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I need a followup on Dr fagbohun too pls

GenoMI:
Hi @damsel020. How was your trip back? Please I sent you a private message, I would like to ask a few questions about Dr Fagbohun, kindly check you mail box. Thank you.

Honestly I avnt....

seemorejoy:
@tenic how are you doing? Have you decide on any hospital yet

Pattyreal...I thank God for his kindness..still in d hsp ooo but av done some tests and av repeated like 3 scans...waiting for a test result to come out tmr and I was told by d doc that I will stil be here till monday before they knw if I go home or not...though baby is fine according to scan just d spotting to go

pattyreal:
Sorry dear I 4got 2 ask how u r doin? I hope all is well now? Tk kia dear.

Very helpful...thanks much....am not particular abt any doctor...all I want is an affordable one...tnx once again.

MiddyO:
@ Tenic09

You can apply for your doctor's appointmevnt as early as possible, I think its just better to be prepared and not leave anything till the lat minute. I contacted my hospital as early as 9 weeks
You can apply with your mom, and tell the V.O that she will help when the baby arrives. Your mom can also add her statement even if you state in your form that you or your husband will sponsor her. I added mine in my 'burden of proof' even though we listed my husband as the sponsor and it still helped.

As per your Doctor, i cant help with Dr Fagbohun, because I plan to use Elpaso in the future. You need to pay only $150 as registration fees to get your letter.

Hope this helps?

Ohk...tnx

pattyreal:
Doctoresparati is $160 or so. Check deir website sha

Ok ma...tnx...sebi letter of responsibility is. Just for getting d letter and pls hw much did u pay?[quote author=pattyreal post=27355580][/quote]

Now I have a question and pls permit me...
1}When do i start seeking for the doctor's appointment letter when am likely to go for interview by dec/jan...cos I will be going with it to the embassy and I don't knw how soon the doctor replies
2}I read from one of d post on dis thread from a woman dat said she was denied of a visa cos she paid the doctor before coming to the embassy that they av stated severally that no payment shld be made b4 seeking for visa and somebody also told me here that paying the doctor is like pushing the vo to a tight corner and it makes dem deny some pple...pls does Dr fagboun gives appointment without payment? Or is dere any doc I can contact without paying...though I already read Dr fagboun doesn't but I need to Be sure.and I dnt want to risk paying and now get a better offer later..
3)Am thinking of applying with my mum....does dis give me a better chance
She has her own biz...do we include her statement or we shld just use only my hubby to cover hers too
Pls,biko,ejoor....answer my question abeg....pity my condition....and also if anyone is just applying like me....let's rub minds...we can talk outta here...thnkx

Seemorejoy it is well with ur wife...soo sorry abt the loss and pls believe in God dat he has a better plan for u dis time...prayer is the key!!!yes the master key!!!I cald ur number severally yst but switch off

seemorejoy:
@ Tenic and Woaini God will see all of us through in Jesus name. My wife is also may 2015 and I can't wait for the date to come. We had our first daughter in April this year and also lost it same day after 4 days of labor. I pray we will all survive child labor in Jesus name.

Amen...tnx alot...do the goggle search or try and read some pages cos some mums has shared there experience before...even few pages backward talked abt these two doctors..its well explanatory

IyawoToBe:
Fear not dear! The lord is your strength. "Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."

@mamacajah I claim ur miracles! for he has done urs...he will surely help me too...tnx a lot @kykes prayer verse noted...tnx sooo much @snowles I appreciate u too...GOd bless u @tvegas dats so kind of you...I so much appreciate u and amen to all ur prayers...am also an addict of this thread...lol@bloggerina..tnx a bunch I appreciate..
May almighty God meet u all at ur point of needs and we all shall deliver safely...whichever way its comin.. vaginal delivery/cs...it shall be the safest of all for all of us...

I feel more strong with all ur prayers...tnx u sooo much!!!Come may 2015 come our babies!!!

fehinebony:
Yes dear God has the healing power and final say, and he ll do what only him can do in your life, in Jesus name, No weapon formed against us all shall prosper, psalm 34: 19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all. That ll be your portion in the mighty name of Jesus, Amen
Am also an April/May mum and by the special grace of God we ll all have cause to rejoice at end ..Amen

Amen!!!

MamaTobenna:
God is with you Tenic09. It is well

Am sooooo touched!!!see tears...omg!!!!we will testify to his greatness,God will keep us and d babies safe ijn and we shall deliver just like the hebrew women...and I pray all d awaiting mothers of nairaland will never av reasons to mourn ourselves ijn....we all re covered with the power and blood of jesus!!!we shall rejoice!!
Woani...come may 2015!!!come USA!!!come the strength in us!!!come our beautiful and healthy babies ijn

woaini:
Tenic09, we have somethings in common. May mamas, yet to get a visa, then in bed!. Now I will add you to my prayers, come may 2015 we would welcome our babies. The Lord that has started this and put a growing life in us would sustain it, Jehova has the final say. Faith overcomes all fear, and I trust only Jesus to perfect what he has started in us. We would share our testimonies *big hug*

Amen !!!tnx I realy do appreciate...

pattyreal:
It's well wit u tenic09, God will meet u @ d point of ur needs! No weapon fashioned against ur lives shall prosper! Psalm 91 is a must read now. U r healed IJN.

Amen!!!!tnx I appreciate

shagaman:
@tenic09 you are healed because you have faith,you shall see your baby because you shall be healed.....Ameen

My prayer point....God shld lay his hands on me for quick recovery and get me out of dis admission bed safely..he shld cover myself and d unborn with d blood of jesus...any act of threatning miscarriage shld not be my portion ijn.....even though the doctors says but I believe God has the healing and final say..I need healing....tnx

Tvegas:
Morning everyone,i think everybody should get over this recurrent argument on questions and responses. A little issue came up between bloggerina and raii and both of them have settled it like kinsmen should do,so you should let the matter rest. Ask your questions and if you dont get answers dont pick on anyone. Also if some questions irritiate you simply ignore them for the Sanity of the thread. CASE CLOSED.

You people should not let me vex this sunday morning or else you wont like the outcome. Am heading to church right now,make una send una prayer requests join. Some equations can only be solved by Baba God. Happy Sunday

Bloggerina at a point I got scared of asking ooo...all I do is to read read and read and write down..compiling them till I knw wat to do...even at d hsp on admission..I read mrn and night and write down every useful info dat any doc that passes by look at me and wonder what I write..anyways pls be patient with pple like us...thanks.

bloggerina:
Lol @ "guguru and epa things".
Anyway, if anyone wants ask a sound question, why should the person be afraid?
Even the most patient person here will oneday get tired of repetitive questions coz there are some questions that just make you wonder if the person considers this thread to be a quick-fix or a network of consultants.
There's no "professional" on the topic, that's why we are all here - for facts, info and learning. But we have to read don't we?

Yes o....kudos to phema nd some mamas in d house...not those mamas that will still ask questions that re already making jest of other mamas...and for those mamas that ask questions like me,,pls let's adjust and try read very well b4 asking.
Anyways am still going to ask question and I seriously wish to be ignored than to be insulted...but @phema I need u to pls answer me even if u want to eat popcorn and pepsi...I will be glad to buy and bring to ur house...let's all stay in unity and love[quote author=mabels post=27259016][/quote]

I quite understand and agree to wat u said and its similar to wat I wrote too....its annoying truly to ask questions over and over again and av not insinuated that d question shld be answered and for anyone to stress herself on goin tru d pages to refer another person just in d name of answering a question.....my dear I read and read before I joined d family...and I always note d page where I stopped so as to knw where to start anytime I log in...I once asked a question upon all my wole soyinka reading and phema directed me to a page which was very useful and if anyone ask same question I will be glad to refer he/she cos I knw where it was discussed not by going out of my way to answer
Just looking for a familiar and better way to relate with ourselves...thats all!

Mwams:
I agree that the thread is meant to be helpful, but surely, why should people keep asking questions that have been discussed time and again? it's only fair that people go through the thread and then ask for clarification or questions on information that they cannot find on the thread. It gets boring seeing the same questions each and every day. Anyone who is seriously seeking info should be able to read, and asking people to refer them to specific pages means that we should go back searching the thread just to direct them to the right page? I think that's expecting too much.

Pls dear mamas in the house...dis thread is meant to be helpful and I think that is why we re all here...we thank and appreciate those mamas that has been giving vital info and am sure it has helped a lot of pple like me...but its getting to a point whereby one get scared to ask question...pls let's be calm with each others and I think if some pple find it difficult to read and ask repeated questions...d best thing is to ignore if u can't answer or refer d person to a page if u can, rather than all dis gururu and epa things..its sounds like jest to me" if u ignore a question or answer by saying "read all over"..its ok
And for d person dat said she was sent back and her visa was cancelled...we shld av at least let her explain her own part and if its same with all d lies dats leads to refusal...pple can keep reading and learning from pple like her..
A proffessional today was once a learner and YES that's it..let's give room to be friendly with ourselves cos we might need help from someone outta here and we don't knw who dat cld be...thankx all...I stand to be corrected if dere is need for it...

Pls how do I send my pin thru pmbeen trying to do that...tnx

hardeyshorlah:
We av set up a bb grp u can send ur pin thru PM so we can add you

Ok....its fine...u can drop ur email or digit maybe we cld talk in private....I live in lagos

seemorejoy:
@tecnic09, my wife is also may to precise and we ain't got no visa yet we want to apply. But I want to be the tie embassy requested for under section 214 I was thinking maybe only my wife could apply or apply with my mother.

Yes am here.....May to be precise....do u av a valid visa or u re just applying like me

seemorejoy:
April - May 2015 mom in the house

Also waiting for answer to this question...though I quiet understand that with ur hubby being the sponsor with all necessary document and of course a pretty statement of account that can cover ur bills...its ok...but wat abt a new enterprenuer or housewife but also with the help of hubby...can dere be any issue?..

Vivi14:
Thanks for responding.

Do you think I would have issues as a housewife/ new entrepreneur, I see that they keep asking people where they work. I hope that won't affect the chances of getting a visa.

Also, how long do people usually plan to be in the US for when having a baby? Is 3 months too short? Considering you have to get a new passport and Nigerian Visa to travel?

Thanks again

Tnk you phema......av read the pages and I av written them down in my jotter named "Procedure on giving birth in the us" lol....I appreciate
Don't u mamas think we can also av a bbm group.....I think for notification purpose..
Just saying...if necessary....so inlove with the forum

Phema:
You can check pages 104 and 105 of this thread. You will see a detailed account of my interview and documentation.

Tnx phema...I appreciate

Phema:
You can check pages 104 and 105 of this thread. You will see a detailed account of my interview and documentation.

Tnx......I was even told changing my name in abuja now might take close to 4_5 month before I can get d new passport cos of the new policy...am afraid that is not wat I want now cos I don't want anything to affect the application...if only I can be rest assured that I will get the passport before december so every thing can go inline with my time..
I also called an immigration officer today if its possible for me to renew my passport now since its still next year feb before it expires and he told me definitely...thinking maybe I shld still leave tthe change of name for now since someone here said it doesn't matter if myself and hubby av same name or not just backing it up with enough evidence..
My question now is "does it show to dem at the embassy which status one belong on the passport or they don't know since its not written on the passport cos its called E Passport( I.E Miss or Mrs)

mabels:
Congrats luxury.

@tenic09.
I wud advise u change ur name to ur husband's, and to do that since you ve done a change of name b4, u ll be needing some documents. When my step sister did hers, the following documents were asked from her
Her divorce paper, (don't forget u can get anything in naija)
The present marriage cert
News paper publication for change of name
Court affidavit
And the other normal documents. Getting ur passport might take time cos change of name takes more time than d normal passport renewal and cos of the new approving madam (officer)there.

Tnx...my major problem abt my passort is this...
In jan 2009 I applied for a visa at the uk embassy and I was denied of it cos of fake acc details given to me by someone that gave me invitation letter which affected me..
In 2010 I tried island embassy(dublin)which the agent that helped me then advised I change my surname claiming am married stating reason that uk and dublin embassies av connections togther...that I av to change that passport that they refused me on and also change my surname claiming am married...as I don't know anything then so I had do wat he asked me to do..
I went to abuja...changed the surname and that is still the present passport I have that will expire soon...my hubby's name is diff from mine and if he has to be the sponsor I will be happy abt it cos he has all it takes on his document to help me to a point and interview does the rest....Now if he sponsors and we have diff names...won't my own passport indicate married to another name/the name I used in 2010 which its not his/i know av made a big mistake by changing my name in the first place but trust me I did it out of little or no knowlegde...

GenoMI:
@tecnic09 Who will be acting as your sponsor? Yourself or your hubby? If it is your hubby then you will need his statement of accounts, proof of employment/source of income etc. I don't think it's such a problem that your business is not yet registered, you can simply explain to the VO if asked what you do that you do small scale buying and selling and that your hubby is the main sponsor.

But if you will be sponsoring yourself then yes, you will need to show proof of income, be able to account for the funds in your account, prove that you have enough to sufficiently cover the birthing project, prove you have strong ties here in Naija etc etc

my hubby has been to US but the major problem is we don't av thesame name on our passport..
I'm assuming this means your passport still carries your maiden name? This is not a problem at all as discussed on this forum several times, as long as you have your marriage certificate. I guess you can also carry your affidavit for change of name, and newspaper page showing your marriage announcement. Hope this helps.

I seriously need help towards the application
Please don't be soo worried / anxious, the application is not as hard as you think at all and it's something you can do by yourself - as @Tvegas said you don't need an agent. Any other questions you have I'm sure the house will be happy to help out in any way.

Am now happy as all these comment re giving ways......hmmmm...am already writing them down....the issue is just that I run a business of my own but I don't av a registered name yet...I also av a dubai in and out visa on my present passport and also a dublin visa which was denied some years back....also my passport wld expire next year feb..which I can't apply on the present passport untill I renew it and that time I will be 6months gone by then....my hubby has been to US but the major problem is we don't av thesame name on our passport...I seriously need help towards the application

Tvegas:
Since you've read through I feel obliged to also respond. Paying your bill before the interview doesn't guarantee a visa, it has worked for some and it didn't work for some. The key thing is that the VO must be convinced that you are qualified for a NIV before anything. Therefore your strong ties to Nigeria and performance during the interview is what you should focus on.

I will advise you to personally package your application as 3rd parties can make costly errors that will tarnish your record for life. An agent once told me to put married in my form while I was single. Apart from some certain types of Visa you don't need an agent's help. If you have further questions post them here and let's tackle them so that others can learn. And like @mummybee said "Thou shalt know the proofs and the proofs shall set you free"

I will do that now....am applying alone...tnx a bunch

mummybee:
@tenic09 I see u've really read a lot on this thread. Well, paying hospital bills, or accommodation bill or whatsoever doesn't guarantee ur Visa approval. Its like u're pushing the VO to a tight corner and trust me dat kain tin fit vex dem. When u're not sure of getting d visa, y go ahead to pay bills? Are you applying alone or with hubby? Pls stil go ahead to read d rest of the pages or click @PhEma's post 2 see her 'burden of proof'. That should guide you alot.

@rail....tnk you so much...I really appreciate ur reponse...I just pray they give me the visa irrespective of whichever one I do

raii:
I think it depends on you but most mamas jst used a doctor's appointment but u can show tge VO a document showing the bills you would be paying and your acct statement showing enough funds.