Romance › Re: Who Also Thinks Girls Who Wear Make-ups Have Low Self Esteem? by TELLHIT(op): 8:54pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
MadCow1: like I said, Make-up issue is not one of morality but choices. You have made yours, I have no issues with it, live with it. Where I have a problem is when you start question other peoples choices.
Yes.. My beards are natural, but why do I cut them off? Yes.. Because I don't like how they make me look. thereby making me look different from my 'REAL' look.
All men were not created equal. Stop judging other people and face your front Bro.
If the beard analogy does not satisfy you, I will do you one better.. Why do you wear clothes?! Are you ashamed of your natural state?! Are you of lesser self esteem to the nudists? Yeah! If you like being natural so much, you should follow it through and walk around in your original state.
Yup!! But you wear clothes.. Not just normal clothes but differently styled ones to achieve a different look each time. That's the way make up works. Rather than look at it from the perspective of esteem, look at it from the artistic side. Make-up pre-dates your great great grand parents. In some tribal native African clans, the women wear mud on their faces. in others, they wear 'tiro'.. Its to beautify, leave it at that.
And yeah I though of my response very well.. Maybe you should rethink yoru entire thread cos it reek of self righteousness. And your comment implied what I said, otherwise you wouldn't have singled out 'Light skinned' people.. If you feel I got it wrong, try explaining that 'light skinned comment and let me watch with delight as you dig yourself deeper into that hole.
I hope to God that you will learn your lesson and let this thread die a natural death. hmmmm.... Fyi am 100% light skinned so i got to speak fr my kind |
Romance › Re: Who Also Thinks Girls Who Wear Make-ups Have Low Self Esteem? by TELLHIT(op): 4:44pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
MadCow1: OP. I will agree with you if you also hold the opinion that men who shave also have low self esteem..
Truth is we all have our flaws. Things that you look at in the mirror and don't like and don't want people to see. I know a woman who has really horrible looking break outs on her face. She looks really horrible when it comes. if a little make up makes her feel better about her looks, why should I narrow it down to low self esteem?
Even the OP went as far as saying 'She does not see why light skinned people wear make up'. I wonder why she isolated light skinned people. Do you think dark skinned people wear make up to look white? Or do you think light skinned people are 'beautiful' and thus don't need make-up, cos the what that means is you feel light skin looks better than dark skin.
There is a saying: Live and let live. If you don't like make-up, don't wear it. Make-up is not an issue of morality, its a personal choice. Stop judging others and focus on yourself. You are not perfect nor are your feelings the yardstick by which everyone should live.
Fhucking selfrighteous prick..  think b4 u conclude.... . I didn't justify blak skinned ladies.... Also make-up is artificial and beards is natural. .. .... Afterall i see no reason why u shud relate both..... Wearing a nake-up makes me feel like someone else and false life is shiit bro |
Romance › Re: Who Also Thinks Girls Who Wear Make-ups Have Low Self Esteem? by TELLHIT(op): 4:07pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
Harbosede02: Yes dear....u are the only one dah thinks dat way!!!!! oh  |
Romance › Who Also Thinks Girls Who Wear Make-ups Have Low Self Esteem? by TELLHIT(op): 3:49pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
In my opinion i think they have a low self esteem coz i see no reason why even a light skinned girl s wud use make-up... To every lady that use make-up i believe lack of confidence, is a common attribute.... Am i d only one dat feel dis way |
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Romance › 7 Reasons Why We Lie To Ourselves And Partners And How To Stop It by TELLHIT(op): 8:39am On Oct 26, 2015 |
Here are 7 common reasons behind why people lie
compulsively.
#1 It comes naturally and it’s easy. It’s like waving hello
to someone on the street. You’re so used to lying, you
don’t think before lying.
#2 You feel ashamed. You lie to cover up a few things
about yourself that you’re ashamed about, be it your
upbringing, your past relationships or something else.
#3 You don’t want to hurt someone else. You fear you’d
break someone else’s heart by telling the truth. In most
cases, you’ve done something wrong intentionally and you
know that revealing your weak moment will only hurt the
one you love.
#4 You don’t want to be judged. Some people just can’t
imagine letting anyone else know their deep, dark secrets.
If you live a secret life and don’t want people to judge you
negatively because of your interests, you may end up
lying.
#5 You don’t want to get hurt. It’s easier to lie than face
the consequences of your actions. At the same time, you
should realize that your lie may get someone else in
trouble.
#6 You think it’s the easier way out. Telling the truth is
complicated and very difficult. And the worst part, it could
affect you negatively and make your life messier at times.
#7 You don’t respect yourself. You don’t think you have a
genuine answer that’s convincing enough. You think
you’re not good enough and no truthful reason you have is
good enough to convince someone.
[b]
Ways to stop lying
The benefits of lying may be several, but it all comes down
to this. Do you like the person you’ve become?
#1 Understand the fact. Realize that the lying is getting
out of control. You don’t like the fact that you lie so much
to everyone, so why lie?
#2 Have self respect. Most liars don’t have self respect.
They believe that the truth would make them appear bad.
Believe in yourself and respect yourself. You’ll become a
better person and refrain from doing anything that may
force you to lie.
#3 Have moral principles. If you have strong principles
and follow them, you won’t have to lie to anyone. Be your
own judge and avoid indulging in something that you have
to lie about. If you have to lie about it, you do know that
whatever you’re doing is wrong, so why do it in the first
place? [Read: How to resist temptation in love ]
#4 If you’re wrong, you’re wrong. Learn to accept your
fault instead of letting someone else take the blame.
Sometimes, the consequences can feel better than the
guilt.
#5 Don’t answer too fast. It’s alright to take time to think.
Compulsive liars don’t think before they talk. Lies just flow
out even before they make up their mind about whether
they want to lie or tell the truth.
#6 Put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Would you
like to be lied to all the time? Wouldn’t you feel hurt if you
knew that your partner is constantly lying through their
teeth for no reason at all?
#7 Talk to someone you trust. Tell a trustworthy person to
avoid judging you and tell them your deepest secrets. If
you can’t brave up to it, do it on paper, with an anonymous
friend or share it in the comments below. You’ll feel better
about yourself. [/b] |
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