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Ogaonos:
Am an introvert my problem is chatting with a lady. Both online ND real world
Online I can collect a lady WATS app number do the intro but building up the convo.is a problem

Offline to approach a lady is a problem if I want to approach I sound like generator that it fuel is running out.

Solution have be looking for is how do I have a build chat with a lady that lead to friendship(platonic friendship)

For example I chat a lady today goes well 7 days later I chat is like checking on her
10 or15days later chat is like am saying g the same thing

ditch online chat, only text when you need to like popping up something about something u have in common with her


try to communicate with her irl and build connection with her using your interests and hobbies. i get with girls using kdrama which most girls tend to like . from sharing films to talking about other stuffs

olioxx:
Anonymous9345 first of all based on what you mentioned about liking a female friend and not wanting to spoil your friendship, it might sound intense but you just need to find a way to let her know that you like her. You might not say it, but just keep making actions that indicate that you like her either platonically or romantically.
Ogaonos we are on the same boat, I struggled with this ish for a very long time and even till I am still trying to overcome this fear. But one thing I know is, eye contact and communication is your biggest weapon to get a girl.
If you see a girl physically, just stare at her from time to time, if she likes you she'll stare back.

If you cant muster up courage and still prefer the virtual route, make sure that you communicate interesting thing to her. What I do is ask question about something and wait for her reply.

What do you think about....? What would you do if you ...?

one time i stared at a girl and she gave me the crazy look with smile, i was like tf , shyness no gree me talk to the girl

LINTUNE:
how is mia goth ugly, i dont understand.

She is not ugly but she def not fine like salam or davis from htgm

thier women la sweet but their men fit stone you if you near their women , avoid their men at all costs



their women carry bbc for head arab women are god sent after black woman na brown woman

Signs the owner is low iq

Opay is something like mountain dew but you cant compare it to coca cola or pepsi which are first bank and zenith

pansophist:
Not having a mind of your own. Your opinion is other people’s opinion, and what you believe is what your pastor/celebrity told you, regardless if it defies common sense.

thats called critical thinking , a lots of people seem to lack it

I always thought I was a quiet, nerdy kid. But by the time I was 14, I had already: gotten done weed, slashed two guys with a knife during a fight, had shmex( it was too tight), stole some stuff that would get you in kiri kiri, vandalised bunch of cars.

when I told my friend about this today, he thought I was in a cult or that im a cultist

tensazangetsu20:
Having a Nigerian passport is the greatest curse ever. My gf and I are planning to travel to Brazil this December. My gf doesn’t need a visa I do so I applied early. I reached the Brazilian consulate today and immediately I turned in my passport. The guy looked at it suspiciously then went back inside and came out and said that Nigerians are in a special category and that their government has sent notifications to all Brazilian consulates worldwide that for Nigerian nationals the visa has to come from Brazil itself and not from a consulate. They told me they will have to hold on to my passport for another 2 weeks before they decide if they give me the visa or not.

Life is not all about money if you have the opportunity, please try and give your children another nationality. Venezuela has no diplomatic relationships with the USA but Venezuelan citizens get 10 years multiple entry visa. Nigerians get 3 months. There’s no even USA embassy in Venezuela at the moment but they even have more rights than us. I am using Venezuelan as an example because it’s the worst country in South America but Venezuelan citizens can travel to 120 countries visa free.

Theres nothing in the US except high salaries, its too shmitty there even peeps there are moving away to the US


South america is literally part of america , why would you want to deny your step brother from eating meat in the pot

abduleez1:
So damn annoying..... If he just closes down the whole forum I go happy sef..... Save someone the stress of giving a damn.

He's just lucky there's no alternative presently.... The only good ones are foreign owned and oriented to westerners.
As soon as he gets a similar competition with the local flavour maybe na that time him brain go get sense.

Make him continue with him nonsense and pride for now...... Na him time to ball. All good things come to an end.
Day dey come wey him go beg people tire dem no go reason am.... Same shït he does to people now screaming of upgrades for years now.... All on deaf eyes. And he profits from it.

If to say him no dey make money from the thing, e no go even pain me sef.

He's just lucky most see this place as a hobby or place to wind down. If to say na serious business make people come here, e for don crash for years.

there are alternatives at least nit in nigeria


there is a kenyan forum i have bern using and its very nice there

I like skinny women with no arssse and tiny pimples on their chests , i hate anything that looks like a cow

Haynnie:
Creamy Custard and bread

that bread no sweet , na just big for nothing

Iliveforever:
Abacha, big fish tail, ugba and a lot of cow leg compilation.
This tastes even more delicious and greater than it looks

Its too small

Instance:
Teach me how to brew.

Google bruh

nairalanda1:
While we should industralize, there is no where where cars are cheap and affordable

Even in 'saner climes'...they offer cars with something called financing. IE...a loan. You have to pay back the loan. Only the very very rich, or people who have saved money for several years can afford to pay for cars with cash straight.

White man is not superior to black man. The issue with the whites, and even Asians, they grew up in countries with limited resources, so it was either develop tech, or starve. Nigeria has too many resources that we use to think we are rich...when we can use them to develop industries.

At least domestic car manufacturers like NORD and INNOSON are starting somewhere. You don't have to deinegrate your race because you think they are superior. Heck...Japanese cars better pass American or even European cars self.

you literally forgot we are a developing nation not a developed country . you literally try to sink people in debt instead of uplift people out of debt

china did with bicycles before they started making cars. bicycle was so huge thing in china that every family had one


innoson started well producing consumer products which gives him bulk profits compared to his car manfacturing plant or non existent nord, my grandma doesnt know what is a nord

banku:
E pain you, no be small

im pained because the white man is superior than the black man

Kobojunkie:
What people in Nigeria do I need to ask this? I hope not the same people who complain of PHCN not giving them electricity for many hours each week?

ask your mom bro

carry your L and move on, stop salivating on one girl like a mumbo jumbo


there are plenty of fishes out there, why focus on one

i wont spoon feed you but try self hosting your own


i already know you want to use it for awon clients

i have a tatoo on my arm and you have to be high iq to decipher my tat at first sight


because normies will see a dot but few will see my btc address containing 21 btc encoded using braille and volynivh script

white wedding is totally bs


i cant marry a woman that suggests this shmit


for me its court marriage then traditional marriage to seal it off


she must sign that if she ever leave me, i will get all her assets and vice versa if i cheat. hehe

building cars when most nigerians cant fford common household appliances


its not as if they are building cheap affordable cars

why build cheap affordable mini trucks, mini tractors, mini buses etc instead of this rubbish


the black man is forever gone in terms of IQ

I weep for the black race

I dont drink alchol except i brewed em myself, i do more of shrooms and veggies from the most high


Its fun experimenting and brewing alchol , tried that shmit with bunch of pineapples and got most nasty shmit

pretty sure if i started a brewery , it would sell out asap

no, get more skills



try diving into something like php , ruby on rails not fancy bs like react , fuarking typescript