for your family to be around you always. Your situation in life has made you a prime target for ladies like that. Think about the extent our yahoo boys go to make money then you will know our ladies are capable of it too and even much more.

If you want to sleep with her hence forth cos I know you won’t be able to cut off from her for now, never sleep with her wearing any kind of bead.

Hmmm... bro this is a tough sell.

yomi007k:


So are you saying if she chooses to stay with you, you don't mind letting your wife go?

You don't need to answer this in public.

She can't replace my wife. Also, I cant leave her.

etel124:
Well for me..I know exactly how it feels nd what you re passing through rite nw...First you hav to take it one step @ a time...if really you want to cut her off...Its going to be gradual..But first things must come first...You guys must stop seeing each other...You can still keep the chat going..And then gradually withdraw every word that reflect commitment...then gradually limit ur communication with her....I guess with time when the relationship is starved with what nourishes it...It will definitely die a natural death...Mind you its nt going to be instantaneous...Give it time...my little advice though...

Hmmm... this sounds reasonable. I'll definitely consider and apply. Is this how you solved your own dilemma?

ajailer:
I hope she ain’t one of those ladies that use waist bead cos if she is then you are most likely been jazzed by her.

Lots of ladies out there looking for loaded guys whose wives n kids are abroad, they know these guys are lonely as they are missing the woman touch in their lives. I am talking from experience here o.

If you truly don’t want to mess up your life n your family’s be very careful with these lady. She is on the long game with you n she knows you will eventually fall for her charms. Osifo Ataga comes to mind here. This girl has nothing good for you but to mess you up and run away with the loot.

Make your wife come back is the only solution here or you relocate to meet her. Even if threat of separation will be involved. It’s not good for a man and his wife to live away from each other, you guys have just opened the door for the devil to come in.

I dont believe in jazz but yes she does wear waist beads.

Out of curiosity, how does the jazz work? When did it start working? When she liked my picture? First time I set eyes on her?

Explains things to me. I'm pretty open minded about life.

As for getting my wife to come back, that's not happening soon. Due to how the country is going and some personal experiences she has stated that she will not be back soon. Actually after I flew her and the children there, she flew her mother in, some months later. I travel bi-annually to see them.

yomi007k:


You know what I like about you bro, you still have a conscience.

You know you are wrong, but this wrong feels so good that you can't let go.

Lol...you know you have to let go or else you will sacrifice the unity of your family for it.
The choice is simple A(family) or B ( New p***y).

Shalom!

Bro, I know. I honestly want to let her go, but at this point, I know I've fallen for her. She ticks everything I want in a woman. It's serious self restraint and the thoughts of my family that have kept me from committing beyond what I've already done.

HitSong:

It's your misery, frustration and cross to carry.
If you're not lonely and miserable, you won't fall easily in the hands of young whorès and slùts that has nothing to offer but the holes between their legs, while they collect your money and also give you all kinds of STDs...
You fell even as a married man and believe, no sane married man will allow his family live abroad while he stays somewhere else lonely and miserable all because his wife his frustrated with their home country... Are you a man at all?
Again, no sane woman will live her young husband here to live alone and fend for himself... expect if you had "OTHER" plans.
There no other joy like family living and growing together.
You certainly still belong to the low class of the society and you also have poor mindset...
Why are your family members abroad? Better life abroad? Better schools?
The minister of Labour, Speaker of the house of rep and many other elites in Nigeria have their children in Unilag and other schools in Nigeria so what are you feeling like?

YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LOSER HERE.

cheers bro

etel124:
..Simple and easy you said...But not as easy as you make it sound...The OP said he has never had sex like this ever in his life..

GOD BLESS YOU SIR! Honestly you get what I'm going through right now. This girl has a grip on me I cannot explain and so far no one has offered solid advice on how I can separate from her.

zed7:
Fake story. People in a fix do not write for entertainment.
This is a figment of your imagination like ninety percent of stories here.

Irony is, this is a real story, my story and my current predicament. I could not help describe in detail the origin of the conundrum because that's what I do for a living. I write.

If you're circumspect enough and we relate well here, I may invite you over one weekend and you will see things yourself.

HitSong:
Fiction... But let's assume this is true...

Some of you are just plainly stupid... It's like the more money you make, the more stupid and the more you make life difficult for yourself...

HOW CAN I HAVE MONEY AND FAMILY AND I'LL SEND MY FAMILY AWAY TO ABROAD WHILE I LIVE HERE LONELY AND MISERABLE?

WHAT'S THE JOIN IN HAVING A FAMILY YOU CAN'T EVEN SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH?
All in the name of you want them to fit in high standard of the society and nonsense...
I'm 100% sure that your wife is also CHEATING on you.

Do you know that insulting people unknown to you is one of the most obvious symptoms of LSE?

When you're okay in your skin, you have no reason to throw tantrums, aggrieved or not.

To your points;

1. I am not stupid. Me along with hundreds of Nigerians who are in LD marriages.

2. I may be lonely, but I'm definitely not miserable.

Lastly, I am not trying to 'fit' were I already belong. There's little to nothing you can do when your wife says she's had it with the country and wants out.

Hope you're appeased?

Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe

Sorry bro. Hope you're relaxed now?

Blackbelly:
After posting broad daylight porn under the camouflage of seeking advice, now ask yourself, do you truly need help?
I seriously doubt!

Porn? You're definitely kidding right?

Accept my apologies if it was graphic but I actually need solid advice. This is not a joke.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Typing....
Sugarpapi wow just wow..so you really had to sugar coat and paint the occurence like it's some movie..what's this all about?
Well your problem is easy..tell your wife about what y've been doing.. apologise to her..call the same gal and tell her you no longer have interest in her and wouldn't want to have anything doin with her cos you are married..
After that cut her off your life and move on.. simple and easy or you can keep deceiving yourself..

You say 'cut her off' like it's hot knife through bread.

If if were this easy sir, I would not seek help here. I would have done it myself before things got to where they are now.

Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse.

Help me!

So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?