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Romance › Re: I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 9:07am On Mar 08, 2016

HardMirror:
What is this one saying?
I have dated at least 3 girls that never for once bought common orange when visiting. How can you date a guy for a year and NEVER buy even orange of N200 and in the course of that one year the guy has spent over 200k on you? Even if you don't love the guy, any girl with common sense will buy little things for the guy even if it is just to deceive him so she can get more. This is not a matter of the guy expecting anything in return. If you are like that too, change! 100 naira, 500 naira fruits means a lot even to a guy that is a millionaire.

thanks bro, some babe don't reason at all... Do you know that me and this my babe decided to visit my sister that just gave birth, her nasty brain did not tell her that we have to buy something for them, I just remembered and bought somethings on our way, my sister will be thinking she was the one that bought it not knowing I did...now the problem is not that I bought somethings but for her not to remember it is somehow... And it portray maturity at all...

Romance › Re: I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 8:59am On Mar 08, 2016

HardMirror:
I once dated a corper (a nurse), whe was earning 60k per month besides the 19k allowance making about 79k as a corper, tho I am a working class man and never expected any thing from her, but it was appalling knowing this girl earns something but NEVER for once not even on my birthday buy a pin for me. Some girls are just plain stuupid. Funny thing was I never knew she was even earning anything, I kept giving her money every time thinking all she earned was what other corpers where earning. After her, I dated a girl still searching for job and this girl always buys something when visiting no matter how small it is. To be honest many ladies deserve to be used and dumped, stuupidity is just part of their dna

well done bro now you understand, even if she don't have money why not from the money you gave her buy something for you no mata how little it is as far as there is love you will appreciate it...but it doesn't cross there mind at all...always correcting why no it give, blessed is he that giveth than the one that receiving...thanks bro,

Romance › Re: I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 8:49am On Mar 08, 2016

CaroLyner:
the question itself gives the impression that you feel slighted and that you deserve reciprocation from your girlfriend.
Gifts are meant to be given selflessly. They are not meant to be given with the expectation of a trade. Some people suck at buying gifts.
Some people don't believe in gifts. Does your girlfriend do things for you that you don't need
her to do, but she does freely because she likes you? Rub your feet? Fetch you a drink? Perhaps she considers those 'gifts' to you.
If this bothers you enough to ask the question,maybe you should talk about this with your girlfriend and see what her outlook is on gifts.

what you said is the truth but to be candid I have not t received any favour from her...I have not even the food she cooked, we are just doing a Christian relationship, we don't have intimacy

Romance › Re: I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 8:46am On Mar 08, 2016

halfricanadian:
some people dont know how to give she myt love u bt find it hard to giv

See op if u d type dat loves wen a girl gives biko go find ur type dont tolerate any one find who u can appreciate nd not tolerate

thanks but everybody likes gift especially the you received from the person you love, no mata how little it is you will appreciate it, it is somehow when your boy friend gives you money and buys gift for you you can't afford given him anything, that kind f relationship is just boring and one sided...

Romance › Re: I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 6:23am On Mar 08, 2016

Originalsly:
I thought you said you love her so much that you made up your mind to marry her. Why should you be even worry about her not giving you gifts? Just focus on marrying her and stop thinking rubbish... ....her not loving you but loving your cash and gifts ....after all...you are not the first nor will be the last mumu.

sometimes I don't really know how people reason, do you think is easy for a guy to count out his hard earn cash to give a girl...some men don't even give there wife money, even if I want to marry her you that wrote this do you pray to marry a stingy partner...

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Romance › I Have Never Received Any Gift From My Girl Friend by sydney440(op): 3:45am On Mar 08, 2016

There is this girl I love infact I have made up my mind to marry her, I do a lot of good things for her including buying her things and given her money when the need arises. The issue her is that she has not given me anything, though the pay she receive from her working place is not all that much, but I think it doesn't matter the quality of the gift she will give me, all that is affecting me here is that I have not received any gift from her even if it is boxers and singlet. I fill cheated some how, am having the feelings that she don't love me pls my friends what is your advise to me and I know that some of us may have been in to this kind of situation.

Romance › Re: For Ladies Only.... by sydney440(op): 8:53am On Nov 26, 2015

I don get alert

Romance › For Ladies Only.... by sydney440(op): 8:50am On Nov 26, 2015

Two young ladies arrived to a meeting wearing clothes that were quite revealing their body parts. Here is what the Chairman told them: He took a good look at them and made them sit. Then he said something that, they might never forget for the rest of their lives.
He looked at them straight in the eyes and said;
"ladies, everything that God has valuable in this world
is well covered and hard to see, find or get.
1. Where do you find DIAMONDS? Deep down in the
ground, covered and protected.
2. Where do you find PEARLS? Deep down at the
bottom of the ocean, covered up and protected in a
beautiful shell.
3. Where do you find GOLD? Way down in the mine,
covered over with layers of rock and to get them, you
have to work hard & dig deep down to get them.
He looked at them with serious eyes and said;
"Your body is sacred & unique" You are far more
precious than gold, diamonds and pearls, and you
should be covered too. So he added that, "If you keep
your treasured mineral just like gold, diamond and
pearls, deeply covered up, a reputable mining organization with the requisite machinery will fly down and conduct years of extensive exploration."
Then he said, "First, they will contact your government
(family), sign professional contracts (wedding) and
mine you professionally (legal marriage). But if you
leave your precious minerals uncovered on the surface
of the earth, you always attract a lot of illegal miners
to come and mine you illegally. Everybody will just pick
up their crude instruments and just have a dig on you
just freely like that.
So, keep your bodies deeply covered so that it may invite professional miners to chase you.

Romance › Re: Giving Girlfriend Cash Gift by sydney440(m): 2:10pm On Nov 06, 2015

Ginaz:
can I ask you something? have you thought of buying your mother something 4 this Xmas? have you even thought of it?

give that damn money to your mother, she deserves it more and she won't throw a tantrum about anything. my kobo to this rubbish!

somebody was asking what to get for his girl and you are answering another thing pls your answer is not right at all, doing the right thing at the wrong time...

Romance › Re: Computer Science Vs Architecture Which Shud I Go For In The Uni by sydney440(m): 9:42pm On Nov 03, 2015

Durentt:
but someone who has never done Tech drawing before can he cope with Archi in the university?

yes but you have to be very sensitive in in the preliminary curses of technical drawing you know how they do in high institution they assumed for you to have studied architecture you would have hnown a little bit of technical drawing but can do a going free hand sketches

Romance › Re: Computer Science Vs Architecture Which Shud I Go For In The Uni by sydney440(m): 9:34pm On Nov 03, 2015

Architecture is a nice course am an Architect, but you have to be creative with your pencils, a little bit of technical drawing for beginners like you, it is a course that is straight forward, like we use to say those days in quote if cannot draw you withdraw....lols

Romance › Does It Means You Don't Trust Her by sydney440(op): 11:25pm On Nov 01, 2015

Pls my dear friends, I really need your suggestions in this issue, I have decided to marry my friend and to be sure about everything, I tried discussing with her on the issue of going to the hospital to check ourselves, she became very angry with me to the point that she told me that she is doubting my love and trust for her. I became so confused that am wondering if I have suggested anything bad...my dear friends does it mean GOING to the hospital to check ourselves means I don't trust her ....

NYSC › Re: NYSC 2015 Batch B House by sydney440(m): 1:19pm On Oct 21, 2015

Make everyone chill it will soon be out I remember vividly in our thread then batch 13c it wasn't easy the tension was very high but, then it was pested in the school...you guys should get your stuff ready ....nysc in you peoples level really worth this tension because the camp is gonna be fun no matter were you are posted....wishing you guys journey mercies as you travel come Wednesday next week kudossssss

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Romance › The Battle Between Love, Marriage And Religion by sydney440(op): 12:10pm On Oct 14, 2015

The battle between Love, Marriage, and religion.
Truly love is difficult to find yet we know that love is one
thing virtually everybody believes should be shared by human.
That is we believe it is good to love and to be loved because
love can heal all wounds. However, it seems there are
situations where love is ignored specially by those who preach
and teach love to humanity. That is those who claim to be
religious are those who frequently deny love its rightful place
just for religious reasons.
There are cases of love being denied because of religious
differences. For instance a young man who is a Christian fell
in love with a Muslim girl. The family of the girl insisted that
the man must convert to Islam before he can marry their
daughter. The man could not do that so that was the end of
the relationship. Christians are not excluded in this issue
because they are also involved. It is said that the Jehovah’s
Witness do not allow their members to marry a non-member
except if the person will convert and become a witness.
Some youths were discussing this issue; one of them is a
catholic while the others were protestant. From their argument
it was clear that each Christian sect would not like their
member to leave for another sect even though it is another
Christian family. The reason is not far-fetched. They do not
teach the same doctrines.
A religious mother would like to see her children follow her
footsteps. May be that is why it is difficult for parents to
allow their children take another path that is different from
theirs. Yet, we know that few parents do give their children
the liberty to choose what they want in life so it means that
at times it is even the lovers themselves that would want their
partner to convert before they can get married or start any
meaningful relationship.
The young single men and women that are so religious will
always want to find a partner that shares their religious point
of view. That is why most of them always want to know the
faith of the one they meet. It is a fact that a relationship may
work better if both partners are of the same religious sect but
does it mean a relationship between lovers of different religion
will not work out even if both partners agree to respect each
other’s religious view. Then another question may be what
faith the children will be introduced to since it is parents that
first point a religious path for the children.
Well, it is possible for lover to get married despite their
religious differences and I trust some people have tried it and
it work. This is because people still change their religious faith
even after many years of marriage. That is a husband or wife
can see reason to change church or religion after many years
of marriages and I trust the other partner can live with that.
In my research for ways to improve religious tolerance among
humanity, it was noted that inter-religious marriages is
recommended because if we can learn to live happily with a
partner that is of another religious sect then the external
world and their struggle for religious superiority will have no
effect on us.
Finally, religion is the only source of hope to many people so
they placed it above every other thing even above love. So
any time there is a battle between love and religion. Religion
wins most of the time. It is only in few instances has love
proved to be stronger than religion. Is there anything we can
do to reverse the trend and confirm that love is the greatest of
all commandments or do we continue to allow love to weep
each time religion stands of its way?

Romance › Re: Is It A Taboo For Catholic Guy To Marry An Assemblies Of God Lady by sydney440(op): 7:19pm On Aug 02, 2015

I thank everyone this has been given me sleepless night

Romance › Is It A Taboo For Catholic Guy To Marry An Assemblies Of God Lady by sydney440(op): 6:57pm On Aug 02, 2015

Pls this is really happening to me, I want my friends in nairaland to help me with there candid advice, there is this girl l fall in love with and I really want to settle down with her. I have introduced her to my people especially my mum, and she tried introduced me to her people but the problem her is her dad who is a strong hold in assemblies of God told her that it is not GOING to work because am a catholic, the girl is very confused and me too too I don't know what to do and really want her to be my wife as am planing to do everything next years, pks my friends your candid advice is needed in this situation and I will appreciate it thanks...

Romance › Re: With by sydney440(m): 1:48pm On Jun 27, 2015

almondjoy:
These are the kinds of people you will keep meeting since you decided to sow your wild oats till almost 33 years old. You should have been married at age 30. So get serious with your life and settle down and quit horsing around. As for the lady in question--when you are used to doing certain things it is difficult to stop. The lady is only doing what she knows how to do best--jump from bed to bed--searching for validation and acceptance--since players like you have shaped and molded her emotional being.

So take heart--for you are only reaping what you have sowed in the past. As your lips are sealed not being able to spend time with her on her birthday--you too were probably up to no good!

The older you get the less "quality" people to chose from. All you have around is a bunch of "recycled dysfunctional undesireble elements"--gambling away their lives in strange beds!---Medically and psychologically damaged goods walking around like human beings!

Ooooooooooooooooooooooooh---Thank you father for sparing me such heartache!

I really pity females not married by 25 and males by 30! In this day and age?--With diseases every where? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! God forbid!

I like or comment but that last paragraph is not OK at all. If u are lucky to have married before 25 doesn't mean that others that didn't make it are fools, what u should is to praise God because all fingers are not equal abi man need to be marriage niii

Goodluck!

Romance › Re: With by sydney440(m): 1:46pm On Jun 27, 2015

almondjoy:
These are the kinds of people you will keep meeting since you decided to sow your wild oats till almost 33 years old. You should have been married at age 30. So get serious with your life and settle down and quit horsing around. As for the lady in question--when you are used to doing certain things it is difficult to stop. The lady is only doing what she knows how to do best--jump from bed to bed--searching for validation and acceptance--since players like you have shaped and molded her emotional being.

So take heart--for you are only reaping what you have sowed in the past. As your lips are sealed not being able to spend time with her on her birthday--you too were probably up to no good!

The older you get the less "quality" people to chose from. All you have around is a bunch of "recycled dysfunctional undesireble elements"--gambling away their lives in strange beds!---Medically and psychologically damaged goods walking around like human beings!

Ooooooooooooooooooooooooh---Thank you father for sparing me such heartache!

I really pity females not married by 25 and males by 30! In this day and age?--With diseases every where? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! God forbid! I like or comment but that last paragraph is not OK at all. If u are lucky to have married before 25 doesn't mean that others that didn't make it are fools, what u should is to praise God because all fingers are not equal abi man need to be marriage niii

Goodluck!

Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike & Oge Okoye Given Chieftancy Titles In Enugu by sydney440(m): 8:54am On Apr 22, 2015

I vividly remembered oge okoye' s first movie titled 'my only brother' she was so skinny then how time flies...

Politics › Re: INEC Rejects Governor T. A. Orji As Senator- Elect by sydney440(m): 10:28pm On Apr 10, 2015

I Don Get Alert… Godwin
And I Don Pay My Rent… Godwin
Dem Be Wan Fall My Hand But… Godwin
Dem Be Wan Steal My Joy But… Godwin
I Say Anything I Do Na Godwin Oh, Na Godwin Oh Na God
Win Oh
Anything I Do Na God Go Win Oh Na God Go Win Oh Na
God Go Win Oh
I Don Change My Name To Godwin
And Omo I Don Buy Motor… Godwin
Dem Say My Market No Go Sell But Godwin
And Dem Be Say Ino Go Blow But Godwin (Dem My
Brother)
Make Them Try Their Luck… My God Go Win Oh My God
Go Win Oh My Lord Go Win Oh
Anything I Do Na God Go Win Oh Na God Go Win Oh Na
God Go Win Oh
As You Don Pass Exam Na God Win (Ehn Ehn)
And Dem Be Say Uno Go Pass but Godwin (Ehn Ehn)
You Wake Up See Today Lasan Na Gowin (Ah Ah)
Robbers Dey Rob Dem No See You (Brother) Godwin
Dem No See You My Sister
Oyah Belofah Na Godwin O Na God Go Win Na God Go
Win O
Anything I Do Na God Go Win Oh Na God Go Win Oh Na
God Go Win Oh
As Na Your Wedding Day, Na Godwin
And E Don Tay Wey U Dey Find But Godwin
See We Go Pop Champaign Today Godwin (Ah Ah)
And We Go Dey Dance Dance Cause Godwin O (elelele)
Anything You Win Na Godwin
And If You Win Election My Brother Godwin
If You Win The Contract My Friend Godwin
If You Check The Countdown My Brother Godwin
And If Your Market Sell Na Godwin O Na God Go Win Na
God Go Win O
Anything I Do Na God Go Win Oh Na God Go Win Oh Na
God Go Win Oh
Why You No Go Dance Na Godwin O Na God Go Win Na
God Go Win O
Anything I Do Na God Go Win Oh Na God Go Win Oh Na
God Go Win Oh
GODWIN

Properties › Re: Do I Mold Blocks Or Buy It? Please Advice. by sydney440(m): 8:26pm On Dec 15, 2014

[ quote author=alfa0 post=28897273]good morning all

please i have this project i want to start.
but i wish to know if molding blocks myself or buying will be cheaper.
2. how many blocks can i get out of 1 trip of sand.
3. which type of sand is better for block molding.

thanks[/quote]six bags of cement can mould up to 35 to 40 blocks per bag in one trip of sand.......

Politics › Re: Nigerians In Ghana Prisons Cry Out For Help by sydney440(m): 1:00pm On Nov 28, 2014

TrishaP:
Is Nigeria prison any better?

yes now boko haram fit break the prison release the inmates there.....

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Everton (1 - 0) On 27th September 2014 by sydney440(m): 3:09pm On Sep 27, 2014

We are gradually improving but We seriously need a Sharp
and fast striker,...........BR I don't have words for u today,we
were leading and u brought LAMBERT ON to do what??,........
.Score a goal??,........Mehn,.......am not happy at all

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Everton (1 - 0) On 27th September 2014 by sydney440(m): 1:46pm On Sep 27, 2014

Liverpool just need the final edge to get the ball inside the net and that person is suso'''''''I pray Brendan put him early....

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Sheffield Wednesday:Capital One Cup (7 - 0) On 24th Sept 2014 by sydney440(m): 9:05am On Sep 25, 2014

and all this goals came second half

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Middlesbrough: Capital One Cup (14 - 13) On Pens On 23rd Sept 2014 by sydney440(m): 10:05pm On Sep 23, 2014

109' GOAL!
Goal! Liverpool 2, Middlesbrough 1. Suso (Liverpool) right
footed shot from the centre of the box to the centre of the
goal.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Middlesbrough: Capital One Cup (14 - 13) On Pens On 23rd Sept 2014 by sydney440(m): 9:59pm On Sep 23, 2014

Brendan no even sabi I'm players, had it been suso started this match I'm for do well

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Middlesbrough: Capital One Cup (14 - 13) On Pens On 23rd Sept 2014 by sydney440(m): 9:56pm On Sep 23, 2014

liver make u guys no Bleep up ôoôoooo

NYSC › Re: Corper Precious Died In A Car Crash In Josm (pix) by sydney440(m): 5:00pm On Dec 06, 2013

sobs...RIP dear it hurt so much.....after all those nice time in mangu camp....

NYSC › Re: Batch C Corpers Posted To PLATEAU State Let's Meet Here :D by sydney440(m): 8:31am On Nov 28, 2013

gentlemen corp members........mangu camp sweet me die....

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