₦airaland Forum

To be honest, you made a stupid move. You don't love someone and sleep with someone else outside. That's absolute bullshit. It's in two ways. It's either you really dont love your gf or you're just a shity guy and your gf made a wrong choice.

Ok, so here is my advice. Truth always prevail. 3 things cannot be hidden, the sun, the moon, and the truth. If you dont tell your gf the truth now about Lola and she finds out later on her own. It is going to be disastrous.

There's something called the power of love and you should leave the decision to your gf to decide. Tell her either she breaks up with you, get angry within a few months or years and then come back......or all depends on how she takes it.....well you know your gf better.

Telling her lifts a burden off your neck and gives you peace at least cos that child can't be hidden forever. I know you think this is a hard decision to make but guess that....its the best decision that will save you a whole lot of trouble.

And be a responsible father before Lola tells your kid how you denied him/her after getting her pregnant.

tolajay:
My brethen, brace up yourselves. Upwork is upon you if you're using a phony (foreign) account.

My new US account which is barely 1 week old has been marked for video verification. Apparently, I'm still a Nigerian male with a virtual US feminine citizenship.

Na so the account go ooo with my expected 15 dollars.

Don't worry upwork will let you pull out your $15 without any hinderance.
I use a U.S. account too and I got the video verification problem and I initiated a video call with them. Of course it's my picture but a U.S. account. I was referred to Skype and I was asked my location and I told the truth "I am in Nigeria at the moment". And under 10mins my account was active. So just say the truth. In fact, after the video verification you could change you picture again to a white picture but I strongly advice against that. You might never know what issues you fall into again. Things you should note for the video chat....You would be asked for your upwork address, your zip code, your full name and what country you are in (I just said I just landed in Nigeria some minutes ago. Just answer as bold as you can and you would be free.