patani:


Well, I was on and off for about 2years..if you know wat I mean... 2months straight I give perfect performance and then I relapse 1month... I get back on track by excersise n mind control.. But now... I'm just constantly a champion.. Wifey was still sqirting all over son of man yesternight... Heheheh... Anyways, I understand ur fear but don't put him under pressure... Just let him know ur desire.. But before mariage performance is not a criteria as long as the man make desire to improve by not eating junks, exercise and control mind.. Sex is important in mariage but not everything.. Alot of Bleep boys give good sex but will make your life miserable... A good man with proper support n rest of mind will eventually become a champion in bed... Wish you all the best in this journey and remeber there are different phases in marriage. God will see u tru

thanks

patani:



Practice makes perfect... Dont worry.. When you guys get married and u drain him out in few days.. He will start learning aw to delay by using his mind... I used to be like that too before marriage... Now it's wifey that tells me ' you can cum now'�

He should also exercise.. It helps alot...along with his mind... I can hold for 40mins straight with these combination

Really? Thanks. That is a relief. How long did it take you to achieve this?

HarunaWest:

He has to change that herbal ish I guess to something better..But PE is more of a mindset thing though. Try to advice him to take his mind off the fun/feelings whenever you guys are making out cos that's the number culprit. Sexual arousement causes guys sometimes to release fast. Advice him to cut down on sugar,eat more fruits especially watermelon, plantain and vegetables

Thanks for your advice, he is doing all these already but no improvement. Taking his mind off it is very hard, at times he counts out to distract himself but then it makes me feel like he is not really into it and it's a chore.

I need your advise on something that has been bothering me for a while now, I'm a regular here so I created this account just for this purpose.
What is your opinion about a virgin getting married to a guy with premature Ejaculation? Does it have a lot of negative effect on family life? I really want a peaceful and happy marriage free from regrets, I love my Boyfriend and he proposed to me two months ago and now I'm giving serious thought about this issue, we have had no sex in our relationship so far and I would really like to keep it that way until we get married however, he has told me that he noticed he cums very fast and no matter how hard he tries to control it he can't. I didnt pay much attention to it then cause I excused it as inexperience, it's a bother to me now cos curiosity took the better of me and we have been engaging in pre-intimacy without penetration for sometime now and he ejaculates within seconds. He is using some herbal drugs which has made no impact whatsoever.
I dont want to sound insensitive by discussing it and saying my worries however I cant seem to ignore it. So it's just eating away at me, I cant even confide in my close friend about it so Please mature minds in the house, what is the way forward?
I dont want any insults please that is why I brought it to the family section and not romance thread.