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Speaking Igbo in bed.....

Would you mind clarfying what will be hard for me?

Currently I work full time plus extra and he works when he can for an agency while applying for many jobs (I now believe that the UK discriminates which saddens me)

My boys are all older and wont be traveling with us to nigeria, they and my bf get along well and they have never had any disagreement.

He says I will find things hard but can't/ won't say what these are other than my pay in nigeria will be much reduced.... I don't care about this, I'd just like to help....

Any thoughts ??

Thanks for that, I've been using that site, has anyone got any more recipes... Particularly for vegatable soup ?

Hi
I need to learn how to cook Igbo food for my bf. I have learnt how to make tomato stew and jollof rice, but the rest I struggle with. I hate fish but am prepared to keep trying with this. Oh and I'm in the UK so I'd be very grateful if you would add UK alternatives or English names of ingredients x

Thank you, I will continue to love and support him 110% as he does for me x

I agree the age difference is a concern in theory but in practice we don't notice it much. He has lied to his family and told them I'm younger, but that won't stick when they find out about my boys ages. I love him so much, it would be very hard to give him up on what might happen as there are few problems now

Thank you, that is more or less what he tells me. It's good to hear it from another.

Nubilove... He asks nothing of me, I freely share what I have with him and he does the same for me.

I seem to be misunderstood...

How difficult will it be for him to return home with me, an older, white, non-igbo....

He isn't the first born so tells me that will make it easier but I'd like to be certain, he has had a tough life and I will do everything in my power to make it better

Wow, I thought you would be more supportive of one of your own, he already has a green card / visa.

How do you expect more trust and respect when you don't freely give it to a good man from your own country ??

ATMC..He's already married, we are waiting for his divorce to marry.... And 27 isn't too young to marry anyhow is it?? I know I'm still understanding the cultural differences but he has many friends the same age who are married or planning to be. Can you explain further ?

Hello good people, I have been reading your posts for a while now and would appreciate your advice.

First some background...I am a white british woman of 41, I have three grown children and good steady employment with the NHS...I have met a beautiful, smart, kind, and fantastic 27 yr old Igbo man. We now live together in the UK and want to marry each other, when we have sufficient funds we plan to move to his home in Nigeria and start a business.

My question is, how hard is this going to be for him? I have met his friends and some family and all is well there, Im worried after his mothers words to him on the phone were "please dont marry a white girl"....he says all will be fine, I trust him but I would never want to make his life more difficult than it has already been.

With thanks