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steadygo:
My people, when do we take back our country and build a Nigeria where we can live with dignity? It seems we do not even have the goal to make a great nation for ourselves. Are we of the mindset that the government who has already stolen billions from us and driven us into a kind of poverty many people around the world cannot even comprehend, that this government will now suddenly change? Or are we to wait until our government has stolen everything there is to steal from us, before we then can reclaim the country? It is sad because a man must present this terrible country as his fathers land. Whatever tribe someone is from, I do not think there is any figure in all our histories that has done to our land what these people in charge have done today. All over the world we looked at as mentally colonized victims unable to liberate ourselves. When do we make a great nation for ourselves?

Jester wobblystop stop in action

steadygo:
Good morning, Nairalanders.

Nigeria was ranked a 67.8 average IQ score in 2019 and 91.3 in 2024, lower than the standard average of 100. What are your thoughts on IQ and the methodology used in these studies? Do you think a lower IQ is, in some part, responsible for the state of our country?

Hehe wobblystop

steadygo:
I think monarchy is may be the best system of government. It allows for a leader to dedicate their entire life to serve you whereas in a presidential system, leaders only have a few years in office and can be easily influenced or even installed by the corrupt wealthy individuals. Going deeper, in a monarchy, the current monarch can pick an heir from birth and prepare them from the earliest stage of life to become a capable ruler. The heir also has a first-person view to the reigning monarch's rule; they are able to learn directly, every day, by watching them lead. Monarchy gives us the best prospects for a great leader. What do you think?

Hehe jester wobblystop. Used my wifes account 😂

Tello619:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! FENRIR!😆😆 YOU'VE PICKED UP YOUR BALLS TO COME ONLINE ATTER RUNNING AND HIDING IN SHAME😆😆😆 but still haven't put them together enough to reply me directly huh?🤔 you're still replying me behind the block button? You've been away WEEKS and you still have me blocked? Hmm, shame!
Now after all you did on here trying to frame me with your imaginary inlaws and how I exposed you, making you run away tail between legs, YOU SHAMELESSLY TALK ABOUT HONOR?!?!??
"I have a life outside the forum...'
" Silence this, silence that"
blah blah blah
Oh no you don't!😆 Ever since you've been here you've dropped at least 60 replies per day on this forum, and it just happened that the day you decide to go live that "life" was after I exposed your LIES and DISHONESTY? Hmm🤔
Lol got stabbed in your buttcheeks, had grenades blow up in your face but yet can't stand and face Tello619 after exposing you for framing him😆 and then weeks later, comes back online to talk about honor while sounding all poetic (behind the block button still smh)
To even try and fight evidences, what??! 😆 concrete evidences of your mischief but you think all those speech of absolute bogus can make you look like the good guy?

Tello619 Tello916, I had to use my wifes account since you keep blocking and blaming welll.....

The Weight of Silence

You speak my name as if it gives you power,
but names do not make men — deeds do.
I was shaped where the sea cuts the cliffs and the wind teaches patience.
In that place, we learned that the loudest mouth is often the emptiest hand.

You strike your keys and call it battle.
I have known battle — not the kind fought with words,
but the kind that leaves a man staring at the dawn,
wondering why he is the one who still breathes.
That kind of fire forges silence into strength.

You talk of hiding, of buttons and walls.
I have no need to hide.
I step back because a wolf does not chase sparrows.
He watches, steady and sure, knowing the forest remembers his tread.

Every time you rush to speak, you teach yourself fear.
Every time I choose quiet, I sharpen my will.
That is the difference between noise and command.

My ancestors stand behind me — men and women who built with their hands,
who faced storms without complaint, who understood that honor
is not a story told but a way a man stands when no one is watching.

You can measure yourself in replies if you wish.
I measure myself in restraint, in the weight of words unsaid.
Steel kept cold cuts cleaner when it finally moves.

So know this:
When I speak, it is not to win, it is to remind.
That the world remembers substance, not spectacle.
That truth needs no volume, only clarity.

The block you press is glass.
The silence I hold is granite.
Your noise will pass like wind over stone,
and the stone will remain,
unchanged, unshaken, and older than your memory of it.

I do not stand above you — I stand apart.
And in that distance there is peace,
the kind you cannot touch, only see,
and perhaps, in your quieter moments, envy

We will be blocking in a bit this time

Kdon2:
That's your business and your problem. I don't engage trolls. Go get a life!

showed your IQ there

In4matic:
So you didn't meet Anyone to pay her bride price, so you paid via western union money transfer right?
Or no, you must have credited her Dads Bitcoin wallet.
As I said before, this is an adult discussion.

Im his wife and I told him I didn't want the bride price paid I find it insulting that our families use marriage to profit from us. Gotta go, putting our child to bed.

goran3310:
You must work hard.

You are not white. You are just a white wannabe, or you would have made that video call with my husband instead of blocking him to avoid it. But do have a pleasant evening 😊

goran3310:
You still continue to write unimportant things and you just need to post the most ordinary picture of your hand with the time and date. Tell me why you lie about being white and try to smear white people with your disgusting behavior? Because you want to be white and of course you can't and then you spit on them. Being white is not a matter of skin color. Being white is something much more. Much more. 🙂

My husband will be back shortly. He got banned for basically nothing Mr much more.

makahlj2:
Why this whataboutism? Arabs' sins don't negate the sins of the northern albinoids.

The pink race was the only one that made an industry from slavery.

The pink race was the only one that made science approving of slavery.

The pink race was the only one whose religion approved of slavery.

They only "stopped by choice" because they felt God's wrath was soon going to be unleashed against them.

Don't you understand that the pink men hold an eternal grudge against normal black people because we once expelled them from Mother Africa, only for their own good, due to their mutated albino skin not good enough to protect against the UV rays from the life-giving Sun? They will always conspire to oppress the blackman, to hold him back, to enslave him, to make him extinct and take his land.

You call me poorly educated; yes I am, because I was educated in schools that teach what the pink man tells them to, a bunch of flawed, outdated and outright false "knowledge" designed to hold us ignorant forever.

What do you think Arabs enslaved us for? Tickle fights and panty parades?
All slavery was a form of industry from just different forms of labor and it's not exclusive to 1 race. Do your research, Africans took whites first

makahlj2:
Why this whataboutism? Arabs' sins don't negate the sins of the northern albinoids.

The pink race was the only one that made an industry from slavery.

The pink race was the only one that made science approving of slavery.

The pink race was the only one whose religion approved of slavery.

They only "stopped by choice" because they felt God's wrath was soon going to be unleashed against them.

Don't you understand that the pink men hold an eternal grudge against normal black people because we once expelled them from Mother Africa, only for their own good, due to their mutated albino skin not good enough to protect against the UV rays from the life-giving Sun? They will always conspire to oppress the blackman, to hold him back, to enslave him, to make him extinct and take his land.

You call me poorly educated; yes I am, because I was educated in schools that teach what the pink man tells them to, a bunch of flawed, outdated and outright false "knowledge" designed to hold us ignorant forever.

Western science or worship?
What cures the most illness and sickness?
False knowledge indeed.

makahlj2:
OP, I presume you're Swedish?

It seems you consider your people and the Brits to be the same race. And you might be justified thinking so, because you do indeed tend to look similar. But... looks can be deceptive.

Need I remind you that around 1800 Swedes (and Germans, and others) weren't considered white in the USA and the British colonies?

No, my husband is Norwegian, but his family is Norwegian-Swedish-Danish mixed however its quite funny that the people on here keep saying he's attacking race when you are the ones that keep mentioning it 🤔

Tello916:
Maybe I have a problem and it's not knowing when to stop...
This would've made sense if your husband was the one playing defense and I was playing offense
Your husband is so hellbent on villainizing and projecting his views so bad that anyone who tries to address his ignorance automatically becomes guilty to him.
Nobody enjoys getting bundled up in the same basket of negativity... Nobody would stand and watch someone else project their myopic views and opinions on an entire demographic with frequent manipulated AI information-

Your husband is playing offense
I'm the one playing defense
How does someone playing offense becomes the victim that needs defending? Especially when they're the one who threatened to infringe on another's privacy... All over a childish debate online that doesn't threaten the safety of both parties no matter how long it lasts
Fighting a good fight but fighting it the wrong way. Ragebaiting and villainizing just about anyone who reacts to it and when engaged in a prolonged debate, starts to make cyber stalking threats and needing a spouse to assist.
It be like those spoilt brat treatment;

Brat hits a stranger with a dangerous object
Stranger stops the hit and holds firmly
Brat cries to mom nearby
Mom tells stranger to let go off the object and allow to be hit

You said yourself those 2 topics were dead and empty so you went out of your way to start problems in something that was buried.
He was banned for almost a full month but did he make a 2nd account? Has anyone else on here been devious and made a 2nd account to get around restrictions?
What nairaland should do is have the spam bots to search for duplicate accounts, since you've said multiple times you made that duplicate account specifically to get around restrictions to specifically to antagonise him then try to act like vitcim who's been attacked. You've been twisting most of what he's been saying anyway as you do with most opinions you dont like. You've taken things he has no problems with, and using those to attempt to continue the argument, you seem to be the most feminine male in this country

Tello916:
My 2 accounts are meant for a simple reason
If I get restricted in one I go to the other and correct the blacklisted words that caused my first restrictions so I can pass my messages across because I hate that I can't say my mind because of restrictions so I opened 1 more account and rearranged my username pattern so that at least I'm recognizable
Tello619
Tello916
What else will I need an extra account for?

And why do I even keep replying you when I said I won't
Please Mrs Fenrir I don't want to argue with you- my beef isn't with you, you didn't do nothing to warrant a reaction
You're just defending your husband and I'm defending well-meaning Nigerian men out there that are being dragged into the mess of the other narcissistic ones for no reason
You probably have important things to care for in your home. Childish argument online is most definitely not one of them so I adjure you with all due respect and sincerity of heart that I'm not interested in doing this beef with you in particular
Plus i didn't block your husband ma! Please stop saying I did😐 I just woke up and poof! Everything was blank. Why will I want to block someone if I even created another account because of them to bypass the restrictions and drop my own point of argument by all means because I never back away from an argument that I'm right to defend
Please...
I'm serious this time
I've removed my hand from your replies
Thanks and goodbye

Talking to me like im some kind of housewife and the only important things a woman can do are in the house? The more you talk the more he seems to be correct about you. Secondly, what makes you think he sent me? Im with my aunt in enugu with our daughter, and he's out fishing somewhere in Port Harcourt. Since you and South African man blocked him, he can't see what im posting but I'll defend him because he's a man of good morals and good ethics that loves to his core and would kill to protect me.

AngelicBeing:
Succinctly put, l wonder as well why he keeps responding to both of them, he should ignore them , like l and several others have done on this thread, l don't even quote the Guy ( The Op of The thread) but l pass my messages here in parables , as soon as l discovered that the guy na jugunu and kulikuli guy, l completely ignored him and l started posting in parables, he has tried to engage me several times but l ignored him.

Meanwhile, let me start packing my bags for my trip to North Korea this week, l have a dinner date with the sister of North Korea President , after that, l am heading to the Amazon forest in Brazil to kill 200 lions with my bare hands and after that l will be meeting with Donald Olawale Chinedu Ibrahim Trump PBUH SWT SAW to start my preparation for another 30 PhD program at Harvard University in the US . Hahahaha Muchecheche 😂

And you are just spiteful for the sake of it. You and miss Samantha are complete opposites, she likes to sit back and watch drama but still instigates rational discourse and debate you however are an antagonist.

Tello916:
My 2 accounts are meant for a simple reason
If I get restricted in one I go to the other and correct the blacklisted words that caused my first restrictions so I can pass my messages across because I hate that I can't say my mind because of restrictions so I opened 1 more account and rearranged my username pattern so that at least I'm recognizable
Tello619
Tello916
What else will I need an extra account for?

And why do I even keep replying you when I said I won't
Please Mrs Fenrir I don't want to argue with you- my beef isn't with you, you didn't do nothing to warrant a reaction
You're just defending your husband and I'm defending well-meaning Nigerian men out there that are being dragged into the mess of the other narcissistic ones for no reason
You probably have important things to care for in your home. Childish argument online is most definitely not one of them so I adjure you with all due respect and sincerity of heart that I'm not interested in doing this beef with you in particular
Plus i didn't block your husband ma! Please stop saying I did😐 I just woke up and poof! Everything was blank. Why will I want to block someone if I even created another account because of them to bypass the restrictions and drop my own point of argument by all means because I never back away from an argument that I'm right to defend
Please...
I'm serious this time
I've removed my hand from your replies
Thanks and goodbye

So the fact you made a second account and admit yourself it's to bypass restrictions shows exactly how little honesty and how devious you are.
You attacked him over the bride price when that was never his issue.
You attacked him over his skin and tried to twist it into him attacking our race when he's travelled the whole continent and only has issues with 2 countries and the main problems he has with Nigeria are all the lies and abuse mainly caused by our own relatives.
Look at his first topic. He was only seeking advice to bypass it in a polite way instead of doing it his way, and the only thing he is guilty of on here is causing a little mischief. You blocked him to make him into an enemy.

Tello916:
Ma'am, I'm not going to involve you in the argument I had with your husband cuz what type of husband sends his wife to reply someone he's arguing with online but I'm gonna keep on saying this;
Your husband is the one who blocked me😐
I replied all his bullshhh and called him out about something specific that exposes his dishonesty and proves him to be manipulator and deceiver; I went to bed and the following morning I came online... he disappeared from my end😐 and as it's the first time being blocked by someone since I recently joined Nairaland, I asked other people under this thread if they can still see him just to to be sure if I was blocked or he deactivated his account.
And I made a second account because I'm not a scarety cat. I hate getting restricted from replying without passing my message across first and I did that because I was ready to face your husband on this topic till forever😐
Your husband is the one who said a while back that he was going to "...open a new account and drop this one" just to get rid of me
He's the one who threatened to infringe on my privacy just to scare me to silence
He's the one who blocked me cuz I called him out and exposed his deceit
He's the one who sent his wife afterwards to fight me and pretend he didn't know he blocked me
STOP THE STUPID LIES
I didn't block him! I just woke up to a blank mention and realize I couldn't see him😐
He mentioned me and block me so that I'm not able to reply his bullshhh
I'm going to be here waiting for him to unblock me😐

You are the one that's lied multiple times, saying he attacked race. But that was you and you are the one that has multiple accounts 🤔 I wonder why that is. You lied and said he attacked Africans and lastly he doesn't know what im doing on here he cant see what im replying to because you blocked him

Tello916:
Your husband said the N-word because he has ginger hair. He didn't use the one with -a he used the one with -er
He also said something about us trying to be like white people because we Africans watch Hollywood movies. Just because I took a break to watch a nice Hollywood movie with my family
He also called the Yoruba language gibberish because someone here exclamated in Yoruba language
At least for the love of his wife, isn't he supposed to tone down on the horrible things he says about his wife's people, country, race, culture, language?
How would he feel if you talk trash about his skinfolks and ethnicity?
I know you want to defend your marriage and husband, so. I won't blame you or try to pitch you against him. But... Please don't come into this. If he's the one that sent you please tell him you're not interested in baseless online arguments

No, he's right. Most people in our country are liars and you're the one that keeps bringing up race and skin, not him. His problems with Nigeria are the traditions and all the lies around them and how our men use that as an excuse to control and in marriage after. His problems with south Africa as skin based because the 3 times he visited he was immediately attacked over his skin

Tello916:
Good morning, Mrs Fenrir
one last thing;
Can you tell your husband to stop pretending like he isn't the one who blocked me?😆 I just discovered that I can log out and view this thread as a guest and I'm seeing him acting as if he doesn't know what he just did...
And even pretending😆😆
I addressed all his bullshhh and slept off, waking up in the morning and BOOM! I'm blocked and can't view him
Blocking me and pretending to not know what he did 😆 such a little boy blue
That's very cowardly-
Show him this
Have a nice day Mrs Fenrir

You did block him. He's been on here since December with no issues he points out that you have multiple accounts, and all of a sudden, your posts vanish from his view, and this is exactly his point about Nigerian men

Tello916:
I don't want to pitch you against your husband
My argument wasn't with you
I know you want to defend him and you have every right to but your husband isn't anyway attacked. He's literally playing the offense here while I'm the one playing the defense
He's painting EVERY Nigerian men bad by force ignoring the fact that many also share in his sentiment and they should not be attacked also because they're simply "Nigerian men"
What about well meaning fathers in Nigeria who look out for their wives and daughters and would crush anyone who get too close to them to powder? What about well meaning Nigerian men who would do anything to defend the defenseless women out there even if it means to fight their fellow man? What about our fathers who were our fallen superheroes?
He wants Nigerian men to look bad generally which is wrong! And when I tried to correct him he projected it on me too like what the hell?!!
He ecen went ahead to say that's how to catch an offender
Say ALL Nigerian men are offenders
And then anyone who says "not all Nigerian men are offenders" is an offender
So what are we supposed to do? Be quiet and watch him insult ALL of us because of the narcissistic douchebags out there?
Mrs Fenrir, please my argument is not with you. I don't advise wives getting involved in the baseless arguments their husbands get into online
Not cool and not right
Thanks

Hmm
See how you confirmed that he hasn't attacked our race or Africa? He's attacked men here and south Africa the 2 countries he's been attacked in

Tello916:
Are you his wife? If yes, then maybe you're subjected to defending your marriage and I won't blame you for that but to say he didn't attack our race! You're wrong plus I didn't block him, he blocked me😆
He did that because i called him out about manipulating the research he makes to back his allegations and also wanting to cyber stalk me as a threat😆 he wants to pry into my private life and know my name age location and personal stuff. Why? Because he can't stick. To an argument without taking it personal and acting like a agitated teenager

You are twisting things and I would be careful if I was you He's already found out where you are