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AbdelKabir:
Why? Do you think schooling will distract marriage or marriage will distract schooling?



Oh, I have a cousin there...

not really. I've never been there so, I wouldn't know which would distract which. my parents would give me a 1001 reasons why I can't marry before grad. And asides, I might not be mentally ready for marriage then. Even now, I'm still taking a lot of time to learn about marriage and get ready for it. marriage is not an easy something bro

Snipes009:
I like this comment. I hope people get to realize the motives behind the warmongering of America and her allies in other countries, especially those in the Middle East and North Africa.

exactly. it's not as if America cares about these countries. she is just out to protect her own interest.

AbdelKabir:
Let's assume you still have more time this spend in school....would you?

Nope, I won't. schooling and marriage? I don't want to imagine it.



Which school is that sef?

Osun State University.

AbdelKabir:
Let's assume you still have more time to spend in school....would you?

Nope, I won't. schooling and marriage? I don't want to imagine it.



Which school is that sef?

Osun State University.

AbdelKabir:
I see....

So if you see a suitor that complements you deen wise even while in school, would you get married?

hmmm. well, I wouldn't have to worry about that tho since I have few months left to spend in school in shaa' Allah.

AbdelKabir:
You are not familiar with the state? You don't go out or you don't live there? Is ikire in osun?

yup, ikire is in Osun. I don't live there although I've been there for a while now as a result of school and I don't even make attempt to leave my campus sha. would just get lost

AbdelKabir:
Lol.... Osun.....hoping to visit Ede one day.....heard its a hotbed for learning the methodology of the salafs

could be true. ain't that familiar with the state of osun. I have wonderful friends from Ede sha. I'm presently in ikire

AbdelKabir:
Yep.....Hakane means "that's it".....don't mind me, trying to learn Hausa, are you from Nigeria? If yes, what part of Nigeria?

oh! learning other languages apart from urs is fun tho. all the best in ur 'Hausa journey'. I'm Nigerian. South West, osun state exactly.

AbdelKabir:
Toor....akane.....baarakallaahu feek

amin. BTW, toor means like a sigh right? nd what's akane??

AbdelKabir:
Yea.....Qur'an and sunnah following the methodology of the sahabas in understanding the texts right?

definitely.

AbdelKabir:
Someone whose methodology conforms with?

with the sunnah nd al-Qur'an of course. if that's what ur question implies

AbdelKabir:
And what could it be you looking for "deen wise"?

what do u think it could be?
someone whose deen is firm. who believes and follow the laws of Allah(swt). someone I can always rely on when I'm at my lowest peak nd vice versa. someone who puts Allah's first in dealing with me. who would help nd encourage me to strive harder. someone who is ready to help raise my kids with me islamically with the help of Allah. A friend, a companion, a brother, a teacher, a lover and husband who understands that Allah comes first.

Well, probably haven't found someone to complement me deen wise.

Demmzy15:
You keep embarrassing me every single time you post. So what North Korea feels or do is better than the life of Syrians?

Your taqqiyah is now fully blown, you're an Assadists in disguise!

Assadists really?
when America's motive is so apparent. America is only trying to appoint a puppet in Syria, hence their support for the rebels and their plan to oust Assad from government. if that's achieved, then trust me, Syria is in for it. America would control not just their political life but religious life as well.

Jazakumllah khayran ya akhi.

As-salam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu
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