obembet:
I believe most of us love our Parents equally but, we tend to be a little closer showing our Mother our love better. But why in some homes the children after making it in life come back to take better care of their moms than their dads?
Of course, I know that some fathers are what I call deadbeat dads who must have bottles of beers every evening at the expense of hungry children.
For children to love and take care of their mother more than father, most of the time the fault is from the father.
Fistly, most father have militry aproach towards their wife and children. When they are coming home like this. Everyone will just have to hide or display fake gwntleness so that they will not be beaten or punish. They dont know how to show love or play with the children. They dont relate with them, even if they need money they will rather send it through the mother.
Another thing is the way they maltreat their wife. Their is no child that will sees you bulying their mum, not giving her money fore house chore shouting and beating her that will not take side with the mother later in the feature. If you want your children to really loves and care for you at old age, take care of there mother and the children.
Though some mothers too are selfish and unforgiving. They normaly use past offences to hunt there husband and in doing that turning the heart of the children against the father. No matter what might be happening between you and your husband, dont use it to turn there heart against there father. In all our doings lets have the fear of God. God will help us
But there are alot of father out there who care so much about Thier children.
Another thing we need to understand is that Nothing brings a man more happiness than having a successful son, seeing his son surpass him. In this context, fathers often raise their sons with a firm hand, instilling lessons through tough love and challenging environments. But many of us don't see this, we only focus on hash and hard training.
Many children still don't know that some moms manipulate the children emotionally to believe they care for them more than their fathers do.
My TAKE
As a father, apart from been a responsible father, father should always try to provide things what their children want and give it to them directly. Father should no allow someone else to take Thier efforts glory.
Also, Give your kids hugs, kisses, hold hands, rub their backs, or snuggle with them. Let the children see this.
Most of nowadays mother are selfish and only care about themselves alone
Source: obembet |
Family › Re: Why Do Children Tend To Love Their Mother More Than Their Father? by Suziayo(f): 2:43pm On Mar 15, 2025
