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Hello everyone,

Please I have a quick question, I made payment on the 26th of Aug. for my US visa, and I have since been unable to schedule an interview appointment. It just shows “currently, there are no appointments available for the selected location”. I’m currently in Canada, so I’m wandering if it’s an IP issue or it’s a general problem. I also had problem paying, i could only pay in USD. Did anyone else experience or experiencing this please..?


Thank you all in anticipation.

Eketem:
1. Your emotions and fears are valid don't let anyone downplay it for you or force you to automatically accept this and act happy

2. You have been through a lot with conception so it is a shock to find this out

3. Don't rush into trying to be her mother, even your husband cannot automatically become her father, you guys are just getting to know each other, she has her own mother the best you can do is get to know her as she is and as you are no pretence.

4. Extend the basic decency and fairness in relating to her, don’t be rude or project your insecurity on her. Be calm let whatever relationship you would have with her naturally develop

5. She is coming to meet her father not to snatch your husband or too make her mother marry your husband, you are his wife she is his daughter there is no competition

6. I wish you the best. The worst thing you can do at the point is suppress your hurt and pretend. It would burst one day

Thank you. God bless you.

KanwuliaExtra:
*sighs*

Ermmmmm

OP dia?

One question please.

Besides this husband and this marriage, what else do you do with your life?

Thanks.

I do run two very successful businesses.

Thank you everyone, I really appreciate. It has been hard but i'm in a much better head space now. I came here to get other poeple's opinion on this matter because I did not want to be clouded by my emotions and make a wrong decision. My husband and I are working on our relationship, our lawyer has also written them requesting a DNA they are yet to revert. I'm thankful to God, my family, my in laws (they have been nothing but supportive) and most importantly everyone who has taken time out to offer a sincer advice; you may not know how much each comment/advice helped and lifted me up. I was hurting so bad. Thank you.

I really need people's advice on how to handle this, as the next few weeks will either break or make my marriage stronger. My husband and I have been married for 5yrs now but we have been together for 11yrs. We have been through so much together, ivf procedures, miscarriages, failed businesses and the usual ups and downs in every relationship. He came to me last night after discovering he has an 18yr daughter who he has never met or did not know till yesterday. We are still waiting on God. Although this was before we met but does not make it less of a blow. I want him to do right by his daughter but I also fear for my marriage. I only just learnt about this literally 8hrs ago so I'm in shock and still trying to wrap my head around it. I need people's unbiased advice. Thank you everyone.