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Bundesliga is really really getting interesting this season, no more Bayern Munich monopoly.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
nope sir

Alright, you actually said you wanted to learn more that's why I asked you.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
not quite really, i was just particularly drawn to the post of the moment vis a viz the exceptional performance of Lukaku

Alright then, I appreciate the complement once again. Do you have any where you do reporting? Even if not in sports.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Sir i love your style of writing/reporting.
i want to be like you. can you please show me how.

WOW!!! I really feel honoured a great deal! have you been following my posts?

Harry Kane. Wetin concern you

Everton's Lukaku went on rampage in Saturday's victory over Bournemouth as Everton defeated Eddie Howe's side even though Bournemouth attempted a comeback.

Romelu Lukaku had a huge share of six goals scored by Everton and went atop the English Premier League scoring charts with former joint top-scorers, Diego Costa and Alexis Sanchez failing to score earlier on Saturday.

How many goals did Lukaku contribute in Bournemouth's demolition >>> https://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/everton-6-3-bournemouth-lukaku-goes.html

raph101:
flat head.... who is silly?

You! Yes you.

Tottenham's striker, Harry Kane has sent a message to Manchester United boss, Jose Mourinho concerning his national team-mate, Marcus Rashford.

What message does he have concerning his national team-mate to Jose >>> http://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/harry-kane-sends-message-to-mourinho.html

WOW

The Contenders for the Manager of the Month in the English Premier League for the month of January, 2017 have been revealed.

Will Antonio Conte (who won the Manager of the Month for a record three times in a row) be able to retain it for the fourth time. Find out if the Chelsea boss is nominated. Also find the full four-man nominees here >>> http://footballgisttoday..com/2017/02/premier-league-manager-of-month-january.html

Also find the list of the nominees for the Player of the Month for January here >>> https://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/premier-league-player-of-month-january.html

On Friday, 3rd February, 2017, the five-man nominees for the EA SPORTS Player of the Month have been released for the five players who stood out in their performances in the English Premier League for the month of January.

Find out the full list of the nominees below::: Who will be crowned the Premier League's Player of the Month for the Month of January >>> https://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/premier-league-player-of-month-january.html

Also find the nominees for the Manager of the Month for January here >>> https://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/premier-league-manager-of-month-january.html

Ovie56:
yes your blog needs traffic. but you're trying too hard

Really How am I trying too hard

Segadem:
hehehe, do u think racism is all about colour?

No min ham, as if he's mentioned any African amnongst them. Because they are black in skin, does it make them blacks

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Ronaldo!!

peterd53:
see as u embarrass urself @ d other thread, u calling sumone who use black players lyk sterling,alves,abidal,fernandinho,Gabriel et al a racist. u beta go nd find Sumone close to u 2 lecture u on dat

Baba cool down oh, no be me call ham racist, but he's shown traits of that by his continuous treatment of Yaya Toure in Barcelona and Man City

Bimpe29:
You were a bit not sentimental while commenting on the quoted reply. But, it was apparent while reacting to mine.
You are advised to read with open mind and high level of objectivity. Your pain was the mention of Islam/Sharia.
You are properly guided.

Oh Because Sharia is an irritating normal. Agreed, I might have appeared sentimental, but I didn't support her view directly, I said nurses being present will help the situation, but not totally. it'll only partly curtail wrong acts like handling and etc. The person said it can't be completely curtailed except it's a female doctor in charge which isn't wrong. How then have I been Sentimental

Bimpe29:
And you look like one.

Look like what pls

The Gunners sit third in the table, nine points behind Antonio Conte's league leaders following Tuesday's shock defeat to Watford.

Pires, who won two Premier League titles during his time at Arsenal and was part of the 'Invincibles' squad of 2003/04, believes Alexis Sanchez and Mesut Ozil will be crucial to keeping the title race alive but has stated that the Gunners have only one last chance.

What and when is Arsenal's last chance Find out more >>> https://footballgisttoday..com/2017/02/robert-pires-arsenal-have-their-last.html

chichichilolo1:
But he played him in games prior to the coming of this Jesus guy

Really Shey na you put him in the games right

Bimpe29:
I read and appreciated the write up. This has been a daily occurrence and one need to be wary so as not to fall a victim, be it in a Hospital or elsewhere.
However, Am truly happy and sure that, this among other things are impossible and guarded against by Islam. Because, it is a male for male and female for female; patient and doctor respectively.
While, there is no absolute Sharia Law in force in our country, we may try to apply its provision to the best of our abilities.
Ensure your spouse visit a clinic with both sexes as its staff, ascertain that the same sex attend to him or her.
We really need to be on top of our lives as morality and sincerity and fading.

What you've said is thrash jarey. We're talking of professionalism and not any Sharia law

raph101:
Fabio contrao

Says who Read the post and drop your comment either than being silly.

thorpido:
It's the standard practice.Sometimes people just don't do what they are supposed to do.

It is sha well

Nowenuse:
Does it really make a difference?

Unless only a female doctor attends to and examines female patients.

It should make a little difference, though it won't stop the doctor from seeing 'wrong things.'

Ronaldo on Thursday revealed who he feels are one of the toughest defenders in world football.

Cristiano Ronaldo regularly comes up against the best defenders in the world but the Real Madrid star has revealed a particular trouble.

Find out who >>> https://footballgisttoday..com.ng/2017/02/cristiano-ronaldo-reveals-one-of-worlds.html

thorpido:
How will you examine?with clothes on?
Most examinations are done with a nurse present,so it's not like a hidden thing.

Lol, na so... But al these stories above, why isn't a nurse compulsorily present It is supposed to be mandatory in all hospitals like seriously.

Was actually very surprised when I read it, I didn't know doctors have so much liberty up to examining women bare. It is well ooo... Women are't safe at all, married ones inclusive

Thrash post, they are both in the squad

There are certain people you must not hide the truth from. They are not your spouse, parents or family members, yet, your relationship with them is so crucial such that you are bound to tell them the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, at all times, if your plan is to get the best out of the relationship. Indeed, whatever you say to them at any point can have great implications on your life and the opportunities they have to offer you. Your Doctor and your Lawyer are believed to be the closest individuals and professionals to you because of the services they offer.

In fact, these two people may be likened to the Catholic Priest who listens to the confessions of the faithful, counsels them and dispatches them back into the world, to go and sin no more. It is to them that we run, when we suspect that there is trouble. We believe so much in them and their competence, that we swallow everything they offer us hook, line and sinker, without questions. Thus, we tend to lower our natural guard when dealing with them as the relationship is based on trust. Their competence to get us out of our bad situation is never in doubt, unless they inform us otherwise or something goes wrong for unexplainable reasons.

Their strategic importance to us informs many people’s decision to keep them as close as possible, even on retainer for a fee. No doubt the inefficiency of government to provide adequate health care facilities for citizens has also forced us to embrace medical practitioners like beautiful brides. Unfortunately, a few of them may be found wanting. God forbid that you come across one who will betray that trust.

When Wunmi met Lanre, a doctor in one of the government hospitals about two years ago, everyone was convinced it was a perfect match. The love between them was obvious for everyone to see. So, it was a great surprise when Wunmi suddenly announced that she was no longer interested in the relationship. According to her, she was sure she did not have the temperament to be a doctor’s wife. She said she was not comfortable with the fact that he got to meet and be with women, young and old, all day long. This had caused her to develop a complex of sort.

Whenever they were together, she could not stop herself from asking about the women. How many he examined that day? If they were beautiful or not? Did he see their bum or boobs and if he enjoyed touching them or lusted after them? She said he was always cool about his responses and would sometimes gist her about any strange thing he noticed about the women. Rather than amuse her, his stories only infuriated her the more. Despite all the assurances that Lanre gave that he did not consider the women as real, but mere specimens or mannequins to work with, Wunmi said she was convinced that he was not being truthful. And so while many of us thought that wedding bells were about to start chiming, Wunmi dropped a bombshell on us. She’d called off the relationship as she was sure she could not cope.

From the accounts of many women, victims and witnesses alike, it is obvious that some doctors sometimes fall short of their calling, succumbing to the lure of the female flesh. Many incidents of abuse, molestation and indecent proposals abound from patients’ accounts of their unwholesome experiences in the hands of some medical practitioners. I don’t have the statistics of the number of male and female doctors in Nigeria but it is obvious that there are more men than women, either in private or government practice.

Thus, most women get to meet male doctors most of the time. Some can be randy and a few outrightly dirty, unprofessional and unscrupulous. While one cannot dismiss the possibility of an attraction or mutual chemistry between opposite sexes, there are also cases of doctors taking advantage of their patient’s situation to get into their heads, minds and eventually their pants. It is only normal that a doctor will examine a patient based on the complaint before him. Given the laxity and level of corruption in the society, one may not be surprised to find ENT doctors asking patients to strip down to their underwear for examination.

But, honestly speaking, it must take great discipline and grace for a full grown, virile man to sit across a table and view, (not imagine oh,) women of various shapes, colours and sizes walk in, strip to various levels of UnCloth, run his hands and fingers all over them and sometimes through them, then watch them dress up again and walk out as if nothing had happened! Though this is what is called professionalism and a relationship based on trust, but isn’t the fact that some of these doctors are sometimes found wanting makes them human and vulnerable too? Wunmi’s fears may not be totally unfounded, truth be told.

Mrs. Gomez, a teacher and mother of two children lost her husband (not to death), but to a female nurse, widow and mother of five children who worked in the same office as her husband, a doctor.

There are salacious stories of Doctor versus Nurse romance in most hospital circles, the night shifts and emergency calls may not necessarily be serious duty calls sometimes. But while that may not be classified as a breach of trust since similar things also go on in other work environments, stories of doctors manipulating the situation of patient into unholy alliances sure are.

Susan, one of my young lady friends recently narrated a personal experience with their family doctor to me. She never knew that the old man, same age with her father, had eyes for her until she approached him for a favour. She was in her second year in the University and had fallen victim to peer pressure and unmanaged independence, when she found herself pregnant. Stranded because she did not have a boyfriend she could turn to for support and she was not sure she wanted to subject herself to the offers of her friends, she decided to turn to the only competent and reliable doctor she’d known almost all her life.

On establishing that her story was correct, he assured her of his willingness to assist without informing her parents but only on the condition that he also ‘tops’ the pregnancy. She said he hit the nail straight on the head and told her that since she was already pregnant, there was no fear of another pregnancy taking place. Once through, he would evacuate everything for her at no cost. Further boxing her into a corner, he told her she was free to walk away if she did not want him, but he could not guarantee his silence on the matter to her parents.

She left and met him two days later at a designated hotel in town where he confessed he’d had his roving eyes and dirty mind on her for a very long time. He bailed her out and they continued to meet secretly until a couple of months ago as she is now getting set for matrimony. Neither of their families and church members have a clue of what went down between them.

It is advised that you keep your secret to yourself as you can never be sure of the intentions of the person you divulge it to, but how much of your medical problem can you keep from your family doctor? If Susan was young and gullible, the same cannot be said of Funke, 49, mother of four teenage children who also got a proposition from their family doctor recently. “It must have stemmed from the fact that he is aware that my husband and I have not had a sex life for a long time now due to his illness. He probably thought I was sex starved and would fall into his arms like a pack of cards.

My husband has serious Prostate problems but its well under control now. Doctor Seye has been our family doctor for over 10 years now. We are well acquainted with each other’s families though not intimately. So, I was surprised by his actions. He is fond of making small, dirty jokes but I had never given it serious thought. So, one day I walked in to complain about some sharp pains in my stomach. He asked me to lie down and as we were talking he asked me if I was examining my breasts regularly. I told him yes but he being an expert could also check for me since I was already on his table anyways. So, I took off my bra and he commenced his examination. But, soon I realised that it was no longer an examination as he kept handling my breasts and kneading my nipples.

Though he was still talking as if he was doing a serious professional job, I noticed that his breathing had changed. I got angry and turned my face away, determined to teach him a lesson by ignoring him. Whatever his intention was, it was impossible that he would rape me in his office. We remained like that for a few minutes then suddenly I felt his hand on my skirt and grabbed it. I did not need to say a word but he got my message. He stepped back, apologised and asked me to dress up, walking back to his table. I could see the huge bulge in his trousers. He wrote out his report, then walked round the table again to stand over me. I quickly stood up and grabbed my bag. Then he laughed and said, “madam, e stubborn sha!”. I took my file and walked out. I called him later that night and gave him a piece of my mind and he apologised. We are still using his services as I never told my husband bout it. Now, whenever I am there, there is always a Nurse in attendance.

WRITTEN BY Yetunde Arebi

Source: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/01/escapades-doctors-duty/

Toyin001:
WOW, I really love this rating!!! UP ARSENAL!!!