I think that there comes a point in every one of our lives were we ask ourselves whether we will ever meet that someone who will love us "unconditionally" but when we pass a certain age we realise that it is better to get married for a friendship than for love. Love is too unpredictable so why not marry a friend?

My question would be, why do they leave their wives behind in the 1st place

Men forgetting their families/wives is a general problem especially amongst Africans it is NOT only Nigerian men with this problem.

i just read them for interest sake, but i do not let them rule my life.

i do believe in horoscopes to some extent, but i do not let them rule my life!

Personaly, I think women don't view marriage as a career anymore. more and more women out there are trying to break into what was previously known as male dominated careers hence more of their time is dedicated in that arena. As more women are climbing up the corporate ladder most average male species are intimidated in asking them out, that might be one of the reasons why they find love late in their lives

I think dat if both partners love, trust and are faithful to one another the relationship should work out just fine,  we should not 4get dat we are only human, staying away 4 too looooong might make the other partner to be tempted to do "things" dat may break up the relationship.

@ Lusky: thank you for the fore warning, thats y I hav made this post to ask for asssistance. so you dont know any good bros in Gauteng?

@ K9, I live in Johannesburg so Cape Town is pretty far, thanks though.
@ Illusion, I hav sent u an email with my details, check it out.

I think its pathetic dat u dnt hav anyting beta 2 talk abt except 4 da fact dat u got laid same day. lots of guys get laid same day do u see dem advertsing it? D only cheap person i c here its u!

I also do not comprehend please explain in lamen terms

@ dirax, more power to you, i must say you have guts because not a lot of people will be honest as to why they are here. Good luck and I hope you will meet someone special.

@ free, please share the joke, what's the laugh all about 

@ iice, i find that the icy cold shoulder also works wonders lol.

if you go look at you email messages, i have already sent you an email

Well I am abusing my company's resources  my mail addy is Tshepi12@gmail.com you did see that I am in RSA

What I usually do is to walk away, because if you stick around, someone is bound to say sumting hurtful to another (words hurt more than being beaten), so walk away till you cool down then talk about it.

Anyone Know Good Nigerian Brothers in SA
I would appreciate being "hooked up" as in being friends with them.

Hi, well you can holla at me any time!

In which field do you specialise in?