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For ppl who make youtube videos, if there is a replica of your video out there in cyberspace and you make your video private or delete it will the other copies still be out there?
How do you hack a youtube account?

remsonik: I totally agree with okija_juju, if a man has a side chic outside his home then that home is on fire already. Am a woman and we crave for attention a lot,the lady outside will always get most of your husbands time and affection and even the loveliest of things you do to him before,he no longer fancies them and sees u as being silly and overbearing most times. If you think he's cheating on you the best thing to do is to let him know you knw what he is doing and remind him of the implications to you both health and risk of STD's. God bless the nigerian woman,we bend we don't break!!

tufiakwa! keep bending then you will break.

Okija_juju:



My dear, this thread is not about 'ideal situations'..

The OP started a thread about mistakes women make when they discover a cheating partner. I simply added a new twist to the whole cheating thing..

When men sleep with other women, its not emotional but purely physical. A married friend came to Lagos a few weeks ago and together with some guys blew 150'k on women alone.. The married guy had two babes at the same time. But when he was done in the morning, he paid them and they left and when he was done with his business in Lagos, he flew back home to his wife (where his heart lies). Now he has the bragging rights that he had done 2 women at once. Now, I want that experience as well.. So when he brags about his own exploits, I can also brag about mine.

To men, its just sex.. And thats what many women are beginning to realize as well. I know men who dont play with their wives, but still mess around when they are out of town.

But when its emotional for a man, then his wife is in deep shi!t.. Thats when she should be afraid.. Infact, she should be very afraid..

Just because I want to experience the fun of playing with roller skates, dont mean I want to do away with my Car.. . #Geddit?!

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ASHETORLA: Ogbeni....PRAYER IS THE KEY

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Ranks007: When you have just discovered that your manis cheating on you...please do NOT do the following:-

1. Demanding to know about the other woman: The truth may hurt you. Can you handle the truth?

2. Insulting the other woman: You are giving her power, she doesnt deserve. Especially if you insult her to your husband e.g. how is your slut doing?

3. Forcing him to choose, thinking he will choose you: There is no competition here-youwill lose this one! She is new and they are in the honeymoon phase, you on the other handare an old habit.

4. Calling him excessively to check on him like a prisoner: He may start to avoid your calls even if he is not doing anything bad just to protect his freedom.

5. Beating the other woman up: You are creating sympathy for her. Now she looks like your victim to him. With this one you are still giving her power.

6. Threatening to leave just to scare him: You are giving him ideas. You make the grass seem greener on the other side.

7. Crying: He wont feel sympathy for you-he will feel burdened by the tears.

8. Snooping: Dont hurt yourself unnecessarily.You will find what you are looking for. Dont break into his e-mails. Dont scroll his cellphone and dont go through his messages.

9. Being in denial even though the signs are there: Do something about your knowledge or you will make yourself sick. Some diseases are stress-related. Deal with your issues; dont bottle them up.

10. Telling his mother: For crying out loud! This is his mother!

11. Committing suicide: Seriously, once you're gone, you're gone!

13. Don't give him sex again, use body language to send the slightly insane man messages, that doesn't stop you from being concerned in his welfare!

Put the phone down

It is wise to leave his phone alonewhen you are hurting, deal with your disappointment instead of going through his phone only to find more truths that will hurt you.

When his phone rings, leave the room. Even if its ringing unattended to, leave it alone. Dont answer his phone. Learn to be strong and ignore it.

Dont steal numbers of women from his phone and start embarrassing yourself. These women will know that you are insecure and will presson with the affair.

Under no circumstances should you call the other woman. If you call her you will achieve nothing except to acknowledge her. She doesnt exist, treat her like that. Entomb her in the dust of her own nothingness.

Dont call your man twenty times a day. It is annoying, he already knows, he violated your trust. Dont rub it in his face that you dont trust him. Remember if you want to win this onecreate your own rules! Go left when he thinks you will go right!

Culled from the experience of the writer!

lord have mercy on women.

hotwax:

The you should be walking on the street naked.

we all should start doing so anyways, it would be the best for everybody.

everything... is that to much to ask?

fabulousfortune: Welcome babe... Chai, u gather nor be small. This is the true definition of IKEBE!

dalu nna lol.

Tabh:
Dammit,this baka no be here o...

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