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andromida: You wanted to know so just helping to unravel the mystery behind her actions. I am nice like that

Lol.. You're Harsh like that :p

andromida: How do you know she had no interest in you whatsoever because her present actions contradict what you are saying? Perhaps you mis communicated your intentions?

Lmfao.. unbelievable.. You seem so bent on making it a point and I enabled her.

andromida: You flirted with the gyal, gave suggestive compliments she thought you liked her when she now showed green light you are complaining again.

How will she be happy about your girlfriend when she thought you guys were building something?

What do you want sef?

Choii, Smh. You don't get it .. When I was interested in the girl I made example of,she had no interest in me whatsoever, I was invincible to her. showing green light when I'm not interested anymore is useless.

Building which something sef. you build something with someone in sync with you.. she wasn't wimme.

It was a simple question I asked tho .. was hoping to get opinions.

firstEVA: maybe if you didn't flirt with her, all the sudden interest wont have occurred dont you think so?

Again,I didn't flirt with her.. I didn't Even write that in the most ... You must think that it's always the guys enabling the girls . That the girls are the victims right?

Hibiscuss: You wrote this epistle cos of a girl? Broz you need deliverance.

Oya Nau T.B Joshua .. Lol

firstEVA: Because the guys who are already dating have refused to focus on their dates

you have a girl friend, you are giving another girl green light, the girl then falls in love with you, you now come here to ask jamb questions

Lol.. did you read anything that said I gave greenlight? plus you're just talking like that cos you're a girl.. the way some guys would still blame the girl. ... so,no need to be bitter

Lol.. True sha.. Better to take what's groomed already than to do all the grooming.

Having a girlfriend is a big deal for some people. Like no one else matters anymore. They're off the market.
It works for a lot of people though. The faithfulness clause. They can hold on,stand strong. But some people don't always get it though. Sometimes being in a relationship goes beyond having just that one wonderful amazingly imperfect girlfriend.
Sometimes they are other 'parties' involved. Other girls,and sometimes there isn't really much that could be done about them. They are usually Old flames or some girls that just decided to confess their 'Love' for you.
I had a similar experience recently though. This girl I always tried to flirt with,give suggestive complements but she always acted clueless like I was singing John Legend's all of me to a deaf girl. But as soon as she found out I was in a relationship, all of a sudden she started to start up conversations and showed more interest, but she always asked about my girlfriend in a way that showed she wasn't particularly happy she was asking me.
Then a Day came and she confessed she was in 'Love' with me. I knew this would happen but I acted surprised but I thought to myself "Why tell me now when you can't have me?". "Why do some girls do that.
I've had other similar experiences with girls that either didn't seem to care until they discovered I had a girlfriend or that they knew but didn't really care. I've never really understood why this happens but I always had theories.
I think some enjoy the thrill they get from such scandal. Breeding that "Forbidden passion.". The idea of being hidden and possibly getting caught bringing pleasure.
I think some find guys that are not dating, more responsible and appealing. More like "If a girl can hold him down, there was be something special about him". So they decide to have a bite from the cake.
I think some just like to see how hard a guy can hold up his defenses. Many have the believe that all guys are the same (Quite sexist though,but then again,of course we're the same. WE ARE GUYS!!!), so they try to test that theory.
Well,the list goes on. I personally, I know some just want physical gratification. Like the girl I spoke about, one time she was like I should just tell her I love her even if I didn't mean it They get what they've imagined and soon they begin to lose their interest. Kinda like ticking a box to indicate you've experienced something.
I'd know exactly why this happens but on an average, Having a piece of what they shouldn't have seems to be a prominent reason,but still I wonder "Why do some girls still go after guys that are taken?".