sydney440:
There is this girl I love infact I have made up my mind to marry her, I do a lot of good things for her including buying her things and given her money when the need arises. The issue her is that she has not given me anything, though the pay she receive from her working place is not all that much, but I think it doesn't matter the quality of the gift she will give me, all that is affecting me here is that I have not received any gift from her even if it is boxers and singlet. I fill cheated some how, am having the feelings that she don't love me pls my friends what is your advise to me and I know that some of us may have been in to this kind of situation.

bigtt76:
She nor de give you kpekus? Abi which oda gift you for like pass dat #Ungratefulness

Hadeep:

Are you insinuating kpekus is a somewhat gift a girl can only give??
Then what is dick to her

Originalsly:
I thought you said you love her so much that you made up your mind to marry her. Why should you be even worry about her not giving you gifts? Just focus on marrying her and stop thinking rubbish... ....her not loving you but loving your cash and gifts ....after all...you are not the first nor will be the last mumu.

bigtt76:
She nor de give you kpekus? Abi which oda gift you for like pass dat #Ungratefulness

nwakibe:
See comment. And later this one go become person wife. I raise my left yash for you o!

Cutehector:
thank u so much for that answer. Bigtt76 u must be a very selfish girl. Really.

Hadeep:

Are you insinuating kpekus is a somewhat gift a girl can only give??
Then what is dick to her

halfricanadian:
some people dont know how to give she myt love u bt find it hard to giv


See op if u d type dat loves wen a girl gives biko go find ur type dont tolerate any one find who u can appreciate nd not tolerate

CaroLyner:
the question itself gives the impression that you feel slighted and that you deserve reciprocation from your girlfriend.
Gifts are meant to be given selflessly. They are not meant to be given with the expectation of a trade. Some people suck at buying gifts.
Some people don't believe in gifts. Does your girlfriend do things for you that you don't need
her to do, but she does freely because she likes you? Rub your feet? Fetch you a drink? Perhaps she considers those 'gifts' to you.
If this bothers you enough to ask the question,maybe you should talk about this with your girlfriend and see what her outlook is on gifts.

bigtt76:
See hypocrites ....If babe de shower una with gifts now, ona go tok say she wan buy una or say she de spend another man money on top una, if she nor give u gifts na trouble, if she nor gree give ona kpekus na trouble, if she give ona na trouble. If she nor tok dirty na trouble, if she tok dirty na trouble .....oya make ona cast de first stone if all this things I said na lie naaa

sydney440:
There is this girl I love infact I have made up my mind to marry her, I do a lot of good things for her including buying her things and given her money when the need arises. The issue her is that she has not given me anything, though the pay she receive from her working place is not all that much, but I think it doesn't matter the quality of the gift she will give me, all that is affecting me here is that I have not received any gift from her even if it is boxers and singlet. I fill cheated some how, am having the feelings that she don't love me pls my friends what is your advise to me and I know that some of us may have been in to this kind of situation.

HardMirror:

I once dated a corper (a nurse), whe was earning 60k per month besides the 19k allowance making about 79k as a corper, tho I am a working class man and never expected any thing from her, but it was appalling knowing this girl earns something but NEVER for once not even on my birthday buy a pin for me. Some girls are just plain stuupid. Funny thing was I never knew she was even earning anything, I kept giving her money every time thinking all she earned was what other corpers where earning. After her, I dated a girl still searching for job and this girl always buys something when visiting no matter how small it is. To be honest many ladies deserve to be used and dumped, stuupidity is just part of their dna

CaroLyner:
the question itself gives the impression that you feel slighted and that you deserve reciprocation from your girlfriend.
Gifts are meant to be given selflessly. They are not meant to be given with the expectation of a trade. Some people suck at buying gifts.
Some people don't believe in gifts. Does your girlfriend do things for you that you don't need
her to do, but she does freely because she likes you? Rub your feet? Fetch you a drink? Perhaps she considers those 'gifts' to you.
If this bothers you enough to ask the question,maybe you should talk about this with your girlfriend and see what her outlook is on gifts.

SMARTKOSSY:
Una dey even pray b4 una enta NL for morning so?

You dey sleep at all?

HardMirror:

What is this one saying?
I have dated at least 3 girls that never for once bought common orange when visiting. How can you date a guy for a year and NEVER buy even orange of N200 and in the course of that one year the guy has spent over 200k on you? Even if you don't love the guy, any girl with common sense will buy little things for the guy even if it is just to deceive him so she can get more. This is not a matter of the guy expecting anything in return. If you are like that too, change! 100 naira, 500 naira fruits means a lot even to a guy that is a millionaire.

bigtt76:
See hypocrites ....If babe de shower una with gifts now, ona go tok say she wan buy una or say she de spend another man money on top una, if she nor give u gifts na trouble, if she nor gree give ona kpekus na trouble, if she give ona na trouble. If she nor tok dirty na trouble, if she tok dirty na trouble .....oya make ona cast de first stone if all this things I said na lie naaa

HardMirror:

I hope you are just joking here. Even if you don't love the guy, so far you are in a relationship, learn to give. When he loses you, you will always rank high. You will be one of the ladies he will talk about to his friends, praising your person. You are not doing him a favour, most of us don't need your gifts (except hungry guys), but you are making a statement.
You can choose to be one of the low life, hungry girls, or choose to be a lady that has value and shows relevance to people around her.
These days I study ladies before spending on them. Have a side chick I use without apology she knows I have money and always asking for one favor or the other, yet I have never helped her and I will never help her. She has refused to leave because she loves claiming to be my gf (sure it's cos of my house, cars and money). Amazing what girls go thru in the hands of guys with little money (cos I know what I have is little). Stuupid girls

bigtt76:
See hypocrites ....If babe de shower una with gifts now, ona go tok say she wan buy una or say she de spend another man money on top una, if she nor give u gifts na trouble, if she nor gree give ona kpekus na trouble, if she give ona na trouble. If she nor tok dirty na trouble, if she tok dirty na trouble .....oya make ona cast de first stone if all this things I said na lie naaa
Hahahahahaha Nigerians: so because all these happen in some relationship, kpekus authormatically becomes some sort of gift to ur guy.
I guess the guys giving gift , their dick are useless that they prefer giving material things.

sydney440:
sometimes I don't really know how people reason, do you think is easy for a guy to count out his hard earn cash to give a girl...some men don't even give there wife money, even if I want to marry her you that wrote this do you pray to marry a stingy partner...

Originalsly:
Hmmm...let me reason with you. You have fallen in love with the babe and been spending on her... and have already decided that you would marry her. Did you for once ask yourself if she loves you in return? Love is a two way street and here you are ignoring the signs that tell you you are on a one way street....all the love flowing from you to her and none from her to you. Some people are just plain selfish.... they only receive.She is one such person. ... can you change the stripes of a tiger?...that's her nature. If you can be man enough... be like her for 3 weeks... give her nothing and I guarantee you that babe wouldn't even pick your call let alone spend any time with you. You work hard for your money...you should be thinking twice before parting with it. Goldiggers don't come with labels.

Maxity02:
she might just be like that naturally or she just want to be at the receiving side.. some girls r like that, dy find it difficult to reciprocate to things like this..

If I were to be u bro, I will confront her, ask her reasons, find out why she is like that, she might not no u are worried about it, just talking sense in to her..
she might change for good

HardMirror:


I just dey laff. No need talking anything to her. Leave her with her lack of common sense.
How can u be in a relationship and all you do is collect. Lol. I swear I just dey laff.
Na slave some girls suppose be