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[b][/b]thank you Outstrip. u got the main root. but should i leave her or not?

hello every body, please i kindly have a problem on dating aspect, the problem is: i find someone  whom i love and she love me too. but what is thier is that when i woe (toast) her, i told her to tell me all about his past and she did the same thing cos i told her i want someone who is trust worthy cos thier is no love in this world but trust mater. she told me about her past and the present but what confused me most is that of is boys friend that she was dating, she declair to me that she does not like the guy and she intend to leave the guy. i told her that why does she accept is proposal at first site, but she told me she known him through  her mother. Furthermore,I ask her how was deep is thier relationship, she reply by saying; when she was so small, she has some spirit(elegbe omo or emere) as in yoruba. so her mother and the boy's mother her friend and they made use of the boy so dat those spirit we leave her alone (that was when she was around 2-3 years of age ) before she finally went to lagos. she came back from lagos in 2008 september at the age of 20-21. and the guy meet her in the church and dats how the guy prosed to the girl.
But i try to confused her not to leave the guy, but she insist of following me. i intend to give the gilr some timec so as to resolve the matter but she intend to follow me rather. and the guy just knows me and i told her not to forth with the guy again cos i do not want trouble. if i even insist not to call her, she is going to be crying. please what can i do.
Please help me ooooooo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm feedup.  please u can reach me on 08060613396 (please text me)