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To love pleasure for pleasure’s sake will introduce you to poverty. Indulging in a life of luxury will never make you wealthy.


A hot-tempered man has to pay the price for his anger. If you bail him out once, you’ll do it a dozen times.

You can inherit houses and land from your parents, but a good wife only comes as a gracious gift from GOD!

If you work hard at what you do, great abundance will come to you. But merely talking about getting rich while living to only pursue your pleasures brings you face-to-face with poverty.

If you work hard at what you do, great abundance will come to you. But merely talking about getting rich while living to only pursue your pleasures brings you face-to-face with poverty.

Thereedemer:
Add other vice o
Cos matubation is better compared to smoking, drugs , olosho, gambling.
You cant go far in life with these vice as a nigerian you are already disadvantaged.
Everything create a false escape to the arms of the devil(destruction)

None is better than any.

Alright. You need to understand why

‎Masturbation Is Better Than Fornication🤷
‎Why Starve Your Personal Desire?
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‎That is the defense many use to silence their conscience. They say, “At least I’m not with a man or woman.” They say, “It’s safer, no pregnancy, no disease, no scandal.” And so they comfort themselves in secrecy, believing they have found a softer alternative to sin. But let me ask you—when did God ever approve a softer version of darkness? When did He ever declare one sin more righteous than another? The truth is, masturbation is not a safe ground. It is fornication rehearsed in private, lust fed behind closed doors, and a prison carefully designed to enslave your soul while you smile at your own chains.
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‎The enemy knows you will fear public shame, so he offers you a private sin. He knows you will avoid the bed of another, so he builds an altar in your imagination. What begins as “better than fornication” soon becomes the appetite that weakens prayer, dries your fire, and distances you from the presence of God. Masturbation is not an escape—it is a snare. It is not medicine—it is poison that feels sweet in the mouth but bitter in the spirit. Do not be deceived. Sin has no safe version. Sin has no lighter weight. Before God, it is the same rebellion. And until you cut it off, it will cut you off.
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‎"The sin you excuse today will become the master you cannot resist tomorrow."
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The entire universe is standing on tiptoe, yearning to see the unveiling of GOD'S glorious sons and daughters!

So tell me, what benefit ensued from doing those things that you’re now ashamed of? It left you with nothing but a legacy of shame and death.

Sin is a dethroned monarch; so you must no longer give it an opportunity to rule over your life, controlling how you live and compelling you to obey its desires and cravings. So then, refuse to answer sin call to surrender your body as a tool for wickedness. Instead, passionately answer GOD'S call to keep yielding your body to HIM as one who has now experienced resurrection life! You should live now for GOD'S pleasure, ready to be used for HIS noble purpose.

Do your words release a stench, like the smell of death—foul and filthy! Do deceitful lies roll off your tongues, do the venom of a viper drips from your lips? You need to be saved from the demonic forces living inside of you by acknowledging that you need help. Do you want to live forever a sinner?

Most people never realised that they are lost until they cross the river. JESUS THE ANOINTED HELPER wants to help you right now if only you will cry out for help.

Let your true beauty come from your inner personality, not a focus on the external. For lasting beauty comes from a gentle and peaceful spirit, which is precious in God’s sight and is much more important than the outward adornment of elaborate hair, jewelry, and fine clothes.

You are resident aliens and foreigners in this world, you must divorce yourselves from the evil desires that wage war within your mind and show courage to do only what is right and perfectly!

Who are you? Extender of hope or misery? It's about your calling. No one lives forever on earth, but we came to do those things written within us. What is your name? What is your office?

Our love shouldn't be an abstract theory we only talk about, but a way of life demonstrated through our loving deeds.

DiarisGodoo:
I need "understandings". Sounds like you're the one who needs "understandings". Told to define truth and he/she starts carping "understandings"!

Go for understanding so you don't go asking simple instructions from a baby alright. You really need to cry out for it.

GOD ALMIGHTIEST will continually revitalize you, implanting within you the passion to do what pleases HIM. Amen amen amen!

DiarisGodoo:
"Love is truth". With due respect that is one of the more stupid things I've ever read. What is truth? Define it. What is truth for you may not be truth for me.
Some children hate their parents for life for the discipline they received as children.
Some people take advantage of you if you truly love them

It doesn't matters what I'd say to you right now. What you need right now is understandings. If you lack it, nothing and nobody can help you.

DiarisGodoo:
Problem is, define love.
If you love a child and punish him because it's good for him, he'd definitely hate you for punishing him

Love is truth, you can't go wrong telling me the truth which is life.

Of course you don't expect the evil that wants to ruin your child's life to cooperate with your correction. They say truth is bitter, right? But I said " Truth is only bitter to the ignorant mind".

Your child could respond with irritation not hatred per say, but at the long run, he appreciates you for having the bold courage to correct and discipline him/her!

SpencerForbes:
I’m still undergoing training for that too. Not in all aspect tho but when it comes to relationships, I always act first.

What goes around comes around. Injury for one is for all!!

You can't go wrong when you love others. When you add up everything in the law code, the sum total is love.

SpencerForbes:
How do you control your actions or thoughts before taking actions

You think first, always think first before you speak, you can't control your words when they are spoken out, but you can control your thoughts while it's been processed within you

I'm absolutely convinced that nothing—nothing living or dead, angelic or demonic, today or tomorrow,
high or low, thinkable or unthinkable—absolutely nothing can get between us and GOD'S LOVE because of the way that JESUS our Master has embraced us.

Have you embrace him?

SpencerForbes:
Can we chat privately cos that’s the hardest part. I first react before I check even after I’ve tried not to react fast. I want to learn how to focus without reacting.

Many are learning from your experiences. You are not alone. Don't be ashame, speak freely, it's a faceless forum alright.

SpencerForbes:
Anyhow. I don’t talk much but when I do, I spit fire 🔥 I’m trying to stop everything.

You have to first control your thoughts before you talk.

SpencerForbes:
Abeg who will teach me. Cos all my ladies are saying I have bad mouth ooo😂😂😂

Not just ladies alright.

We are talking about in life generally

Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.

Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.

Don't let the world, which doesn't know the first thing about living, tell you how to live. Don't fill your lungs with polluted unbelief, and then exhale disobedience.


We all did it, all of us doing what we felt like doing, when we felt like doing it, all of us in the same boat. It's a wonder God didn't lose his temper and do away with the whole lot of us.

Instead, immense in mercy and with an incredible love,

he embraced us. He took our sin-dead lives and made us alive in Christ. He did all this on his own, with no help from us!
Then he picked us up and set us down in highest heaven in company with Jesus, our Messiah.

Now God has us where he wants us, with all the time in this world and the next to shower grace and kindness upon us in Christ Jesus.

Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish!
We don't play the major role. If we did, we'd probably go around bragging that we'd done the whole thing!

Receive and experience the amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ, deep, deep within yourselves.

You know the old saying, "First you eat to live, and then you live to eat"? Well, it may be true that the body is only a temporary thing, but that's no excuse for stuffing your body with food, or indulging it with sex. Since the Master honors you with a body, honor him with your body! Allow CHRIST dwell in your house body peacefully without hurting him with your flesh desires!


Just because something is technically legal doesn't mean that it's spiritually appropriate. If I went around doing whatever I thought I could get by with, I'd be a slave to my whims.


There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for GOD-GIVEN and GOD-MODELED LOVE.

Didn't you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the HOLY SPIRIT? Don't you see that you can't live however you please, squandering what GOD paid such a high price for?
GOD owns the whole works. So let people see GOD in and through your body.

Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the HOLY SPIRIT, who lives in you and was given to you by GOD? You do not belong to yourself, for GOD bought you with a high price. So you must honor GOD with your body.

The details are more important than the whole. In your struggles, always remember that you are not alone. What you said in your pains, misunderstanding, frustration, and in your sickness and diseases, matters a big deal to GOD ALMIGHTY and CHRIST JESUS and to the man and woman helping you to succeed. Those are the details.

Not in health, in fames, wealth, prosperity, joy and happiness of the moment.

Like the children of Israel said to Moses when it looked like pharaoh was going to slaughter all of them.

Because from man's point of view, there wasn't any escape route. The red sea before and pharoah pursuing behind them with all his armoury, ready to slaughter at will.

Can we listen to few disgusting words of ungrateful, fearfully, reprobates men appreciation to GOD ALMIGHTY and his servant Moses Be real and determined

Exodus 14:10 And when Pharaoh drew nigh, the children of Israel lifted up their eyes, and, behold, the Egyptians marched after them; and they were sore afraid: and the children of Israel cried out unto the LORD.

14:11 And they said unto Moses, Because there were no graves in Egypt, hast thou taken us away to die in the wilderness? wherefore hast thou dealt thus with us, to carry us forth out of Egypt?

14:12 Is not this the word that we did tell thee in Egypt, saying, Let us alone, that we may serve the Egyptians? For it had been better for us to serve the Egyptians, than that we should die in the wilderness.

If you are Moses, what would you do to your detractors, what would your reaction look like

But this man reacted with these words....

Exodus 14:13 And Moses said unto the people, Fear ye not, stand still, and see the salvation of the LORD, which he will shew to you to day: for the Egyptians whom ye have seen to day, ye shall see them again no more for ever.

14:14 The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.

He must have been fully with the Spirit of CHRIST Jesus, the 7 Spirit of GOD ALMIGHTY. Humility mixed with boldness and super Holy courage to overcome whatever that comes. The SPIRIT of I am.

And then, the next few minutes, when the senses overcame his spirit Moses went crying to CHRIST JESUS. Because you see, your body and spirit is always fighting for dominion. That you are not able to do what you must do.

JESUS CHRIST replied Moses, HE'S the WORD invisible and that was made flesh and dwelt with us. Full of the GLORY of GOD ALMIGHTY...

Exodus 14:15 And the LORD said unto Moses, Wherefore criest thou unto me? speak unto the children of Israel, that they go forward:

14:16 But lift thou up thy rod, and stretch out thine hand over the sea, and divide it: and the children of Israel shall go on dry ground through the midst of the sea.

14:17 And I, behold, I will harden the hearts of the Egyptians, and they shall follow them: and I will get me honour upon Pharaoh, and upon all his host, upon his chariots, and upon his horsemen.

14:18 And the Egyptians shall know that I am the LORD, when I have gotten me honour upon Pharaoh, upon his chariots, and upon his horsemen.

Action packed words.

What's next

.Exodus 14:19 And the angel of GOD ALMIGHTY, which went before the camp of Israel, removed and went behind them; and the pillar of the cloud went from before their face, and stood behind them:

14:20 And it came between the camp of the Egyptians and the camp of Israel; and it was a cloud and darkness to them, but it gave light by night to these: so that the one came not near the other all the night.

Wow, I told you. Action packed words. Confirmed.

Moses's action.... Remember he had told them.....And Moses said unto the people, Fear ye not, stand still, and see the salvation of the LORD, which he will shew to you to day: for the Egyptians whom ye have seen to day, ye shall see them again no more for ever.

The LORD shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.

Exodus 14:21 And Moses stretched out his hand over the sea; and the LORD caused the sea to go back by a strong east wind all that night, and made the sea dry land, and the waters were divided.

14:22 And the children of Israel went into the midst of the sea upon the dry ground: and the waters were a wall unto them on their right hand, and on their left.

The same critics enjoyed the faith of Moses.

The details are more important than the whole in your walk with GOD ALMIGHTY..