rman:


Of course there is nothing wrong online. In real life, they are sad and lonely no matter other achievement. If you are indeed close to any in real life, they will tell you the truth. Dem plenty for my organization.

There are many sad, lonely and miserable married women in your Organisation as well. They just can't tell you.

ekemini606:


Quit being too strong, its not a woman quality.
Moreover no one talks about career when they are 50
You simply just look at your friends kid and wish you had given it more go.

You are giving work/career more meaning and importance than they where originally intended to have

She didn't say anything about career, she said she would rather remain single than marry someone who thinks he is doing her a favor by marrying her. If you are marrying someone it should be out of love and genuine respect.

MizMyColi:
The desperation to get married comes from a place of incompleteness, a sense of lack and a total disconnect from one's worth and value.

I will rather remain unmarried and keep on being the best I can be, while ensuring that I fulfil my life's inner purpose....than get hitched with someone who thinks he's doing me a favour.
To hell with that kind of mentality and God forbid!

Well, thankfully, that's not the case

I share your views. Society puts so much pressure on women to get married or die trying, meanwhile a huge percentage of the ones married are miserable. My goal in life is to be truly happy for as long as I live. I am single and genuinely happy and I would rather remain that way than marry anyone who will reduce my level of happiness.

I do miss Nigeria and want to come home, You leave and hope things will get better but they simply get worse. WHY? common road. I see pictures like this and i rethink. What did Nigerians do to deserve all this nonsense from leaders?

ademoladeji:


Dunno if you're married sha buh what I know is that 'WOMEN' can be so frustrating...


Yes! The VOW must be kept... Why not ask our clergy why they who preach fidelity couldn't even keep it?


Adultery is forbidden by Christianity and Islam... We shld pray to God to keep us aright.

Pray and act in accordance with the prayer. If more people, both husbands and wives pray for strength to resist temptations instead money and binding witches, probably they will do the right thing. I am not asking a clergy because i know the answer. He is an imperfect human and can make mistakes. As soon as he minds the flesh and not the spirit his big long gown will not prevent him from sinning against God.

Why confront a side chick? Did she make a VOW to you? Confront the person who promised to be your faithful loving spouse.

ademoladeji:


I'm not supporting evil ooooo...


We shldnt just condemn sm1 for practising an evil act rather we shld try to know why and what led to the practice.


There are lotta factors that decide infidelity in relationships and marriages.

I believe you know better sha...

Is she allowed to have a side bobo when you fail? Why not divorce the woman and move on to the new unfailing woman? The marriage vows are meaningless when you start having side things. To me that is more honorable.

ORALL:


If the man should get a prison term after accusing the woman of insulting him..that totaly unfair to me..but should it be another minor issues,then I have nothing to say about that...my prob is women verbally abusing men and going scot free

Can't he verbally abuse her in return? em mouth burn?

sauceTDA:
I go beat her if she acts stupid.

Who beats you when you act stupid?

Deleayo88:

Check the stats of rape incidents in each country on Wikipedia...

I really don't get your point but i just checked Wiki and the opening sentence is; "Statistics on rape and other sexual assaults are commonly available in advanced countries, and are becoming more common throughout the world". You know the stats are based on reported cases right? In underdeveloped countries women are ashamed to report this crime because they are blamed for it and stigmatized. So even if the stats show Sweden as number one, that is not necessarily reality.

Deleayo88:
Can rape ever be stopped or its rate minimized....? The honest answer/truth is NO.
As long as ladies and women are still putting on provocative wears: exposing their cleavages and laps, wearing revealing dresses and so many other ways that is capable of distorting the mind of and average non-God fearer.
Ladies and anti-rape activists should stop deceiving themselves and hit the nail on the head by encouraging GOOD and GODLY dressing for all.
Many times I have seen single and married ladies going to worship houses, offices, malls and so on putting on mini skirts, exposing cleavages and all sort of that. Why have our women found it so hard to Cover up and stop putting on figure-revealing dresses that is capable of encouraging an idle mind to assault sexually.
We all should take a clue from the Catholic sisters' and practicing Muslim lady's mode of dressing. God's policies/instructions for human are to make our lives easier and now that we've deviated and following our own way, rape is the result.
We should stop these hypocrisies and face the truth.
#myopinion

I do not support immodest dressing but your argument is one sided. Even with all the covering in the Muslim world, rape still exists. what about those who molest 2yr olds or underage? will you blame it on tight pampas? Anyone who forces himself on another sexually is sick and needs to be locked up away from normal people.

Tex42:
Obviously, boko haram is not the only brain sick and demented group on rampage, as some circus oloshos have joined the bandwagon.

Sadly, the country is bereaved of sophisticated psychiatric specialists and facilities, otherwise, this one(side chick) won't be walking amongst the sane let alone the access to a boss privilege (phone) to spew trash at the sane.

It's very appalling that a young lady would befriend a married man and still Summon the guts from God knows which shrine to troll the wife on a social network. And tomorrow when she starts pulling her hairs and picking rags on the streets, her relatives cries victimization and blames the devil.

Laughably, she made mention of being ready for karma when it strikes, when she is already a roasted pork on karma's table. This babe is just another lady on a fast lane to her inexistence.

As for the man,well! How do u blame a dog whose faculty of reasoning has been polarized on the line of the disposition of his third leg?...na mumu him be.

Dear wife, pls stop dignifying the 'dustbin class' of ur hubby's side chick and cast your energy on winning back your man.

Before she wins him like lottery, let her check for STDS and write a will.