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Dating a rich and successful man is the dream of many women, and to some, the dream seems almost impossible. If you're one of them, keep reading, this is for you! 
The same way it is easy to attract and fall in love with a mediocre is the same easy way to attract a rich man. You don't need to look like a 'Victoria Secret supermodel' to get a rich man. There are secrets that you must learn if you want to eat out in fancy restaurants, sit in the front seat of his fancy rides and never have to worry about your bills. I am going to share those secrets in just three simple tips.

1) YOUR STYLE AND LOOK MATTERS: use the 'look-the-role-to-get-the-role' approach.  If you want to be rich, you need to look rich. To date a rich man, you need to match up to his standard because a rich man is looking for an arm candy he can be proud to show off at corporate functions.  So the big question is 'what should I wear when hunting for my ideal man?' Pretty good question!
First of all, grab his attention by wearing anything red.  Red colour works well when it comes to attracting the male population in general or put on either a flirty dress, tailored trouser, tightly fitted top, or a pencil skirt.
Whatever you're wearing, make sure to show off an asset; wear a short dress if you love your legs, go for a deep neckline if you're into your cleavage, show off that tummy if you're proud of all that ab workout you do to get a tummy like that. But pick one, showing off too much at once tags you as desperate and it's not classy.

Rich men are looking for someone who can act as hostess, someone who can plan their social schedules, and someone they can show off at corporate functions and social events: a woman who's wearing a tank top and booty shorts with some flip-flops don't fit that ideal.
Take care of your hair and nails,  some jewelry does the trick as well as an alluring cologne. Wear extremely feminine shoes maybe some heeled slippers or a wedged sandals and go easy on the makeup, you don't want to scare him away... Do you? I don't think so!

2)  FINDING RICH MEN:
You can't go fishing in the forest. Now you're ready with your hook and basket, the question now is 'where can I find them?'
Discover where real money resides and move closer or adjust your life to meeting them. Eat out in those fancy restaurants, pick groceries in upscale neighborhoods and go for your morning jogs in their neighborhood. Don't go with a gaggle of friends, or another guy, instead, go with one or two friends. Make occasional eye contact and work your charms. Remember seduction starts from the eyes.

Alternatively, join an affluent dating website in Nigeria like EmilyDates, EliteSingles eHarmony, etc.

3) WHEN HE'S NOTICED YOU AND REEL IN: now that you've succeeded in luring and captivating his attention and he comes over, be yourself, be a smart conversationalist; keep in mind that the man you're going to date has a high intellect and would enjoy having intelligent conversations. It would be an immediate turn-off if you're 'beauty without a brain.' So educate yourself in knowing little about everything especially politics, sports, cars, human rights, weather, and religious and ethical views, etc. Indulge yourself in conversations that include interests and hobbies. If you have your business hint about it, it would add to his respect for you.  Remember to keep first conversations short, sweet and simple.

ADDITIONAL TIPS:

4) Never discuss his finances on your first date lest he writes you off as a 'gold digger'.

5) Don't ask for favours and money immediately.

6) Don't play into his hands right away when it comes to sex, a little hard-to-get doesn't hurt, it increases his level of respect for you.

7) Avoid wearing sleazy outfits so he can play for keeps.

Don't reject any gifts he offers on your first date even though they're outrageously expensive.

Were these tips helpful? Let me know in the comments section and if you have any additional tips you can share them in the comments section.

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