masterchi:
then why worry?

he is every woman's dream

What of ladies that lost theirs during sports?

I'm sorry that I didn't add this earlier,I have a posture of a man and I play football,my attitude is "tomboyish",I've moved with a lot of guys and I know how it is,I know cool,nice guys can be dangerous.And also,bad guys can turn out good

[quote author=jamex93 post=38957825]Women problem too plenty jor



U r suspecting of wat u r guilty of

Na ur conscience dey do u so [/ I don't leave guys for no reason,I know what I want and the way I want it

Acidosis:
Sadly this is how Nigerian girls feel about guys that disvirgin them Confused & the feeling that they can't live without them.


Tomorrow this lady will marry another innocent man and start cheating on her ex (the playboy virgin slayer).



I must marry a virgin by fire by thunder

. You think I didn't leave him b'cos of that,I had tried to leave even before we had it,I just couldn't.It's like there is strong bond that doesn't give us the chance to be apart

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, this one hits closer to home.
OP, can I ask something? Have you ever thought of or actually went ahead & broke things off with him based on these unfounded fears, just so you can be "free" from all the inner turmoil?

. I tried it and he came back

masterchi:
this is one very confused op with a very confused story line. I smell confusion all over this thread.

. It's not that I don't love him,I really do love him,I feel I can't live without him.That's why I'm confused so that I won't be dumped,but he always tell me not to worry

I've been coming to NL for a long time now but I just opened an an account here not quite long ago.Pls,I need your advice(no insults,pls).I'll try to make it brief,so pls take things easy on me:We fell in love about 2yrs and 10months ago when I had admission into a higher institution,although he wasn't my first love but I can say he really got my heart that I don't want him to go.I had gotten into various relationships when I got out of secondary school(had no bf in secondary sch.),but I was just a player,playing with the hearts of those guys(not intentional),because I realised that most of them were after sex,I dumped them after testing the levels at which they can control their body,I made them reach climax through kissing and romancing and leave them high,then I'll break the relationship.Infact,I've been in a day-relationship.when I met him at my first year,first semester,I was having 3 guys already and he became the 4th,but I later left the other guys for him.And since then,I've always found it difficult to accept any other man.He is a handsome and nice guy.He later disvirgined me after about 6months of dating(can't explain how).he alwAys tell me that he loves me but whenever I introduce him to someone,they will tell me that he looks like a player,that he is more handsome to be true(I wasn't attracted by his looks cos we started dating before we met).Although,I've never caught him with a girl but whenever I checked his bbm,it always give me a doubt,I tried every possible method to catch him but he always appear to be clean.When I graduated,I do travel down to his place without telling him and funny enough,I always meet my stuffs the exact way it was,even up to my undies*.But,I still don't know if I can trust him.I'm sorry for the long and boring story,but please understand my plight,I don't have friends,I don't keep female friends,and. I can't open up to my male friends.Pls,help me,I really need to know if I can rely on him fully.(He might also be here)