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This story reminds me of a book by James Hadley Chase. A man assured his life with his wife being the beneficiary. The lady found out and automatically wished him death. She went every length to kill him and finally did. Though the clause on the contract prevented her from getting the compensation. So after reading that I realized it not so good a decision to embark on such journey. Your spouse might have other plans. Remember some couples are bonded by selfish interest or mere circumstance not necessarily love.

You just said you contributed over 60%, might be true or maybe a way to get readers on your side. That's bytheway. Now the truth is, no man uses his wife as next of kin (especially if he wants to have his family going even after death), no doubt he can will some properties to her. From the questions which you're yet to reply to, I assume you don't have a child yet, then if that's the case don't expect to be his next of kin of highest beneficiary of his property. Naturally we trust our siblings more than anyone else except in cases when they have done things that killed that trust. So his brother is the best bet for a next of kin when he hasn't got a kid yet.

On a second thought, have you carried out a DNA test to verify if that boy is truly ours? You never can tell, there could be a stronger bond btw your wife and the man in question than what you think. Just give it a thought, you won't regret doing.

You're considering the feelings of your son (which is quite commendable) but you aren't considering the harm you're doing to yourself. Things are gradually falling apart, emotional trauma, its also affecting you psychologically and professionally. If its not put in check it might go so bad that you loose it. If all you need to have your life back is seperation, then I advice that. Your son will grow to understand provided you give him the best life you can afford

HopeAtHand:
She actually looked more beautiful as a dark lady.

That said, no black beauty ever compares to a naturally fairer lady of the same level of beauty..we have to be truthful to ourselves

Beyonce, Rihanna, Christina Milan etc are lighter skin and are beautiful damsels, they wouldn't have half their beauty if they were black..

I dnt blame anyone who choose light over blackness or maybe darkness.

Seeing Rihanna in your list of beautiful damsels made me realize you know not what beauty is

Not quite sure if Fashola was trying to exaggerate the numbers, but the truth is the president's visit causes lots of security lapses. I witnessed his visit sometime ago in Imo state. All the forces were deployed at very locations from the as far as Onitsha Owerri road to the Imo airport. In my opinion, he has his security network/personnel, he should work with it and little of the state's security and not taking upto 40% of them and living the citizens at the mercy of criminals

pekeyim:
Nice one OP.

Especially when drivers are doing 120 km/h on Benin Ore road but they'll leave their windows down/ open to save fuel even when they have AC in their vehicle.




@OP I disagree with number 4. For an automatic car you can just switch to Neutral while in traffic, Because starting and stopping your car continuously take a considerable amount of fuel.

Like you trying to move smth that's @ rest, you'll need considerable amount of power.

But Of course if you are stuck in that type of traffic that doesn't move for 5 minutes, then number 4 is valid.



Thank me later.

Putting it on neutral isn't really advisable when you're in traffic. Might roll and hit another vehicle if you're on a sloppy spot

7footre:
If you put as much effort as you did in getting her pregnant in searching for a job, you won't be here talking about this... and she is not even the 1st to get pregnant for you! man find sometin doing toto no be permanent work!

Hahahaha. You got me laughing real hard

I've always wanted to ask if no alcohol @ all poses any problem to the body. Because I haven't had anything alcohol for almost 4years now

Yes I believe their action was uncalled for and maybe driven by selfish interest. But this hating because a region wants to break out is totally uncalled for. Before you start asking for their head remember Biafra isn't alone in this sruggle for independence, Scotland is, Catalonia too even after the Spanish civil war, same as Nigeria's. Surely they'll get their wish maybe in a very long time no one knows. But before then, they remain a part of the unfruitful union and also have a say as to what how they want it to go.

apcmustwin:
Imagine if a northerner or APC member had said this

“there
will be crisis and people will die.
“The crisis will and can even lead to a
war and we don’t want bloodshed."

This silly nyamiris would have shouted foul. Smelly dirty set of misguided and delusional he goats. As if any tribe or region takes them serious. Mumu follow follow embittered low lifes.

Na small una see during civil war. Make una try make noise again and see how them go wipe all of una accursed families off d surface of Nigeria. Greedy bitter momfos.

I don't want to call you an idiot, but sorry I think you're one. You rain curse (even though it worthless) on a whole tribe just because of insignificant number of them on a selfish mission, I weep at ur sense of judgement. I guess you're from the northern region (nyamiri you used), if so am not surprised because that region isn't mentally developed enough to be classified homo sapiens. This same region that has been a torn in the flesh of the country, draging the country backwards and giving it all negative image globally. Mr man go get busy

Will endure the pains till she finishes the call (might cause some complications if I try removing it myself). But as soon as she removes it, no fewer than 5 matured slaps will cover every corner of her face.

Philadelphia:
Yes it is Infact, they use some parts in common and they have almost the same engineering. Lexus is the luxury version of toyota. Compare a camry with an es300, a highlander with an rx300 / 350 and a corolla with a gs 300. Just like Acura is the luxury model of Honda Accord (Crosstour and ZDX), While Infinity is the luxury model of Nissan. Compare murano and fx, qx and pathfinder. The latest qx seems to be a modified nissan pathfinder. It was recently that the nissan qashqai was introduced and it seems to be a combination of both the nissan murano and infinity fx.
These are my observations. More expert reviews are welcomed.

Thanks for the info. Didn't know

ginawest:
konji truly z a bastard....chai!!!of all animals, y must it b nnama?....wot sort of pleasure does one derive from raping a cow?

My dear its no konji issue. Some people's case is just more than physical

Kayendy:
I don't know abt oda states but Abia wia I stay... toyota is d brand for almost everyone... expecially lexus now

Is Lexus a model of Toyota?

hensben:
They are just like GEJ led government...smh....Igbos know how to flood things that will generate money but always ignore the standardization of the said thing....in tuface's voice ' all them know na just to make a naira' whereas Yoruba and Hausa work on things to perfect it before they start thinking of what to gain from it(which is always the best if you want to get to the top)...that's the difference

Pls could you mention one of the things either Yoruba or Hausa has worked to perfection in this country.

ChristyG:
hahahhaha,nigga u wish,not with d numrous ibos dat hausa have killed since 1966.ibos started d hate,so dey deserve to be hated

Igbos have always been at the receiving end because majority of the strangers happen to be Igbo. Let's not go far from the topic. If Dstv's reason for not having Igbo station is
because they think its not marketable, then they tell themselve lies. The entertainment industry got to this height because of the aggressive marketing done by mainly the Igbo marketers in Lagos and Onitsha.

QueenColeen:
Going through all these comment, I can see that there's much hatred in this country. As a yoruba lady, I'm ashamed at the kind of insults my brothers and sisters are using on the Igbos. How many hausas have insulted them this much on nairaland?

So nice hearing this from an open minded nice lady like you. Nigeria would ve a very great country but for the hate. History has it that Hausa and Igbo had the best relationship (even in governance) not until the Akintola faction caused a problem btw both tribes. The Igbos planned a coup to salvage the western region which was in chaos then but got into more trouble with the north as the Yorubas too denied them. An average hausa doesn't hate an Igbo man. Yoruba's do

Its obvious this country is made up of 3 competing tribes with each trying to play down the importance and contributions of the other. The yoruba's hatred consequent of their fear of the Igbo dominance cannot be denied. The best movies in Nigeria were produced by Igbos, then why the thinking that they've got nothing to air if given a station? Its a shame that while the SE and SS keeps the economy of Nigeria floating, the others always want to downplay their importance. Hausa and Yoruba have collaborated to make the Igbo irrelevant in politics (politics being a game of number, not necessarily creativity or intellect), but still find them as treat. I weep for this divided country